After arguing with my husband, I suddenly felt that a long life, ten years of marriage is really not a long time. Marriage is also a process of slow learning, growing, changing...
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After reconciling with her husband, bring him food on the 2nd day.
Today, I sautéed cauliflower and fried tofu together.
I stir-fry dishes by feeling, and mix them at will.
My husband also thinks this tofu is delicious.
The porridge we drank in the morning was cooked by my husband last night. [Like]
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I used to think we'd been married for ten years, which was a long time.
But this time I suddenly felt that ten years of marriage is not too long, because there are still longer days in the future, and I don't know what will happen in the future days.
This made me understand the meaning of growth better.
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We can never know what it would be like to do something we haven't experienced.
We can only feel the present moment, and then grope forward step by step.
For example, if you have a child for the first time, you have to follow the age of the child to experience the changes in his thinking at different stages.
My daughter is now 11 years old and I can only feel what an 11-year-old is like.
I don't know what will happen to her when she's 20.
My husband and I have been married for ten years, and I have only ten years of marriage experience.
What the future will look like, I can't be sure, we can only move forward step by step.
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But one thing is certain, people have different thoughts at different stages, whether they are children or adults, they are changing to a greater or lesser extent.
So we can't face the whole of life with a fixed pattern of experience.
We're all going to have problems, that's for sure.
When big problems arise, it means that it is time to change.
People who know how to grow will adjust themselves in time.
I only hope that after every storm, the sky will be clearer.
May we grow after every quarrel.
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