"Dear Little Child" finally ushered in the first big climax of the ending paragraph.
After watching episode 24, Xiao Lu, who knelt down and slapped himself against Xie Tianhua,
Like the people in the play, I was depressed, uncomfortable, and helpless, lamenting the fate of this family, lamenting that Xie Tianhua was really a grandfather, lamenting Fang Yinuo's selfishness, lamenting that Xiao Lu's prodigal son turned back, and also wanted to know more about the end of the story.
But this story actually has three endings.
An ending, from the 2007 Wang Xiaoshuai film co-starring Zhang Jiayi and Liu Weiwei, the actor of Xie Tianhua's sister in the drama version, "Left and Right".
The second ending, from the TV series, this ending will be officially revealed in 5 days, and the plot summary of "China Television News" has largely unveiled the mystery.
And this final ending is the final ending in real events.
Each ending is different, but in each ending, there are Chinese special human feelings.
People's Daily once published an article criticizing TV dramas for selling anxiety. Yes or no, it's beyond the scope of this article, but if you read these three different endings, you should know that the most worrying thing is never the story, but the human world.
Where there are people, there are painful entanglements, there are family choices that cannot be made, there are no TV series, it is all there. The question is simply, how to choose?
Even if they give everything, ordinary adults will still save their dear children. Next, let's look back at the past two endings together, and then reasonably speculate about the upcoming ending of the drama.
Each version of the protagonist has made different choices, and the great mother in the real world has also made her own choices and survived a difficult fate.
The three endings are compared, and the tao is full of lamentations in the world.
The first ending: the ending of the movie version of "Left and Right", the most bloody
The original film won the Silver Bear Award for Best Screenplay at the 58th Berlin Film Festival for a highly dramatic story, but "Left and Right" is based on true events.
Playing Xiao Lu in the movie is Zhang Jiayi, Liu Weiwei corresponds to the role of Ren Suxi now, and Yu Nan plays Dong Fan.
The story is also about a couple who divorced and then reorganized their lives, and as a result, their daughter suffered from leukemia, and the former couple had a hard time convincing each other's families to try to get pregnant through artificial insemination, but they all failed.
In the end, they discussed having another child and using the newborn's umbilical cord blood to save their child.
In the original work, it was Cheng Taishen, who played Feng Huacheng in "The World of Man", this version of Lao Xie was as kind as Nie Yuan's version, but he lived more saccharine, because he did not have his own children with his wife and was coldly said by his family, and his wife secretly had children with her ex-husband, and he finally chose to compromise.
Dong Fan, the flight attendant played by Yu Nan, did not choose to be tolerant, and when she knew that Xiao Lu was going to really have a child with his ex-wife, she decided to divorce Xiao Lu after she flew back.
In the end, Lao Xie chose to forgive his wife, but Dong Fan left Xiao Lu.
Director Wang Xiaoshuai said that Lao Xie is a nest bag.
But Lao Xie maintained his self-esteem under the premise of nesting, let the unborn children live with them, declared that it was his own child, and brought it back to his hometown.
Cheng Tae-sun asked the director that year, how to play this role? Wang Xiaoshuai said, just laugh. As a result, Sung Tae-sun performed an impressive old Xie, always smiling in the face of everything, laughing and going downstairs to buy cigarettes, laughing and accepting everything.
In the finale, the child is saved by his brother's cord blood.
Throughout the film, Wang Xiaoshuai's shots are always undisturbed, not shaking, not biased, calmly staring at the story, and the protagonists occupy the center of the picture, quietly playing the whole story. This level view of life washes away part of the dog's blood from the story itself.
In the end, everything was in Lao Xie's slight smile, fading away without a trace.
The second ending: the ending of the TV series "Dear Child", the warmest
Compared with the film version, the TV series version of the story has made a great adaptation, not only enriching the story and characters, but also the identity, personality and fate of the characters.
The series presents the trivial daily life and emotional flashpoints of the Chinese family in a panoramic way, with a realistic style, especially the dust of the trivialities in parenting in the first half of the story, which is blown up again and again, accumulating into the last straw that crushes the marriage.
It was this section that sparked fierce criticism from the media that the story was selling anxiety.
But if you look at the whole episode, you will find that at least in the second half of the story, the series not only did not sell anxiety, but greatly warmed the reality.
