Text | Rice grain mom
Recently, there is a hot search that makes the rice grain mother cry and laugh, and must be taken out to give everyone a taste:
A single mother's real name exposed the internet celebrity Tian a fraud, making her worse than death.
Wait, many people may not be able to figure out who Tian Yi is. But if I say "human high-quality male", you may feel very familiar, that is, the man famous for courtship in the picture.
However, this is not Tian Yi.
The real Tian Yi is an Internet celebrity who is a fan of courtship. Why red, because he was so greasy, oily to the spicy eyes.
I know why the rice grain mother can't cry and laugh, just such a greasy, hunting, ordinary-looking person, can even fool the woman around, and willingly took out 500,000, which makes the majority of diligent and kind men who can only collect good people's cards, why bother?
Even if you put aside your appearance, just by looking at these things that Tian Yi did and said, MiRima felt a pang of nausea.
In May 2020, Tian Yi (real name Tian Xin), who has not yet had a fire, took the initiative to add her WeChat and greeted her warmly, although he knew that she had a very hard time with her child, but he did not dislike it at all, and also sympathized with her suffering, promising to take good care of their mother and son, and weaving a particularly happy future.
Okay, how did Tachi take care of them next? Oh, including but not limited to:
Trick this lady into cashing out Taobao with a credit card, one Givenchy on the left and one Bulgari on the right;
Risking imprisonment and encouraging her to embezzle public funds;
Induce her to take out a loan of 188,000 yuan and transfer it to her bank card.
Looking at this posture, I also thought that Tian Yi was a handsome face that let people lick the screen + eight hundred sweet words every day + poured tea and poured water to beat his back and pinch his feet, but the rice grain mother looked at his dragging tone of two hundred and fifty eighty thousand, where is the coaxing, it is simply a clear robbery + PUA.
This fiery appearance is obviously intended to run away with a stroke.
Sure enough, when Tian Yi found that she no longer had any channels to get money, she evaporated.
Looking at this whole process, the rice grain mother suddenly realized that Tian Yi was not enrolled in any pig killing plate training class.
According to the ID card posted by this single mother, she was born in 1987, this year is also 35 years old, and she has also been married and had a baby, it is reasonable to say that there should be some social experience, how can she be so easily deceived by a small Internet celebrity?
Are older single women really so stupid?
Then again, the reason why single mothers are cheated, rice mothers can also be understood.
Just imagine, she is divorced with a baby, middle-aged, the economic conditions are general, and she has tasted the cold and warmth of the world.
At this time, a small Internet celebrity suddenly saw the inconspicuous self in the crowd, not only tender, but also caring for the child, I am afraid that at this time her inner OS is:
This is simply god's eye- open, specially sent to save me!
Ten thousand steps back, even if she has sensed that something is wrong, but the feeling of being cared for and cared for is too good, she would rather dream a little more, enjoy a little more illusory happiness, even if it is drinking to quench her thirst, more and more unconscious.
I have to admit that many girls are bright on the surface, but in fact, their emotions are blank, their hearts are extremely lonely, and they are also wrapped up in age anxiety, once they are caught by this weakness, it is really a disaster.
Not long ago, the rice grain mother saw a well-known big V, spent two months dressed as a "prey", exploring the bottom of the pig killing plate routine, the conclusion is that the pig killing plate is far more complicated than we thought.
Today's scammers will no longer flaunt their wealth in a high-profile manner, because it is too easy to arouse vigilance, and instead they will be the image of a "cost-effective man" who is diligent, well-conditioned, but also seductive.
They will take the initiative to video, be very interested in everything about you, will expose their own emotional sympathy, and will jealously ask you to uninstall social software, making you feel as if you are really in love.
Of course, when you become more and more dependent on him and like him, he will try to see the dagger and insert the side business soft wide into it without a trace.
By this time, you won't feel like he's cheating at all, and even if you feel something is wrong, you'll convince yourself:
Maybe he can really make money, maybe he's really a good man, maybe I just walked luck...
