As we all know, the entertainment industry is a big dyeing vat, and the interests are full of temptations.
Self-cleaning stars are very rare.
Today I will tell the story of a "wonderful man in the world".
First, debut for decades, the role of red people is not red
The protagonist of the story, named Chan Kam Hung, was born in Hong Kong in 1967.
Maybe the name looks strange, but his face must still be familiar to everyone.
He is "Xu Wenqiang" in the TVB version of "New on the Beach" in 1996.
It is in the TV series "Heaven and Earth Pride", who is kind and sincere, cares for relatives and friends, knows that his qualifications are relatively poor, and strives to make up for it with diligence.
It is a good young man who once had ideals and ambitions in the TV series "Genesis", but unfortunately lost his nature under the influence of fame and fortune and became a money slave "Xu Wenbiao".
It is ge Guoguang, who is sincere and responsible, kind and tame, filial to parents, and loves the family in the TV series "Wife Adult".
Chen Jinhong has played many classic roles.
Although many times it is not an absolute male number one, every character is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and some are even popular with the protagonist.
For example, his "Xu Wenbiao" in the Book of Genesis, both good and evil, struggles between fame and fortune and love and friendship, full of human characteristics.
Unfortunately, he belongs to the type of actor whose role is not red.
The main reason is not that TVB does not praise him, but that Chen Jinhong belongs to the kind of actor who has no ambition.
Information Times: Since the beginning of "New On the Beach", you have been considered to be the successor of Chow Yun-fat, but then you did not succeed in taking office, but left wireless, why?
Chen Jinhong: Because the biggest difference between me and Zhou Runfa is "Fighting Heart". I am a person who does not have a "fighting heart", but in the entertainment industry to succeed in the position, the "fighting heart" must be strong, and there must be a lot of abandonment. For me, the first thing I don't want to give up is health. That's why I left Wireless that year, working too long. In addition, in wireless pay is too little, can not save money, I need to earn money to get married, raise a family.
There is actually a reason why Chen Jinhong's personality is like this.
When Chen Jinhong was born, his father ran a small factory, and his family was relatively wealthy. But the good times did not last long, when he was in elementary school, his father suffered from cerebral hemorrhage, which led to the fall of the family.
In order to support the family of 7, the mother had to work hard to make ends meet.
Fortunately, the whole family not only did not complain at all, but also huddled together under the same roof for warmth.
The experience of childhood has made Chen Jinhong have a strong sense of responsibility from an early age, which is why he always puts health and family first, rather than money and status.
In addition, he was born in a family with many sisters, and the traditional concept of his sister also had a great influence on him, "I wanted to get married and have children from childhood to adulthood, and I already wanted to get married when I was nineteen years old."
Including the attitude towards marriage, it will also be considered from the perspective of women.
Second, the top cultivation of men is to respect their wives
Chen Jinhong and Du Wenhui
Chen Jinhong and "radio DJ" Du Wenhui (Ada) met in Weishi, and the two fell in love for 6 years before officially marrying in 2004.
In fact, as early as 2000, Chen Jinhong already wanted to get married.
But at that time, he gave all his savings to his mother to build a house and had no money to get married.
This is one of the reasons why Chen Jinhong left TVB that year and signed for "China Star".
"The reason for leaving wireless that year was that the working hours were too long. In addition, in wireless pay is too little, can not save money, I need to earn money to get married, raise a family. ”
Chen Jinhong has great respect and responsibility for his lover.
Du Wenhui wanted to get married, so he respected the other party's wishes and went to get married.
So much so that when I got married, I didn't even buy a wedding ring.
Only give the woman a watch.
When signing the "China Star", the original contract required That Chen Jinhong not to deliberately disclose his relationship.
But he felt that he had made his relationship public with Du Wenhui, so he negotiated to change it to not deliberately disclosing his emotional life. If asked by reporters, Chen Jinhong can answer, and those who are followed by the "paparazzi" have nothing to do with him.
Du Wenhui usually does not like to eat the main meal, Chen Jinhong will do a good job, tirelessly serve her food, tell her that this is good for her body.
If the woman still does not eat in the end, he does not force it.
Most of the housework is also contracted by Chen Jinhong.
"My wife is more interested in art and not in housework. So most of the time I'm cooking, she's watching TV, playing video games or writing scripts. ”
Even all the properties in the home, such as real estate, cars, etc., only write the name of the wife.
"I am a traditional oriental man. My father died early, and the whole family was female, so I felt that women needed protection in life and spirit, and the property wrote her name to protect her spiritually. As long as our feelings haven't changed, we live on that floor; even if we're not together, she won't be without anything. ”
In May 2007, Du Wenhui gave birth to a son named Chen Chahua.
Every time Chen Jinhong talks to the media about the feeling of having children, he immerses himself in it and is difficult to extricate himself.
