Yu Ge takes you to read the original work, let's watch the popular family drama "Dear Child" starring Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, Nie Yuan, Xie Keyin and so on.
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In 2008, a movie starring Zhang Jiayi, Cheng Taishen, Liu Weiwei and Yu Nan was released.
Although the film was nominated for the "Silver Bear Award" for Best Screenplay and the "Golden Bear" for Best Picture at the previous Berlin International Film Festival, domestic audiences at the time did not seem to be too interested in such a realistic theme.
So by the end of the line, it only received 1.293 million box office.
In 2022, the TV series "Dear Kids", which was adapted from the script of "Left and Right", was broadcast.
What I never expected was that this story that was snubbed that year actually set off a huge wave of public opinion while winning the ratings championship.
Like the audience, like it so much, keep updating every day. On the contrary, the audience who did not like it even proposed to take the show down.
In fact, we don't need to argue about which of these two very different audiences is more correct.
In my opinion, as long as the audience can watch it, go straight to the heart, resonate, reflect on reality, and face life more positively, it is a good work.
By this standard, "Dear Child," a true story adaptation, is undoubtedly an extremely rare masterpiece.
Below, I will deeply analyze this work for you: Xiao Lu, Fang Yinuo, Xie Tianhua, Dong Fan, Lei Wen, the love and hatred between these five protagonists.
I believe that after watching it, you will definitely be like me: love and hate this drama.
What is hated is that the world is hell; what is loved is that the world is also heaven.
Ren Suxi: Fang Yinuo
From the first episode, when I saw Fang Yinuo's belly full of stretch marks, I felt her anxiety about the future.
Although, as a middle school teacher, she is a veritable "child king" on the three-foot podium.
But as a "mother", she obviously only made part of the knowledge reserve and was not fully prepared psychologically.
After giving birth to his daughter Hehe, Fang Yinuo threw all his thoughts on the child.
At this time, as Hehe's mother, she immediately stood on the moral high ground and had an unquestionable aura.
Whether her approach is correct or not, as long as the position is "for the sake of hehe", then she is an "invincible" existence.
For his chosen nanny Sister Jin, Fang Yinuo is critical and always monitored, afraid that the child will be hurt.
Husband Xiao Lu is engaged in the advertising industry, the daily work is very busy, and the money earned is hard money. Exhausted at night, he returned home and had to be a peacemaker between Fang Yinuo and the nanny.
The original harmonious home, because of the arrival of Hehe, it seems to have become a "front line", and it is full of crises at all times.
Because Hehe ate Fang Yinuo's breast milk, the jaundice value exceeded the standard and was hospitalized with blue light.
She attributed the mistakes that caused such consequences to the nanny Jinjie, which also caused Jinjie to leave because she could not bear the pressure.
After that, Xiao Lu asked his mother to take care of Fang Yinuo and Hehe, and he was kind enough to do bad things.
Xiao Mu has actually paid great attention to her words and deeds, but some bad habits need time to adjust.
Once, when Xiao Mu pushed Hehe to play outside, she accidentally caused Hehe to fall, but this time, it touched Fang Yinuo's reverse scales.
Fang's mother also had to take care of people, and retired early to take care of Hehe.
Xiao Mu was reluctant to leave, so the two mothers began to face discord and cooperate with each other.
Xiao Lu knew that Xiao Mu had worked hard in this home, so he and his younger brother Xiao Xu summed up and let Xiao Mu go back to his home.
Over time, in the face of his wife who did not have a good face and trivial matters with a chicken feather, Xiao Lu gradually became uninterested in going home. The time he was alone in the car every day before he went home became his most relaxed moment.
Qin Hao: Xiao Lu
Starting from Xiao Lu's reluctance to go home, from the in-depth analysis, that is: there was a problem in his husband and wife relationship with Fang Yinuo.
However, Fang Yinuo was not alert to this, she believed that Xiao Lu loved her, loved Hehe, and there would be no problem.
Obviously, from the perspective of the development of the story, Fang Yinuo is blindly confident, and Xiao Lu is also too indulgent in himself.
In his work, Xiao Lu did not maintain a good working distance from Zhu Zhu, the representative of Party A, who had frequent contact.