The first adaptation is that the second half of the drama version fiercely amplifies the "philosophy of good people". Because of the existence of Nie Yuan's version of Lao Xie, the audience sees that in the story of many tribulations, there are still beautiful people and beautiful feelings.
Nie Yuan's version of Lao Xie, simple, kind, simple, warm-hearted, respectful to his sister, painful to his stepdaughter Hehe, taking care of Hehe as his responsibility, being put into this huge embarrassment, he could feel Fang Yinuo's selfishness, and he was afraid that she would fly away, and he could only send his anger to Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao.
She is Hehe's stepfather, but in the play, he loves Hehe more than everyone else, no wonder Hehe called him Daddy not long ago, no one can not be moved by such a halfway father.
Even he used his hands to pick up the vomit, which he did not feel dirty, which was not only a story about kindness, but also showed the virtues of ordinary people carved in their DNA.
There is also a paragraph where he shaves his head with the child in order to be afraid that the child thinks that shaving his head is ugly, and the two people play games while getting a haircut, and whoever loses will cut his hair once.
It was one of the most moving family scenes on the screen in recent years.
Although Lao Xie was not Hehe's biological father, when we saw the two laughing happily at this painful moment, everything was no longer important. Nie Yuan's acting skills are too good, he is so tender and watery to Hehe, and it warms people's hearts.
The second adaptation is that everyone finally chose understanding, chose kindness, and chose humanity.
Xie Keyin's version of Dong Fan knew that her husband Xiao Lu wanted to have a second child with Fang Yinuo to save Hehe, and at one point he collapsed and scolded Xiao Lu for being too bullying, and even gave Xiao Lu an ultimatum: she and Hehe could only choose one.
But in the end she chose tolerance, and children are the most important.
In order to treat his daughter's illness, Xie Tianhua wanted to sell the family's house, which naturally caused a huge wave at home, especially the film version of "Fang Yinuo", this version of Xie Tianhua's sister, directly asked him if he was blinded by lard.
But people are not muddy, they also have temperament. This is the first time that Lao Xie has confronted his sister and said: You don't care about my business.
But in the end, it turned out that her sister was a knife-mouthed tofu heart, and she was afraid that her brother would be disappointed by the selfish Fang Yinuo, and she saw through that Fang Yinuo was not a true love for her brother, but she still couldn't bear that the child could not be saved.
She took out all her savings to treat her children and even agreed to sell the house she had lived in for more than a decade.
As for Xiao Lu played by Qin Hao, the first half of the character set is indeed quite mixed, but no one saw a man with great pressure slapping himself hard, collapsing and crying, can Qin Hao's acting skills impress.
In the second half, we see Qin Hao performing the redemption of a man, also to save Hehe, he chose to jump to a company with better conditions, but in a key activity, he collided head-on with su Jingwei, the former boss who was kind to him, and finally he led his new colleagues to defeat the former owner, making Su Jingwei, who was suffering from career difficulties, even worse.
His unruly brother Xiao Xu, who is lazy and annoying every day, but seeing that Hehe shaved his head, Xiao Lu could not match his daughter and took the initiative to run to the hospital to match.
There is also Huang Miyi, who played Qin Hao's wife in "The Hidden Corner", and Lei Wen, who played this time, launched a matching free single action in her own bar to win opportunities for Hehe.
And all the old people in the play, as the audience commented, it is impossible to have such a kind parent in reality.
It can be said that in the end, everyone in the play is on the side of the child between the actual interests and the child.
The final adaptation is the finale.
Contrary to the film version, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo did not take that step.
Hehe's condition gradually worsened, and he could only wait for the bone marrow match. In the end, I waited for hope.
There are two possibilities, one is that the matching free single action launched by Lei Wen Bar has been successful, and the other is that Xiao Xu's matching is matched.
In either case, the result is that in the finale, Hehe is pushed into the operating room under the expectation of the two families, and she is greeted by a new life.
Although the spoilers in the text version of the China TV newspaper did not give the end of Hehe's operation, I felt that this was actually the best ending.
Hehe's illness not only allows us to see a strong little girl, but also to see two families who were once noisy and noisy, and finally stand together for the child, behind which is a kind of pure goodwill that is not mixed with other things.
It is often said that people are born to be an island.
