I was always a well-behaved woman before I married my husband, and I didn't dare to ask for it, why? In my heart, I have always felt that my family is poor and not rich, so I try not to add trouble to my family. Hard to live as a child who can't cry, so there is no sugar to eat. In my own heart, I always feel that good things are not worthy of having, because I have nothing, I don't cause trouble to others, and it is not easy for my brothers and sisters. For various reasons, I am particularly introverted, I am timid when I see strangers, I don't have big dreams, and I live like a salted fish, lying flat.
Later, I met my husband, who was beautiful and tall and thin, and was my favorite type. In front of my husband, I don't need to have low self-esteem at all, because the conditions in his family are not very good. I don't have to worry about my family conditions are not good, and I am not excellent, small, in addition to looking small and exquisite, there is no special advantage. I feel that I am the right person for the two of them, I can't be a family that is too rich, and the money will not necessarily be spent for me. My personality is also the kind of person who is straight, the kind who will not bear to be silent in the face of injustice. So if the good one is not high for me, and the family is worse, I have the right to speak. But my sister doesn't think so, they think I just jumped from one kang to another, and I won't enjoy it, because they were like me, full of enthusiasm and righteousness, married to my brother-in-law who had nothing. Today, life is also tight, and I have never had a lot of money on hand.
Now watching me go the same way as them, the blood spurting in my heart, because in their hearts, I am different from them, I have gone to college, with a high degree, unlike them, graduated from elementary school and junior high school. I was carefully groomed by them, and it is reasonable to say that marrying someone is a plus, not end up being like them. You said that they are not angry, although I have a good life and they have little to do with it, but it is also painful to have a bad look. Therefore, I am against marrying my husband, not that my husband is not good, the most important thing is that the family foundation is too thin, can not withstand a little wind and waves, anti-risk ability is not good, but the family's character is not to say.
And I just insisted on marrying my husband, not because he looked like my requirements, but deeply felt that he was a potential stock, a dark horse, and I felt that way in my heart. At the beginning, I was not afraid of suffering, but I was afraid of suffering for a lifetime, and the kind that could not see the head was not allowed. I am willing to accompany my husband to suffer for a while, not a lifetime of suffering. Those who have good conditions, good character, and good parents, I think it is difficult for me to meet, so I simply do not have extravagant expectations. If you encounter those who are old and unmotivated, and they have no ability, then their life will not be over. So I still found a door-to-door marriage.
Now I have been married for almost three years, and my life is also thriving, not to say how good it is, but at least to live comfortably and not to be upset. My husband is indeed self-motivated, likes to study, there is no bad habit, the little life is not alarming, the son is also handsome, see the handsome son, the heart is also feel extremely content. At present, the material life is not particularly rich, but for me, this point is really nothing, no house and no car, all rely on my husband alone, for the time being, it is indeed impossible to achieve, for me, the demand for a caravan is not so strong. I don't have a deep attachment to these things, and the health of the family is the most important.
My husband often jokes about me, saying that I am married to him and have a handsome son, which is the thing I am most proud of, and to be honest, it is. When I gave birth to a handsome son, I was incredibly proud. I didn't expect that I actually had a handsome son, thinking about all the beautiful things in life, things that I didn't dare to think about before, I didn't expect that all of them happened to me, it was incredible. Think of how inferior I was before, how no requirements, the requirements for myself is to live, and now the requirements are that the family is healthy and happy, and how much money is made, haha!