A dad with a waist bench on his chest and a 9- or 10-month-old child sitting on the waist bench, carrying a backpack on his back, entered the playground. "Where has Mom gone?" There were not many men dressed like this, and out of curiosity, I paid attention to the father and son.
My twins also played in the ocean ball at the entrance of the playground. I saw the man's tired look and remembered the mothers I often met in the hospital and playgrounds with their children and backpacks.
The man untied the strap of the waist stool for half a day, but he never untied it, and I had the urge to go over and help the handle. Then a man came in, holding a little girl about 2 years old.
The man with the back bench seemed to see the savior, and it was a friend who should have walked in and said, "Hurry up, help unbutton me." ”
The child was finally put down, and the man was relieved.
The friend who helped take the waist stool asked him, "Where is this waist stool?" ”
The man said, "Give it to my wife!" ”
The friend said, "The two of them haven't seen the shadow for a long time, you think you can still find it!" ”
The man said, "Let them have a good look." The man looked at the locker, visually estimated that he could not put it down, and said to his friend: "Then put it on top of the locker!" ”
Friends began helping their 2-year-old daughter take off her shoes and wear non-slip socks.
Men look around, as if they were saying to their sons or asking themselves, "What are we going to play?" Play Ocean Ball now! ”
The baby was put into the ocean ball, and the backpack on the man's back was not put down, and he always carried it. I understand that such a big child, unlike my family, 4 or 5 years old, don't worry too much, just watch and play nearby. Children under the age of 3, at any time to drink water, sleep, change diapers, but also always play with together.
When my children were so old, we didn't have so many playgrounds in the city, but my husband and I took two little ones to the park and went out for a picnic, almost once a week.
Tired is really tired, eating time adults take turns to eat, and then take turns coaxing two. But next week's weekend, I'll still go out again. That was my only chance to "let the wind out" at the time!
Before the end of the maternity leave, in addition to 15 postpartum rehabilitation training, the other time is 24 hours to the two children who are crying and crying at the same time; after the end of the maternity leave, they go to work during the day and coax the baby at night.
Going out once a week is really the spiritual pillar that supports me.
These two dads are indeed one of the few good dads! On weekends, I give my wife a holiday to go shopping, and I take my children to the playground to accompany her wholeheartedly. It is estimated that dads who have not changed their diapers and have not soaked milk powder usually dare not take this hand!
In fact, the man carries a backpack of clothes and food that the child and the child has changed, and he feels very heavy and tired and very hard. Women themselves are much less powerful, and the same load will feel harder.
If it is not the father who has to work overtime on the weekend, the mother should not only take the child out to play on the rest day, right?
If mothers take care of their children more on weekdays, whether the mother is a working mother or a full-time mother, can the fathers also give the mother a day off on the weekend, take the initiative to take care of the child for a day, or at least let the mother rest for a few hours?
I believe that children must also be willing to be alone with their fathers and play games with them!
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