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Tong Jisheng, the father of the famous actor Tong Liya, is the executive vice chairman and secretary general of the Xinjiang Musicians Association. He has composed nearly 200 songs, instrumental music and dance music, and many musical works such as "Xinjiang Has a Beautiful River", "Beautiful Xinjiang", "Xibo Girl", "As Long As You Walk into The Kazakh Felt House", "Western Style" and many other musical works have won awards in the autonomous region and the whole country.
He has also served as the planner, choreographer and judge of hundreds of concerts, evenings and music competitions, and has led teams abroad to participate in competitions and cultural exchanges.
On May 20, 2021, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng officially announced their divorce, and their 5-year-old son Duoduo was jointly raised by the two. As soon as the news came out, the whole network and fans were cheering, and in the eyes of the outside world, this may be a complete relief for Tong Liya.
However, Tong Liya's father, Tong Jisheng, has the greatest wish in this life, that Tong Liya has a happy marriage, follows the "three from four virtues", and takes good care of the men of the Chen family. He had saved his daughter and son-in-law's marriage, but ultimately failed. Tong Liya divorced, and her father Tong Jisheng's heart ached the most.
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Tong Jisheng, graduated from the Music Department of Xinjiang Academy of Arts, has served as a music teacher at Yining No. 9 Middle School, the chief violinist, band leader and composer of The Xinjiang Yining Municipal Cultural and Labor Troupe.
Since 1976, he has created many musical works, won awards in the autonomous region and the whole country, and his fame has also resounded in Xinjiang. He then married Mao Haiying, who worked in art.
In 1983, Tong Jisheng and his wife gave birth to a daughter Tong Liya, and the world of the two evolved into a family of three and became very happy. But because of the busyness of work, Tong Liya grew up with her grandmother.
Because her parents were not around, and she lived in the countryside, Tong Liya had let go of herself since she was a child, becoming a wild child, and when she was fine, she ran in the field.
Because there is a particularly large courtyard in front of the house, Grandma will grow some vegetables in it, and Tong Liya will sometimes follow Grandma to work in the fields.
Perhaps it is Tong Liya, who plays big in the mountains and wilderness, always carries a taste of closeness to nature in her personality, and she is never afraid to encounter challenges.
I don't know whether she was influenced by her parents' art or had the talent of the Xibe people in her bones, and she had a strong interest in the performing arts. At that time, her mother bought her a doll, but she didn't like it, and the only fun thing was to kick the shuttlecock.
And as a wild child Tong Liya, like to fight uneven, as long as there are friends or little girlfriends are bullied, she does not say a word to stand up, never consider whether the other party is male or female, strong or weak, widow or public, do not know whether there is a dance foundation, let her fight has never suffered any loss.
At the age of 5, Tong Liya was sent by her father Tong Jisheng to the Xinjiang Yining Children's Art Troupe to train dance. In order to improve the dance level as soon as possible, the junior high school is also an art college, and I studied in the dance department of the attached middle school of the Xinjiang Art College.
In 1996, she was admitted to the dance department of The Xinjiang Academy of Arts, and in her spare time, she shot advertisements and appeared on stage as a model. At her peak, she worked four jobs at the same time, and she relied on herself, only to reduce the burden on her family, and during the period of hard work and resentment, she did not forget the pursuit of dance art.
Studying alone, Tong Liya does not feel aggrieved like other people's children, but will take the initiative to seek various opportunities, such as the National Ethnic Minority Literary and Art Show, the Xinjiang Miss Selection and so on.
Every time, she took it seriously, thinking that there would be a reward if she paid, so she has been working hard.
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In 1998, Tong Liya was successfully selected for her excellent dance to perform in the 50th anniversary military parade, when she was only 15 years old, after following her to Beijing, she was shocked, felt that Beijing was really good, and set a goal in her heart: I want to come to Beijing.
After graduating from the dance academy, Tong Liya entered the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe and became a formal dancer. Although Tong Liya at that time was a state of contentment and happiness, she had an opinion on many things, and she felt that she did not have enough knowledge, or felt that she had to go to college.
Then, some people in the group also asked Tong Liya if she wanted to take the chinese drama exam, holding the psychology of playing, and even passed the three professional subjects, but her cultural results were very poor, in order to be able to go to college, she could only make up for the cultural subjects.
Tong Liya, whose oral expression is relatively poor, speaks Mandarin not very well, and often can't even distinguish the tone, causing her classmates to laugh at her, but at the same time, she will help her correct it.
In 2004, Tong Liya was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama. Even if she went to college, in Mandarin, Tong Liya still did not dare to relax, as long as she had time to practice Mandarin, fortunately, her mother taught Chinese, and slowly helped her correct it.
At first, Tong Liya regretted going to the acting department, and at the beginning she imitated monkeys, mental illness, etc., and she couldn't pull down the good face. Later, it was changed to a novel, and Tong Liya, who loved to read, slowly transformed the first place in the class to the first place in the class.
During her time in school, Tong Liya, with excellent grades, successfully starred in dozens of dramas and stage plays, organized groups to participate in dance performances across the country, and even participated in the dance performance of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, surprising the world with a Xinjiang solo dance.
