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The intern's daily life, arriving at the company at 8:30 in the morning and leaving work at 6:00 in the afternoon, the time after work is really their own.
How to deal with free time after work, this is the main reason why you open the gap with others, self-discipline after work is not difficult, the difficulty is to persist day after day.
Some time ago, I stumbled upon a blogger on a platform who insisted on getting up at 4:30 a.m. every day, and she had a wonderful three hours in the morning, which could be completely at her disposal.
There is no busy work, no children's noise, only yourself to do what you have to do, and really invest time and energy into "improving yourself".
Some people may say that they can't do such a fight at all, and feel that it is not necessary to get up at 4:30 a.m., but when others develop these good habits, it is really just a small thing in the self-discipline life, not worth mentioning, not as surprised as you are.
Life needs to be lived day by day, but how to live it, or depends on your own performance and practices, mentality has never been related to age, do not set limits for yourself, everything is possible.
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Don't always think about retirement, or your life will be more difficult
In real life, there is such a phenomenon, working in the system, or working in state-owned enterprises, those who are elderly, often discuss the topic of retirement.
One senior retired this year, but she rarely discussed this topic, but continued to stand on the last shift and do her job well.
Her own work, she did not choose to deal with it casually because she was about to retire, but still handled things very rigorously and meticulously.
However, those seniors who still have a few years to retire often discuss the time of retirement in their free time, and their mentality is that they will stay up until they last a few more years.
Although there are many difficult problems to be faced at present, it is still necessary to solve them hard, because if you choose to give up or escape, it will take a great price to pay.
However, when it comes to "retirement", there are also mentors who have retired after about five years, and she never participates in the discussion of that kind of person, because she feels that it is a waste of time.
Instead of counting time and counting days every day, it is better to live day by day, think less about distant things, and take care of the present itself is not an easy task.
There is a very kind sentence in the book:
What wears people is not the distant mountains, but a grain of sand in the shoes, and all the "ifs" and "maybes" are the sand that falls into the heart. ”
If you retire early, what can be changed, what should happen will happen, the people you should know will meet, instead of rushing, it is better to calm down and enjoy the beauty of the moment.
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Put away your grievances, calm your mind, and do your job well
At work, it is inevitable that you will meet some people with bad tempers every day, even if you want to have a fight with him at the time, but you still hold back.
Banks close at five o'clock in the afternoon every day, and some customers are very busy, while going to work, while coming to the bank to do things, both sides can not delay, there will always be some friction.
The other day, a father came to consult what time we left work, he wanted to bring his daughter from work to handle business, because he needed face recognition, he needed to be himself, so the time was very rushed.
From the father's body, you can see that he is anxious, and at the same time, his temper is also very straight, and some words are indeed disliked by others, but behind his directness is frankness.
He had no time to stop and rest, and he was preoccupied with solving the problem, and after five o'clock in the afternoon, the bank staff had to deal with a lot of things.
The tellers all had their own busy things to do, and after being rejected, the father was very angry, but still sought the help of the staff.
Later, the young boy who had just joined the company helped him with the matter, and even though he had a lot of work on hand, he was still very patient to help the customer solve the problem, and the customer thanked him very much.
However, in the daily work during the day, not every customer will say "thank you" to you, you solve his needs, he will leave without looking back, and if you do not solve his needs, he will spit and complain very loudly.
I strongly agree with one sentence:
"When an emotion stagnates in us, we don't have to suppress it, we have to learn to channel it slowly, although emotions are not part of life, but emotions are equal to life." 」
When the customer is annoyed or blames the staff, the most test is the psychological quality of a workplace person, aside from the work, we will very much want to argue with each other, but reality does not allow us to do this, otherwise it will be ourselves who will be hurt.
No matter how difficult the future customers are, try not to clash with each other, grievances are only temporary, what you have to do is to focus on improving your work ability.
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When you embrace work, you're embracing a better future
A truly capable person, no matter what kind of job you give him, he can always do a very good job.
This kind of person is a capable person in the workplace, an employee that the leader likes, and a person who is willing to work hard and is not afraid of hardship or temperament.
Every industry has its own difficulties, if you already know which way to go, then be firm and don't waste time on the road of wandering.
Workplace whites often like to complain and complain, obviously their own ability is insufficient, but they are very good at finding excuses for themselves, which is why he has been standing still.
The workplace has described the workplace as a "mushroom law":
"During that period of lack of attention, like mushroom cultivation, they were placed in a dark corner, accepting all kinds of groundless criticism and accusations, which were received by generations and did not receive the necessary guidance and promotion."
The more you face such a bad situation, the more you have to face the difficulties, rather than let it knock them down, many things will not be too smooth at the beginning, so that the road to pursuing your dreams is not crowded.
Every job, as long as you take it seriously, will definitely have gains, when you really try to learn to explore, you will become more and more familiar, more and more comfortable.
Of course, the workplace is not like the school with teachers to teach patiently, the workplace is more cruel, you have to rely on yourself to grope, others can teach at most, and the rest is really only up to you to grasp.
I hope that every morning you can greet the daily work with the best state, and every day after work, you can also put down the unhappiness and grievances of the day and enjoy the night after work.
Don't bring work to life, don't let your emotions be affected by work, don't give the worst temper to the most kind people, calm down, take your time, everything will get better and better.
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Author: Wang Tao emotional, a post-00s naughty girl who loves life and loves writing, walks with a conscience, even if her life is ordinary, she is also joyful, I hope that my words can bring you warmth and the strength to move forward.