However, the goodwill transmission and connection of relatives can make the isolated island of Hehe's life light up, and connect into a galaxy outside Hehe's operating room.
Chinese have always avoided talking about death, but this is the law of nature, and no one is immune. Regardless of whether in the finale, the two families face death or survival, Hehe has taught the adults a precious lesson
Finally, the shot outside the operating room, the soft background music and warm light wrapped around the two families, everything was so beautiful, even if Hehe really left, it was also under the eyes of so much love.
I don't think it's a cruel ending.
Realistic Ending: The ending of a real event, the most brutal
The truly brutal ending comes from a realistic story.
The domestic release time of the original film was April 1, 2008, April Fool's Day, and I think the director wanted to say: I hope this story is just a huge joke in the world.
But the reality is often black humor, human sadness and joy, never jokes.
As the saying goes, "the hemp rope is always broken from the details, and the bad luck is specially picked by the bitter people", and the real version of the incident occurred in Guiyang, Guizhou.
The protagonist of the real story is called Yan Ying.
Media reports have sorted out a story that is more than a hundred times more cruel than the TV series: In 1990, Yan Ying and her husband Qin Deqiang left the small mountain village of their hometown and came to Guiyang to work, and 3 years later, they ushered in the eldest son Qin Xinfa, and two years later, they had the second son Qin Xinfu.
But the eldest son was diagnosed with leukemia at the age of seven. The TV drama version changed the son to a daughter.
Yan Ying quickly raised money to take her son to Shanghai and Beijing to see a doctor, and in order to treat the child, the couple sold their house and car successively. When she was in Beijing, Yan Ying did not live in a guest house to save money, but lay on the street for 13 days, eating only 2 steamed buns a day to fill her hunger.
On the night of the 14th, Yan Ying was lying on the street, a group of policemen took her away, she desperately explained, the police learned about the situation, not only took her to the hospital to see the child, but also gave 500 yuan, arranged for her to live in the guest house for free.
But these warmths are ultimately a drop in the bucket.
Borrowed money for years to see a doctor, full of debts, and her husband Qin Deqiang was grumpy, often quarreled with Min Ying for money, and when a quarrel, he started domestic violence, and finally the two divorced.
In the drama version, Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, although derailed, still took care of his sick daughter after divorce, desperately earning money for his daughter, and although the prototype husband did not cheat, his behavior was much worse, not only domestic violence, but also gave up his sick eldest son, and even in the end, even the second son, who should have been raised by him, also followed his mother.
What's even more cruel is that Min Ying has no money.
The heroine in the play herself has a decent job and a stable income, and there are two big sons to rely on, and a girlfriend can insert a knife for her two ribs, while Min Ying in reality has nothing.
Even if the pairing is successful, the bone marrow transplant requires at least 200,000 yuan of costs, which is simply a fantasy for Yan Ying, who is already in debt, but the donations from all walks of life have solved the cost problem.
Coupled with the successful matching of the second son Qin Xinfu and the eldest son, Yan Ying once saw the dawn of hope. But the second son was only 10 years old at the time, and medically only at the age of 18 could he undergo a bone marrow transplant, that is, he had to wait eight years.
In desperation, Min Ying found her ex-husband Qin Deqiang, in order to save her child, she ignored all the gossip, risked giving birth at an advanced age, and had a child with her ex-husband, wanting to match through umbilical cord blood, but the probability of matching was only 25%, and finally failed.
The most cruel thing is the outcome of the incident: the third son born to Min Ying and her ex-husband was not successfully matched with the eldest son, and the eldest son did not wait until the second brother who was successfully matched to die at the age of 18.
In the end, Min Ying, who was desperate to save her children, did not remarry, the family wealth was scattered, and her ex-husband was hidden, raising her second and third sons independently.
In this story, the biggest difficulties faced by the prototype mother from beginning to end are economic poverty and the encounter with the scumbag ex-husband.
She did not wait for a Xie Tianhua played by Nie Yuan from beginning to end, she could see her stepdaughter as her own daughter, personally take the stepdaughter's vomit, cut her hair with her stepdaughter, see that her wife did not use her own card to pay money, and immediately said domineeringly: "I am your husband, a grandfather, how can I let you pay money!" ”
All this, the prototype mother has not touched, the TV series version of the warm rescue, for her is a fantasy.