He told reporters that before becoming a father, he never thought that he could treat a person so gently, and even just looking at the baby would be able to help but smile.
So, the couple intends to have another life, with the ideal goal of having three children.
Without thinking, a diagnosis book shattered their illusions.
Third, for the autistic son to rest the shadow, rewrite the son's intellectual disability fate
The time came to 2009.
Mr. and Mrs. Chen Jinhong suddenly realized that their two-year-old son still could not speak, and refused to contact others, nor could he express feelings and emotions.
Therefore, Chen Jinhong took his son to many hospitals and came to a conclusion that made him thunderous.
The son not only suffered from "inferiority complex", but was also assessed as "moderately retarded".
Chen Jinhong spent a little time and was forced to accept this fact, and immediately checked the information to find a solution.
He found that before the age of 6, it was the "golden treatment period" for children with autism.
Although it cannot be completely cured, it can greatly improve the child's ability to live.
At first, Chen Jinhong thought that there was a specialization in the art industry.
It is more reasonable to ask a specialist for my son to treat and work hard to earn money to support my family.
But two years have passed, but the son has not improved in the slightest, and there is even one thing that completely changed his idea.
It was in 2011, when Chen Jinhong came home from a holiday after filming, Chen Jinhong went home to read his son's "character book", and wrote a "tian" character on 5 consecutive pages.
He was puzzled.
So he asked his wife why his son only practiced one word.
Du Wenhui replied that experts say that ordinary children learn a new word a day, but their son who suffers from "autism" is already very remarkable.
Chen Jinhong felt that the words of experts were completely incomprehensible.
Because in the process of contact, he found that his son's memory ability was still very high.
In order to prove his idea, he taught the child 10 words on the same day, 10 on the second day, and 10 more on the third day.
The result was only three days, and Chen Jinhong proved with practical actions that his son could fully remember 30 words.
It also proves that his son can be like ordinary people, and he is also capable of educating his children.
Thinking about it, Chen Jinhong simply stopped taking pictures and went home to devote himself to educating his son.
Getting along with children with autism is a very difficult thing.
To this end, the whole family has made great sacrifices.
For example, the whole family moved from downtown Hong Kong to the remote countryside of Yuen Long, just to give their son the most comfortable rehabilitation environment.
My son, 6 years old, still doesn't dare to go to the toilet to defecate, preferring to use a diaper.
It took the couple three years to overcome their psychological barriers and go to the toilet by themselves.
For his son, he personally made two books on self-care, and took videos on how to personally demonstrate how to wash his face, wear shoes, comb his hair, etc., so that he could slowly learn.
Kung Fu pays off.
Their efforts finally paid off, and their son transferred to a mainstream school when he was in elementary school, and he also won the first place in the whole class.
Become a sunshine boy who loves to laugh and make friends.
Now that my son is in middle school, his emotions can be easily controlled.
To this end, Chen Jinhong was also awarded the title of "Peerless Good Father" by the outside world, and he himself gladly accepted this title.
Chen Jinhong also wrote about his dedication to his son into a book called "Every Step of My Son and Me".
I hope that through my own experience, I will encourage other autistic families who are in the same situation.
He believes that the IQ of autistic children is not a problem, but there is a problem with their ability to accept.
Therefore, parents should be more patient and not give up on them casually.
If it doesn't work once, it will be said 100 times, and if it doesn't work again, it will be 1000 times.
More importantly, even children should respect them.
Constantly remind yourself that children are all independent individuals and do not force them to do something reluctant.
Today's Chen Jinhong, no longer has to take care of his son for 24 hours, and has begun to take over business performances for his comeback.
In 2019, he served as the male number one again, and cooperated with Deng Cuiwen in the TV series "Marriage Inside".
In 2020, someone photographed Chen Jinhong coming to the mainland for a commercial performance, and found that his hair was a little thin and his appearance was slightly haggard.
On the contrary, the wife was raised to be white and fat.
Presumably taking care of his son for many years, he spent a lot of brain cells.
Chen Jinhong's life reminds me of Chen Ming's words in "Strange Sayings":
"Can people live a little higher?" Everyone thinks that love is great, but in fact, taking responsibility will make you enjoy a higher level of happiness. ”
The man who really loves you is probably like Chen Jinhong's responsible man!
References for this article:
"Sohu Entertainment" - Chen Jinhong: I like to be a house man
"Sina Entertainment" - Wireless Xiaosheng Regains Popularity Chen Jinhong talks about his wife from "Wife Lord"
"Hot Mom Academy has started" - the story of Chen Jinhong and his autistic son Love is a little bit of accompaniment
"New Ming Daily" - "comeback" for his son Chen Jinhong considers himself a good father
"Sina Entertainment" - Chen Jinhong Le as a "family cooker" revealed that the property belonged to his wife