#心动的瞬间 #
In 2005, Ah Ying went to a joint venture company in Guangdong to change careers: interior design, and since then the distance between us has been more than 1200 kilometers.
Ah Ying used to be a colleague with me, she was lively and cheerful, she was warm and warm, and her hearty laughter still echoed in my heart from time to time after she left her job. The time spent working with her was joyful.
Now, though separated from me, she still contacts me on my birthdays and important holidays, and sends me gifts from far and wide, as if she still lives in the same city as me.
Originally lonely, because of her concern, our friendship is still the same. And I often felt like she had never really left my life.
Not long ago I had a birthday, Ah Ying took a good leave of absence in advance, ran back thousands of miles, just to give me a birthday, the gift is a personal badge she personally designed and carved.
She always said that life needs a sense of ritual, and I am the least concerned about these people.
This year, she will personally light the candles on the cake for me, let me make a wish, the next year will be all the best, beautiful things and miracles will appear on me one by one.
In fact, the candle on the cake shed sad tears, but people gave it a mysterious power and wrapped in good wishes.
I looked at the candle she personally lit for me in front of me, with tears in the corners of her eyes and a smile, blowing out all the candles in one breath, I saved the candles in tears, is it true that the wish I made can be fulfilled?
Once, in order to save money for the moving company, Ah Ying took the initiative to help me move.
Carrying things back and forth from the stair house on the sixth floor to the first floor, filling a car, we drove for half an hour to the garage downstairs of the new house, and then moved to the elevator entrance to lift upstairs. Due to the limited capacity of my car, I moved 5 cars back and forth, and it took me a day to complete the first move in my life.
That year, the spring wind was so gentle, and Ah Ying and I were soaked with sweat.
I said, "I knew that moving was so tiring, so I shouldn't have asked you to help." ”
She said: "What a meaningful thing this is, the strength proves that we can eat without relying on our appearance, and we can survive by strength." ”
Once, on a weekend, I drove Ah Ying to the mountains to pray for blessings. The narrow road on the mountain, coupled with my restlessness, a distraction, the car kissed the bedrock on the side of the road.
Ah Ying took the initiative to help send the car to the repair yard to repair it.
After a long time, she was worried that I would be distracted again, reminding me not to drive for the time being.
Every afternoon, I helped me to go to the kindergarten in advance to bring the child safely to the office.
During that time, a person had to pick up his children to kindergarten, and he had to go to the hospital all day to deliver meals to the hospitalized elderly, and often taking leave became a common thing. Because of Ah Ying's selfless and sincere help, I was able to walk through the trough of that life.
At that time, Joa Ying came to the house to eat, she did not come often, every time she came she was thoughtful, and appeared at my door early, carrying a large bag of a lot of things, a lot of delicious ingredients, children's books and toys.
Every time she came to the child, she was very happy, knowing that Aunt Ying would buy him her favorite books and toys. She herself always said that coming to the house to eat felt like returning to her "mother's house".
Ah Ying once mentioned to me that her mother left due to illness when she was very young, and her father quickly found a "new mother" to come back. She grew up willing to live on campus and rarely went home.
When I first met me, I felt like a sister, maybe our personalities were somewhat similar: straight and simple, just do your job.
In fact, in those years, in order to evaluate the excellent, the special grade, we all had a busy work.
We will also be troubled by the problems of daily life and work, we involve too much energy for the education of our children' food, clothing, housing and transportation, we have more important things to do with each other, and more important people to take care of. We are used to encouraging, comforting and understanding each other.
Many things in the past between us are vividly remembered, we are colleagues, close friends, and sisters, and this friendship is sincere and pure.
Some people say that if Ah Ying had not changed careers and I had always been colleagues, the boat of our friendship would have overturned long ago.
Admittedly, not every colleague can be a close friend.
However, not every one of them is a flood beast.
Ah Ying and I are similar in age, we are already people who are not confused, and we are no longer afraid of the cold. But I will still feel warm because of the help Ah Ying gave me. And this warmth will always be remembered in the softest place in my heart.
In this world, everyone is waiting to be treated gently by others, but there are always some people who will be gentle first and give their warmth to others.
Ah Ying, a former colleague and a lifelong close friend, when my life was at a low point, the people who helped me will definitely reap happiness for the rest of my life.