After reading the story of the prototype and watching "Dear Child", you will find that because of those warm existences, this originally dim story has become brighter. Those kind people burst out one spark after another, simple, powerful, and warm.
The pain was healed by the moment of kindness, and Lao Xie's affection, the little boy who died of illness in reality, had never been obtained.
The fact is that there are too many sufferings in the human world, suffering is not worth singing, what is worth singing is the beauty in suffering, the tenacity of human nature, I think, this is also the core of the warmth of "Dear Child", but also the precious original intention of realism creation.
In contrast, reality is always harsher than a TV series.
Back at the premiere of "Left and Right" in Chengdu that year, director Wang Xiaoshuai invited the prototype mother Yan Ying to the scene, but she did not watch the entire movie, because when she saw the child in the film was diagnosed with leukemia, she was already crying uncontrollably.
Wang Xiaoshuai said to her: "You are a heroic mother, I hope you are happy!" ”
Write at the end:
"Reality is often more magical and realistic than film and television works", living in the world, there is no easy ending
After reading the original story, and then thinking about it, "Dear Child" has just started, the audience said that this is a magical reality, but I want to say to these viewers, I think it is magical, may be the filter beautification of life is accustomed to life, forgetting the cruelty of life.
But the series picks up the ordinary life of these ordinary people, because of the heart to overcome the difficulties and sparkles of the moment, strung together like a string of beads, and finally constitutes a heart-warming story.
It sees the world through the perspective of different parties, understands the dilemma that they have been running and can't stop, and there is a trace of warmth flowing from the gap in the dilemma, showing the bitterness and bitterness of life to the fullest.
If you really want to say that the episode is magical, the only magic is the heroine Fang Yinuo.
The heroine of the film version is also very stubborn, but the background color is bright.
And Fang Yinuo really makes people want to understand and can't understand, from the beginning she just wanted her daughter to have a home and married Xie Tianhua, Xie Tianhua never wanted to let go after Hehe fell ill, on the contrary, he did better than his biological father.
This man is full of all the emotions in this world, babbling like a stream, surging like a river, showing conscience and responsibility in suffering, some people say that ordinary women are also worthy of being loved, I absolutely agree, but Fang Yinuo is indeed selfish and too extraordinary.
Some viewers said that the heroine cannot be required to be a perfect mother and wife, daughter-in-law, but I did not ask the heroine to be perfect, only that the heroine have a minimum conscience.
The heroine only treats her daughter as a human, but regards Xie Tianhua as a spare tire for fighting fires. She treated the kindness and goodness that had been close to her nearest, desperately demanding a faint hope.
This character is too selfish, and even the lead actor Ren Suxi bluntly said that this character has a flawed personality.
If you really want to say that the story is anxious, the anxiety can only be here: Lao Xie's story seems to tell us that good people are not rewarded.
Other than that, I think the episodes are not only real, but also much warmer than reality.
If such a story makes you feel suffocated, it can only congratulate you, having the happiness of the world, and you do not need to understand the cruelty of the world.
Marriage is to live a life, not only love, there is rice oil and salt, there are more trivial big things and small things, but also the burden of raising children, you do not know that lovely child, what kind of fate will be experienced in the future.
Therefore, you who have become a parent may find your own shadow in "Dear Child".
We care about their fate as much as we care about our own. Seeing their hardships is like the hardships they have experienced.
Life and life have never been smooth sailing. There are many places of calm in life, only because it is not yet the time of waves.
Reality is often more cruel than TV series, and it is difficult for us to meet Lao Xie in life, but no matter how difficult it is, we must survive.
On the contrary, I think that young people should take a good look at this drama in combination with reality, not to add anxiety, but to recognize reality.
Life is difficult, but behind the climax of those chickens and dogs jumping, behind the empathy of life's sorrow and joy, is a beautiful person, a beautiful love, making people worthy of the world, dear children are worth it.
The media report did not mention how Yan Ying lived afterwards, and what happened to her second and third sons, who she raised independently. I don't know what she will think when she sees "Dear Child".
But after so much wind and rain, I thought that maybe there was nothing left to bring down this ordinary and remarkable mother.
Life is like this, living in the human world, there is no easy two words. Life is after the wind and rain and the wind and rain, and finally I wish myself and everyone that after the wind and rain, there will be a rainbow!