For women, marrying well is a general direction of life, after all, what kind of life they live in a lifetime is closely related to this direction. However, marrying well is a kind of learning, but also a kind of destiny, not something you can have if you want to work hard.
Chen Qiqi, the daughter-in-law of Hong Kong's rich family, I am afraid that not many people have really heard about it and understood it. On the contrary, the names of Zhu Lingling and Guo Jingjing are menqing, and they know who they are as soon as they hear them.
In fact, Chen Qiqi and Zhu Lingling are concubines, they are married to two brothers, the difference is that Zhu Lingling married Huo Zhenting, the boss of the Huo family, while Chen Qiqi married the second eldest Huo Zhenhuan.
Is it because of the difference between the eldest and the second, it has caused the fate of the two women to be different? After all, some families prefer larger ones, but some prefer smaller ones.
The reason why Chen Qiqi has been so obscure is not only that she is married to the second eldest of the Huo family, but also that her marriage was not accepted by the Huo family for a while.
To this end, it can be said that Chen Qiqi has been miserable, she has been working as a cow and a horse for 50 years since she was married, and she has been the "lady of the Huo family", and even Zhu Lingling is divorced, and her status and sense of existence cannot be compared with it.
Some people don't understand, is Chen Qiqi not good-looking, or is she from a lack of birth? Or what did he do to damage the Huo family? Where did you lose?
This is a bit of a long story, we may as well go back in time to the 1970s. It was a very prosperous time in Hong Kong, and the scenery of the Fok family was well known.
In 1978, Huo Zhenting, the son of Huo's eldest son, got married to Miss Hong Kong Zhu Lingling.
The Huo family took out tens of millions of dowry gifts and held a high-profile wedding, and the guests present each had a large red envelope: 9999.99. It is not the guests who give the Huo family, but the Huo family who gives the guests, which is called Tongxili.
This stroke inexplicably reminds li Bai of the heroism of "a thousand gold scattered and returned". Is it a wedding, such a big red packet, do you want to lose?
Of course not, this is the style of the Huo family, and with the wealth of the people, this little money is only a dime, not worth mentioning.
At this time, people will have to ask, although Zhu Lingling is beautiful, can she use such a big fuss to hold a wedding?
To this end, Fok Yingdong once said: "At that time, many people did not understand why we had to talk about pomp and circumstance, why Zhen Ting married a Hong Kong sister. ”
It turned out that this was a part of the Huo family's development plan: popularity.
The huo family's development goal at that time was to increase its popularity and thus open the door to the family's sports career.
Although Zhu Lingling is not from sports, she is the queen of Traffic in Hong Kong, in lin Yanni's words, "wherever she (Zhu Lingling) goes, reporters are like honey around the flowers." ”
You see, this is the popularity, this is the scenery that the Huo family wants. Zhu Lingling can bring it to the Huo family, so his family will not hesitate to marry Zhu Lingling back home to "offer".
In fact, Zhu Lingling has really brought a lot of fame to the Huo family, even if Huo Yingdong dies, the main figure of the entire Huo family is also Zhu Lingling, the media has automatically locked her, and no one can replace her.
But Chen Qiqi was different, although she looked good, and she was also an actress who was a little famous at that time. However, she did not meet the Huo family's criteria for the selection of daughter-in-law.
First of all, Zhu Lingling was born in a solid family, not very old, with a good image, and can be viewed with the image of the "jade girl" of that era.
And Chen Qiqi is not, from a general background, or a character infiltrated in the entertainment industry, and the background is not so ideal.
The most important thing is that the Huo family does not lack a beautiful face, but needs a booster who brings benefits to their family business.
Zhu Lingling could meet the Huo family's needs, but Chen Qiqi could not. In Hong Kong, the actors at that time could not enter the eyes of the rich at all, and were at best regarded as "dramas".
Chen Qiqi also starred in ghost films, which made the Huo family even more jealous: the image was not ideal, and it was incompatible with the prosperous Huo family's career.
Under such circumstances, how could Huo Yingdong like Chen Qiqi, a daughter-in-law?
However, at that time, Huo Zhenhuan's feelings for Chen Qiqi were very deep, and the two people were in love for 10 years and refused to break up. In the end, Huo Yingdong could only open one eye and close one eye, and agreed to marry Chen Qiqi to the door.
But this also laid the foundation that Chen Qiqi did not receive the attention of the Huo family for a lifetime: when she got married, the Huo family did not have a dowry, and a string of ruby necklaces sent her away.
At the same time, there was no grand wedding, and the scene was almost full of finches, and even Huo Yingdong, the big parent, did not attend. It can be seen from this that Chen Qiqi has seen the future of her marriage from the beginning of marriage.
Later, Chen Qiqi gave birth to two sons and a daughter for the Huo family, and in a car accident, she used her own safety to save the lives of two children. At this point, Huo Yingdong could really nod his head at this marriage.
But for Chen Qiqi, it seems that it is no longer important. Because what she pursued from the beginning was not a tycoon, but a man who could always love her.
Regarding this, the outside world has not thought of it at all.
In the impetuous and illusory metropolis, Huo Zhenhuan and Chen Qiqi were able to love each other for decades, and their feelings have always been unmatched.
Nowadays, Zhu Lingling, who has her own traffic, has already broken up with the Huo family, and Chen Qiqi is still the woman who silently waits behind Huo Zhenhuan.
Contented and determined, she knew from the beginning what she wanted.
Therefore, from her marriage in 1982 to today, Chen Qiqi has never been unhappy about her grievances, and has never complained about her different treatment from Zhu Lingling.
This is probably the sobriety of the world: what is the luxury of the wedding? What is the scenery of life? You can keep the people who love each other, a pair of white heads for a lifetime, that is the best story of life.
No matter how beautiful Zhu Lingling is, she can't get the person she really loves. No matter how popular Zhu Lingling is, she will not be able to survive the fireworks life in the end. When she divorced Huo Zhenting, did she also think about this truth? If you didn't marry someone you really loved back then, wouldn't you be happier than you are today?
Today, Chen Qiqi is already recognized by the outside world as the housewife of the Huo family, and the days of swallowing her anger have long gone. However, she seems to prefer to live in obscurity, always refusing to bring more opportunities to the media.
This is probably the life chosen by different people, although it allows itself to have a different marriage and life from others, but it can get the happiness and warmth you want.