While filming the magazine cover, Yang Mi took over an interview and said, "I am waiting for love every day." I don't want this sentence to make her on the hot search again!
It is said that women who have broken up and have experienced emotional danger will no longer trust love, let alone enter into marriage. Why is Yang Mi's mystery different?
People who are really like Yang Mi, no matter how old they are, how many resumes, are still waiting for love, much more than we think.
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Pass Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei on the opposite side. From Liu Kaiwei and Wang Ou late at night to chat about the script first. No matter what they can't say, as a married man, my sense of boundaries of the opposite sex is very low, and Liu Kaiwei must not have said it right.
Before they broke up, the public opinion was already a unilateral scolding of Liu Kaiwei. On the day that Yang Mi revealed the breakup, netizens were even more cheered and happy. It is expected that Liu Kaiwei himself did not speculate that his performing miracles in the inland would also be cloudy. Following the end of the marriage match, the marriage match came to an end.
Liu Kaiwei gradually disappeared, but Yang Mi's miracle was safe all the way, "Three Lives AND THREE", "Fu Shao", "Assassination of a Novelist", her works continued to explode, and she also won many awards. Although her acting skills have been controversial continuously, these high-rated masterpieces are enough to make her lie flat on the front line of actresses. However, Yang Mi's style is not just as simple as an actor.
She wanted to start a company and become the leader of the company. She must select the blood book from the blood book so that she can choose the blood book of others.
She not only has style, but also has guts. Wang Xiaofei's mother, Zhang Lan, lost her bet with blood and almost stopped working. Feng Xiaogang lost his bet with Blood, losing hundreds of millions.
Learning from so many ancestors, Yang Mi also entered the blood gambling money, but she won the bet. In just two years, her company's market value has grown from 25 million to 5 billion, a 200-fold increase.
She was able to win the bet, not by fate, but by her fate. Yang Mi is a workaholic. She set a record of 11 performances a year. Three or four hours, no matter how late you leave work, you must set an alarm clock in the morning, and before you wake up naturally, don't let me sleep.
She also has the eyesight to pick up rising stars such as Di Li Reba, Zhang Binbin, and Gao Weiguang. Even if you don't shoot a movie in the future, you can count the money while lying down.
For so many years, Yang Mi has never lacked black material, smelly feet, high hairline, singing out of tune, poor acting skills, etc., and none of them can be counted. Yang Mi didn't mind. Dark color, circle a ball of powder.
Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei broke up after only four years of marriage. Later, the love affair with Wei Daxun came out. They were scolded very badly, saying that she was married and had children and was not worthy of Wei Daxun.
However, even if you get married and break up, even if you fall in love with a single male star and break up again, even if you are scolded for being useless for a second marriage, even if you are used to seeing their curiosity and elusiveness in The Temple, she still trusts in love and waits for love.
What gave her such innocence and courage?
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In the variety show "Half-Cooked Lover", which only ended last month, Wang Ziwen, a single mother who has suffered a turn of affection, is also included.
She said that behind the emotional backdrop of the show, there are the pressures and obligations of more than 30 years old, the helplessness and confusion in the face of actual survival, and the sadness and joy of the two self-related relationships.
In any case, these multifaceted intersections and parallels make the love between lovers clearer and stronger. She said that in the face of love, you need to give yourself more courage.
Wang Ziwen has been practicing her courage with practical actions, from being included in the love variety show to find a job, to meeting a person who makes her heart beat faster in the variety show, to falling in love with this one-sided without compulsion, and having a very good relationship with this unilateral. Fang Fang confided that Wang Ziwen gave many emotionally wounded people the confidence to re-enter the first place.
In the show, is the colleague's fixed opinion nervous when talking about love? She also foolishly said to Jing Tian that she was very nervous, because she was very easily swayed by the fixed opinion of her colleagues, but Wang Ziwen said: "You are still swinging, but you are not extra porridge him." ”
This sentence does not seem to mention her own feelings, but also seems to say a lot, Wang Ziwen and Wu Yongen all the way back, many people are not optimistic, some people say that Wu Yongen is the sea king, some people say that he just exercised Wang Ziwen's reputation to break into the entertainment circle, which is not only the fixed opinion of colleagues. To put it more broadly, this is called "public opinion."