The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Xiao Lu's employees found that Xiao Lu and Zhu Zhu were too close, and Xiao Lu himself did not know it.
Until one day, after Xiao Lu was drunk and brought home by Zhu Zhu, everything came to fruition.
Such a thing, in the adult world, is originally: you love me, do not owe each other after the fact, and go their own way.
Unexpectedly, this time Xiao Lu encountered Zhu Zhu, who had just opened his heart.
Zhu Zhu has the confidence of a fan, and knowing that Xiao Lu has a family and children, she still wants Xiao Lu to divorce and be with her.
Xiao Lu didn't want to go crazy with Zhu Zhu, so he broke off contact with Zhu Zhu.
After Mother Zhu learned that Zhu Zhu had done such an ugly thing, she threw Zhu Zhu out of the house, and Zhu Zhu ran to the hehe birthday feast like a madman.
This fight can be described as a lose-lose situation: she completely lost Xiao Lu, and Xiao Lu's marriage also came to an end.
Xiao Lu wanted to save this marriage that had long been in trouble, but the arrogant Fang Yinuo did not give Xiao Lu the opportunity to change.
As a victim, Fang Yinuo pushed the blame for the breakdown of the family to Xiao Lu.
After filing for divorce, Fang Yinuo considered the most question: leaving Xiao Lu, whether she would be able to raise Hehe alone.
After getting the answer: she can do it alone, Fang Yinuo is very sure that he divorced Xiao Lu.
Xiao Lu knew Fang Yinuo too well, and he could only choose to let go. After the divorce, he was very upset about what he had done, and a good home was scattered.
To say that leading to such a result, Fang Yinuo is not all at fault, she mistakenly said: the parent-child relationship is greater than the husband and wife relationship, which is the real fuse.
Nie Yuan: Xie Tianhua
Xie Tianhua is Xiao Lu's good buddy, and he also has a long-term crush on Fang Yinuo.
After Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, Xie Tianhua opened the silent pursuit of the other party's Yinuo.
As Hehe grew up day by day, his childhood without his father was undoubtedly flawed. How to help Hehe make up for this defect? Fang Yinuo set his sights on Xie Tianhua.
Xie Tianhua's care for Fang Yinuo over the years, in addition to touching Fang Yinuo, also pleased Fang Father and Fang Mother.
When the time came, Xie Tianhua showed off with Fang Yinuo, who wanted to be Hehe's father.
After weighing the pros and cons, Fang Yinuo agreed to Xie Tianhua, after all, as a woman, although she is very strong, she also needs a man's arm to help her raise Hehe together.
With Fang Yinuo's attitude, Xie Tianhua was going to convince his parents and sister next.
In fact, the problem of Xie Father and Xie Mother is not big, and the difficulty is that of sister Xie Dan.
Xie Dan's love for Xie Tianhua is undoubtedly deep, and the reason for her opposition is very reasonable: the younger brother will find a second marriage when he is married, and he will also help his ex raise children.
But Xie Tianhua had found the "white moonlight" in his heart, how could he give up!
Therefore, at Xie Tianhua's insistence, Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo married. After marriage, the two did not have children for a long time.
I think: This is not that Xie Tianhua does not want it, but that Fang Yinuo has her own ideas, she is afraid that with a new child, Hehe will be snubbed.
To say that Xie Tianhua's "father" is really competent, every month he has to take Hehe to the amusement park alone.
He believes that Fang Yinuo did not allow Xiao Lu to see Hehe, which is unreasonable, so this day is a "parent-child reunion day" that he specially arranged.
For Xie Tianhua, as long as he is with Fang Yinuo, he is willing to carry all the thunder for Fang Yinuo.
However, when Hehe suddenly collapsed, was admitted to the hospital, and was diagnosed with acute leukemia, he found that he suddenly became ill.
Because he wanted to pay everything to save Hehe, but Fang Yinuo was too concerned about him and refused to use his money to treat Hehe.
He also felt that Xiao Lu, as Hehe's biological father, had an unclear relationship with Fang Yinuo in the process of saving Hehe.
Xie Keyin: Dong Fan
Similar to Xie Tianhua's fate, there is Xiao Lu's current wife Dong Fan. To say that Dong Fan is lucky, it is also unfortunate.
