"Your child is actually quite smart, just a little careless." I believe that many parents often hear similar words. Is it true that children are always careless in doing problems just caused by carelessness? In fact, many parents here have ignored this problem. So what should we do as parents?
Carelessness is only the appearance
Carelessness is only a symptom of the problem, and there will be deeper causes within. If the problems are generally attributed to carelessness, on the one hand, the fundamental problems inside will be ignored, and on the other hand, the children who are too broad will not know where to start.
I believe that for many parents, children's carelessness is a very headache, no matter how the child's learning situation will exist because of carelessness and loss of points. Obviously can take the test 100 points, that is, write less unit to get 98, want to fight can not play, what can you do! I took the exam 75, but I can proudly tell you that if you don't calculate carelessly, you can add 20 points to 95! The little abacus is really good! What a off!
After the test, I wrote the test paper myself: careless, did not pay attention, the next time must be! However, after the test, the wrong questions are simply attributed to carelessness, so general, where does the child change? Will only say: I will pay attention next time! In fact, carelessness is a very general noodle. But sometimes the questions are not clear or do not understand this knowledge point at all.
So for children to be careless, what should we parents do?
One: Start from life and cultivate rigorous habits
Young children can start by packing their own school bags, and organize their homework stationery independently. Older people can try to sort out the things that need to be done, must be let the children do it themselves, we have to hold back and can't reach out to help!
Second: use your brain diligently and think more
This article is actually more of a requirement for us to let our children learn independently, and parents talk less about their children and think more. After all, the more difficult the problem is, the more difficult the child cannot rely on his parents too much.
Three: Consolidate and review knowledge
Here is still to be divided into situations: the relatively simple wrong questions are mostly jump steps or not skilled enough, children should follow the steps, while strengthening the practice; always wrong or choose to fill in the blank class, you can see if the concept is not firmly grasped, focus on the explanation; review the wrong question, take the circle of the question information to write the formula and other methods.
Fourth: attitude of attention
Parents should not move and say: In fact, my children are a little careless. Children are more able to look at the eyes than we adults, and they are more likely to find reasons for themselves. In the long run, he himself will say: I am just careless!
To do badly is to be bad, there is no excuse, you set your child 100 points, and he will give himself a lower mental deadline than yours.
Educating children is like the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, even if the environment is harsh and there is a shortage of materials, one step cannot be relaxed. In the end we will definitely have a great victory!