However, Wang Ziwen did not swing in a trickle, still showing affection in the community field, and also broke up each other's parents. Don't you reach the point of view? I'll let you see it modernly.
As for why this age still dares to trust love, Wang Ziwen also gave a mystery in the show.
She said: I am in my 20s, there is no doubt about love, because of the hours, I am Empty, and I am very bored along the way, even if you brush the phone, you have to have someone nearby to brush with you.
But after the age of 30, when you can make yourself live a good life, you will feel more chaste. At that time, I said that I must find someone who is happy to see him, and I will do nothing.
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If Yang Mi and Wang Ziwen still dare to trust that we can still understand love, put on Huang Yi, making people want to owe Heng.
In general terms, Huang Yi seems to be generating a slag sucking physique. She broke up the unfortunate man in two flash marriages and was torn apart by her two ex-husbands.
On the love variety show, the rest of the distinguished guests encountered handsome and warm men, and at the same time, Wang Ziwen, who was included in the festival goal, also chose his own husband in Japan, and still could choose thousands of male distinguished guests in the program group.
Ordinary people who are big unilateral have been exposed to the danger of many emotions, and have long become the insulator of love, and the color of love has also changed. Huang Yi is not the same. She still trusts in love and waits for love. She said: "In front of love, I am a phoenix. ”
Huang Yi's courage is also given by her many years of resume. After the acting miracle of Shundang was completely destroyed by her second ex-husband, Huang Yi faced a very big challenge in life.
Letters of solution, letters of claim, uncertain ways out, children to be fed, are things she does not want to face, but she has to face.
In order to make a living, she used her former fame to attract businesses and rented an office in a very expensive office building in Shanghai, but in half a year, she lost all her money.
She said: "At that time, the skin on my body was torn off, all the people were torn apart, and then I was not in the sun. ”
Later, she put down her figure, a little bit of observation, a little bit of research, a little bit of research, opened a confinement meeting, cake shop, chain store one after another. When the actress's path is blocked, she eventually forces herself to become a winning entrepreneur.
Two days ago, Huang Yi posted a video on Douyin, saying that I will be a man in the next life, so that you can see what is obligation, what is energy, what is energy, what is energy, what is emotion and romance, what is peace.
It is very obvious, although she may be waiting for love, but she also has the calibraptive power of men, and will no longer be dazed and invested. And, surviving all these years gave her the confidence to take over any very bad consequences.
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In addition to star positions, they are also just average women. They will be happy, frustrated, waiting, disappointed, sweet in love, hurt in love, if they are not afraid of defeat, they will become more and more frustrated. Boldness is the confidence that three instruments give them.
First, financial self-reliance
Having money can handle many doubts. Economic self-reliance allows them to choose only their own porridge equipment, rather than choosing the rich first. Having money can also save the rice oil and salt of the goo su, and the mother-in-law's usual survival.
2。 Self-reliance on energy
Not afraid of danger, the economic self-reliance is not enough, but also the need for energy self-reliance, because there are too many women in the emotional danger can not get up, because in the emotional too dependent on others.
Therefore, there are so many rich women who are deceived by a little emotional deception paper, hundreds of thousands, millions. The officers found them and reported them as liars. They would argue with them, and I rejoiced in being deceived.
People who are not energetic enough to take love as the whole thing. If she loses her love, she will take half her life. And self-reliant people will take love as a dessert on the table and eat it well.
Third, do a good job of preparing for the very bad consequences of taking over
Yang Mi once advised Xu Jiru, who was depressed due to defeat, on "Strange Story": From childhood to adulthood, I was too accustomed to failure. Heaven is not a big deal, why don't you go forward when you fall?
Be honest with all my wishes, failures, benefits and disadvantages, and avoid being overwhelmed by any work.
Attached to this confidence, Yang Mi has come to this day step by step.
Liu Kaiwei had already evaluated himself and Yang Mi. He said that he was relatively literary and artistic, and Yang Mi was relative to trade. Although this sentence was denied by Yang Mi, he also had to recognize that this statement made sense.
If a woman can find "trade" in herself, treat herself as a company, and plan a company, no matter the superficial ups and downs, she can think of facilities to make me stand firm and meet it in love. What is a turning point? Wouldn't it be a big deal to change one-sidedly and start over?