Fortunately, she is Xiao Lu's second wife, and the Xiao Lu she got has long been adjusted by life and is a competent husband.
The same misfortune is that she is Xiao Lu's second wife, which also dooms her to become Hehe's stepmother before she has children.
Dong Fan loves Xiao Lu, so she can accept everything that Xiao Lu has before.
She even wanted to invite Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua to attend when she got married, so as to use this opportunity to fight for Xiao Lu's visitation rights.
But life is not as smooth as her name suggests, and what happens next is approaching step by step and far beyond her bottom line.
After Hehe fell ill, Dong Fan took care of Xiao Lu's feelings and took the initiative to retire his honeymoon vacation.
She was kind enough to take Xiao Mu to the hospital to visit Hehe. Hehe was very happy, but Fang Yinuo was very angry when he saw Dong Fan and Xiao Mu.
Because of the failure of the Hehe matching, Xiao Lu knew that the next treatment would cost a lot of money, and then he chose to jump ship and slowly buy a new house.
As far as Dong Fan is concerned, she really wants to live in a new house with Xiao Lu and start a new life.
But she knew the importance of Hehe to Xiao Lu, so although she felt uncomfortable, she could only be forced to accept it.
But then, as Hehe's condition worsened, the doctor gave a new method, that is, to let Hehe's biological parents have another child and use umbilical cord blood to save Hehe.
This may be the only way to save Hehe, but standing in Dong Fan's position, she can't accept it no matter what.
As Xiao Lu's current wife, watching Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo have another child is indeed too cruel for Dong Fan.
Therefore, Dong Fan made his attitude clear: either divorce or give up.
Xiao Lu loves Dong Fan, he does not want to reunite with Fang Yinuo, his purpose is very clear, just simply want to save his daughter.
Speaking of this, I really feel sorry for Dong Fan. Thousands of choices, chose Xiao Lu as her husband, it was really bitter for her.
If given another chance to choose again, I reckon she would be far away from Xiao Lu and would never want to have anything to do with him again.
Miyi Huang: Lei Wen
In my opinion, the best person in the whole drama is Lei Wen.
If Xie Tianhua has a good promise to the other party, he has a plan; then Lei Wen's kindness to the other party is really selfless.
Whenever Fang Yinuo encountered a hurdle that could not be overcome, the first person who thought of confide in him was Lei Wen. Lei Wen can also feel empathy and pass on her full of positive energy.
As far as Lei Wen herself is concerned, in fact, she is far from showing such strength.
She is also emotionally wounded, has her own heart, and longs to love and be loved.
So she opened a bar and wrapped herself firmly in the lights and greenery, which was somewhat "hidden in the direction" of the chivalrous style.
After the accident of Hehe, Lei Wen gave Fang Yinuo's support, which can be described as going all out.
In order to save Hehe, the shrewd she used up her contacts, and even gave customers a free list at the bar to win opportunities.
Even Su Jingwei (Xiao Lu's former boss), who often went to her bar, after seeing what Lei Wen had done, bluntly said that Lei Wen was already "ill and rushed to the hospital".
Watching her not be afraid of heaven, to track director of the bone marrow library, to plead with director Wen, that is really not what ordinary friends can do.
It can be said that Lei Wen did everything she could for the sake of Hehe's dry daughter.
As for the final result, it was beyond her control.
summary
At the beginning, I already mentioned that this TV series is based on real events.
The realistic prototype of Hehe is a young boy who has been dead for more than 10 years.
In order to save him, his mother found her ex-husband to have another child. Unfortunately, the newborn's cord blood did not match the little boy's bone marrow.
Literary and artistic works come from life and are higher than life.
In terms of plot, the TV series "Dear Child" undoubtedly aggravates the conflict of this story.
Because Fang Yinuo's prototype did not remarry, and Xiao Lu's prototype did not remarry, they reunited and did not have so many twists and turns on their own children.
So in my opinion, the addition of Xie Tianhua, Dong Fan and Lei Wen is the finishing touch of this drama.
If Fang Yinuo had chosen to forgive Xiao Lu, he would have given him another chance not to divorce Xiao Lu.
Then after Hehe fell ill, there were not so many difficult choices. In general, hehe's life and death are actually between Fang Yinuo's thoughts!
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