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In the world of love, we always hope that the person we love can also love us, so we continue to work hard to get each other's love.
But sometimes, we will find that no matter how hard we try, it is useless, the other party is still indifferent, in fact, this is because the direction of our efforts is not right, if the direction of our efforts is right, then we must be able to get the love of the other party.
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In the book "How to make your beloved person fall in love with you", the author said: True love is the tacit understanding of emotions and the communication of the heart, which can make the two people have a strong attraction, regardless of appearance, identity, and financial resources, they are attracted to each other, and the charm is endless; he makes the two people have emotional resonance, whether it is joy and pain, ease and trouble, they can understand each other, communicate with each other, and even feel empathy.
Therefore, the best key to opening the door of love is to capture each other's hearts, and the best way to capture each other's hearts is to retreat and advance.
I don't know if there are times when you like a person very much, so you start to pursue each other, but no matter how you pursue, you find that the other party is indifferent, and even if you pursue for a long time, the pursuit is tight, and the other party will feel bored.
At this time, we will find that no matter what we do, the other party does not seem to love, in fact, this is because our way is not right, when you like a person, not to move each other, not to force each other, not to force the other party to know how much you love.
It's about respect and giving, that is, you respect the other person's decisions, giving the other person time and space, rather than pursuing them intensely.
For example, if you express your liking to the other person, and after that, the other party is indifferent, then you don't try anymore, but tell the other party: "I give you time and space to consider, no matter what the result is, I respect and hope you can tell me honestly." ”
At this time, the other party will feel a kind of respect, feel a kind of freedom and their own space, they will not be kidnapped by your love, and they will not feel pain because of your love.
Therefore, no matter when, you must understand that the key to really making a man fall in love with you is to retreat into progress.
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Do not know how to retreat into progress, men will only get bored
If in a relationship, a person does not know how to retreat into progress, then it will only make a man tired, the man will not be able to breathe because of your love, will feel pain because of your love, and even want to escape from you.
Because you don't give him enough space and time, and you don't give him enough respect, so no matter how much you love, in the eyes of the other party, it is a kind of kidnapping, such love they don't like, such love, they don't want it.
Xiaojuan is like this, she loves a boy very much, she is afraid that she will not pursue, this life will be missed, so she strives to pursue, every morning to send breakfast, noon about dinner, evening about dinner.
At first, the boy accepted it and accompanied Xiao Juan, but after a few days, the boy felt a little unbearable, and Xiao Juan gave him the feeling that if he did not agree, he would do what a bad thing.
When there is such a feeling, the boy is more and more evasive of Xiao Juan, Xiao Juan does not answer the phone, does not reply to the message, and even when Xiao Juan comes to the appointment, he will say that he has something to do, in order to escape Xiao Juan would rather not eat at noon.
In the end, it is conceivable that he hates Xiao Juan's love, hates Xiao Juan's like, it is a kind of pressure for him, it is a burden, he does not like this kind of love, he does not like this kind of feelings.
In fact, if you want a man to like you, you can't force the man too urgently, the original love thing, is not urgent, if you are too anxious, it will only scare the other party away.
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A smart woman who knows how to retreat and advance
There is skill in liking a person, and it is skillful to want a person to fall in love with you, not that we blindly pursue it, but that we need to use our own INTELLIGENCE to make the other party slowly feel good about us and slowly like us.
In the book "How to Make Your Loved One Fall in Love with You", the author said: A really smart person who wants to make a person he loves also fall in love with himself, they all know how to retreat into progress.
In other words, they seem to be regressing, but in fact, they are making it easier for the other party to be touched by them.
For example, if a woman likes a man very much, she expresses her good feelings to a man, and then the man hesitates or does not directly agree, or even wants to refuse.
They will not always stick to each other, nor will they always express their love, and they will not want to hold each other in the palm of their hands all the time, but respect each other, give each other time and space, they will tell each other: "You don't have to feel a burden, don't have to rush to answer me, I love you is my own business, but I also hope to be able to get your love, I don't want my love to end before it starts, so I want to fight, I give you time to think slowly, or if you can, give you the opportunity to let you and I get along slowly." and then come back and answer me. ”
Such a sentence not only shows your love, but also gives respect to the other party, and lets the other party see your bravery, your efforts, and your cherishing of this love.
Maybe in the past, they didn't feel for you, but after this passage, they will have a different view of you and look at you differently, and at this time the other party will be much more likely to fall in love with you.
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When a man falls in love with you, he must learn to retreat into progress
In fact, if you want a man to fall in love with you, there are many skills, not only to learn to retreat into progress, there are many skills, after all, love is not a matter of one person, but a matter of two people.
We need to feel for each other, have a good time with each other, and so on, and these have a lot to do with our inner world and our ideas.
If we don't know what the other person is thinking and what the other person's needs are, then we can easily do it wrong, so that the other person does not love us and makes the other party reject us.
Do you want the people you like to fall in love with you today?
In fact, it is very simple, "how to make your beloved person also fall in love with you" in the book, the author shared that men and women treat love differently, and also shared that in the face of a person they love, how to pursue it is easy to get each other's love, how to talk, how to do things, in order to leave a different impact in each other's hearts.
So as to add points for our love, you know, if you do wrong, the other party may reject you, and you will never be able to do it from now on, but if you read this book and learn the methods inside, you will do more with less.
Today, Qingfeng recommends this book to everyone, hoping to help those who like it, those who want to pursue but do not know what to do, or those who have no effect when pursuing.
I hope you can get each other's love, naturally this book is also suitable for those who are in love, whether it is in love or in marriage, it will teach us how to love, how to care about each other, how to do each other will love us more.
Love is a very profound science, and if we learn something, we will go a little easier on the road of love, and we will spend more time with the person we really love.
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