The scumbag scammer is to create a living boyfriend persona, customize a highly personal chat routine for you, step by step to get your trust and good feelings, let you naturally be curious about his so-called "side business", willingly pay money and create a great future with him, until you are squeezed out of the last bit of value, he will reveal his true face.
So, don't think that all the people who are cheated are stupid women, stupid women, but really just a bunch of poor people who have fallen into the emotional trap.
In fact, many victims are not only not stupid, but also independent, self-motivated, and ambitious working women.
Some time ago, 6 women in Nanjing were cheated out of millions of yuan in a week because of the pig killing plate, including many university teachers and overseas students, their academic background and economic conditions are very good, but they overturned the ship in the gutter, and the hard-earned money was fed to the dogs.
The rice mother had to sound the alarm bell for the girls:
The first criterion of contemporary people's love is not character nor three views, but cheating feelings can be, but cheating money is absolutely not OK!
After all, men who even cheat on your money must have no feelings for you!
Even if we don't meet the pig killing plate, we must be wary of the soft rice men around us.
In today's society, there is no shortage of men who cheekily ask their girlfriends for money and gifts. Casually flipping through the knowledge, there are girls asking for help everywhere.
Although the rice grain mother approves of the back and forth between partners, "willing to pay" and "endlessly demanding" and PUA are really two different things.
Some girls are just too independent, not only ashamed to spend men's money, but also have to pour money to be at ease, only to be used by scheming scumbags.
Therefore, if you want to firmly grasp the money bag in your hand, you must adhere to the bottom line of feelings and have a cool head, otherwise, you can really only end up with two personal wealth.
In this regard, The Rice Mother has three suggestions to give to everyone:
First, 99% of the men who can make you feel good at first sight are unsure of you, and a man who can talk to you about everything is 99% deliberately pandering to you. So, when a man can satisfy all your fantasies, first think about whether this kind of jackpot good thing will fall on your head.
Second, as the saying goes, most good things are not firm, and the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle. If you want to verify the authenticity of a relationship, it is best to give it to time and let the bullets fly a little longer. No, don't identify a person when you are on top, and when you are in love, all the cold and warm greetings and sweet words are not counted. Be patient, wait for the passion to dissipate, and see if he is a man or a ghost. To identify a person when you are on top, all the cold and warm greetings and sweet words when you are in love are not counted. Be patient, wait for the passion to dissipate, and see if he is a man or a ghost.
Third, a man who asks you for money is the most terrible. Now everyone's hobby is to make money, and many girls even think "I make bread, you give me love." But scumbags will take advantage of this to crazy PUA women, such as:
"I don't even want to give 500 yuan, you don't really love me."
"Other girls buy gifts for their boyfriends, why are you so stingy?"
"With so little money, why do you struggle with me?"
Of course, there are also people like Tian Yi who don't face and directly say"You owe me a car..."
Mother Rice tells you from personal experience,
Don't believe these nonsense, don't doubt that it is your own problem, because the man who really loves you will only silently carry everything with his own arm, and will never push you to the cusp of the storm, let alone find ways to ask for money, and still pay the debt.
Even if you are really deceived by money, it doesn't matter. There is no need to blame yourself for being too stupid, nor do you need to feel ashamed, longing for love, longing for happiness. But I hope you learn to love yourself before you love others.
Money can be earned again, men can find it again (or not), get a good night's sleep, and there's nothing more important than being happy to live, isn't there?
About the author: @Rice Grain Mom Love To Share (Welcome to Pay Attention), American returnee, Haidian parent, when the first place in the new book list "Parent-child English Book That Affects Children's Life" author. Focus on the scientific parenting of 0-5-year-old babies, learning enlightenment, and the world's novelty recommendation, welcome to pay attention! (5-12 years old bao mom please pay attention to: @ rice grain mother channel)