In order to be able to rest assured, Tong Jisheng and his wife Mao Haiying discussed it, afraid that Tong Liya would suffer hardships, so Mao Haiying came to Beijing together to take care of the life of her daughter Tong Liya, so that she had enough time to study and work at the same time.
Every morning, Tong Liya went out to shoot a scene at five or six o'clock, and Mao Haiying had to get up at four o'clock to cook for her, which was very hard. So much so that now Tong Liya often tells her mother to take care of her body, live optimistically, live a long and healthy life.
In 2007, on the school campus, an assistant director asked for her basic information. At that time, many directors would ask students for information, but many of them were like a stone sinking into the sea, and there was no result.
But I didn't expect that Tong Liya, who did not hold out hope, received a message from the assistant director a few days later, saying that Hong Kong director Er Dongsheng's film "New Love" needed people.
Tong Liya, who has a unique temperament, successfully entered the crew of "New Love", in which she played the young singer Li Zaiai. Tong Liya walked into the audience's field of vision with a beautiful smile and elegant and moving image.
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Also in 2007, the fire of the TV series "Soldier Assault" made Chen Sicheng also resound throughout the north and south of the river and became a popular male star.
Chen Sicheng has always hoped to become an excellent director while being a good actor, and is working hard in this direction.
On the other hand, Tong Liya, after graduating from Chinese opera, starred in "Mother Yi Tianxia", shaping the Han Dynasty's heirloom beauty Zhao Feiyan, and the cute image of Tong Liya, coupled with excellent performances, has become a classic.
Later, in the filming of the TV series "Palace", Tong Liya and Yang Mi became girlfriends, and it was precisely because of Yang Mi that Tong Liya also ushered in the love of life.
In the autumn of 2010, The TV series debut "Beijing Love Story" written, starring and directed by Chen Sicheng was planned, because over the years, the popularity in the circle was good, and Yang Mi, Li Chen, Zhang Yi, Zhang Xinyi and other star friends joined in the performance.
It's just close to booting, and Shen Bing, one of the heroines, has not yet been finalized.
One day, Chen Sicheng was interviewing actors in the film and television base, and suddenly walked in a girl with exquisite facial features and elegant temperament, which deeply attracted Chen Sicheng.
But after a while, the girl looked around, realized that she had gone to the wrong room, apologized and then turned to leave, seeing that the girl was leaving, Chen Sicheng's brain quickly turned, blurting out: Are you Tong Liya?
The girl stopped and nodded, and at this moment, she also recognized the person in front of her, who was the "talent" of "Soldier Assault".
In fact, some time ago, the assistant director also recommended Tong Liya, but was eliminated by Chen Sicheng, thinking that she was not suitable, but did not think of seeing her in person, and rippled in her heart.
Originally, Tong Liya was going to audition for a crew next door, but she met chen Sicheng by mistake. Chen Sicheng carefully looked at Tong Liya.
Although she did not wear makeup and dressed plainly, she still could not hide her beauty and dignity. In order to be able to keep Tong Liya, Chen Sicheng said: You went to the wrong room, it is also our fate, let's talk about it, see if there is an opportunity for cooperation.
After a brief chat, Chen Sicheng changed his mind and gave the script to Tong Liya, asking her to go back and read it before communicating. Afterwards, Chen Sicheng specifically went to understand Tong Liya's past and felt that she was the best candidate for Shen Bing.
And Tong Liya after reading the script, is also in love, she feels that she and Shen Bing have a lot of similarities, should not miss this opportunity, but if you take over the filming of "Beijing Love Story", then the other films in her hand will be pushed away, she needs to consider it carefully.
A good friend advised her: This is a double-edged sword, Chen Sicheng acting is good, but this is his first time as a director, what kind of filming is still to be determined, and he is a controversial person.
Tong Liya also went to understand Chen Sicheng, and finally couldn't help but say to herself: It's really controversial, and the best and worst let him take it all.
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Chen Sicheng, very talented, was once punished by the Shanghai Theater Academy for fighting, and was expelled from school, but later returned to the examination hall and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with professional results, but was not admitted by the former "bad record".
After that, he entered the Central Academy of Drama with the first professional result, and even in his junior year, with his film debut "Judge's Mother", he was nominated for the Best Actor of the Hundred Flowers Award, the Best Newcomer Nomination of the Huabiao Award, and the Best Newcomer Award of the Beijing University Student Film.
Therefore, in Chen Sicheng's body, there are indeed many controversies, coupled with his scandals and feelings in the circle, it is like a prodigal son.
After learning that Chen Sicheng had a crush on Tong Liya, Yang Mi was very happy, she went to Tong Liya and asked her if she came to "Beijing Love Story", and Tong Liya also told Yang Mi about her worries.
Yang Mi seriously told her: Rest assured, he is a reliable guy, especially talented, I have been with him for many years, and I know him very well.
In the face of her girlfriend's words, Tong Liya withstood the pressure and insisted on starring in "Beijing Love Story" despite the opposition of the agency company, which also made Chen Sicheng's hanging heart fall to the ground.
Because Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya have a large number of rival scenes, before the "Beijing Love Story" starts, the two also seize the time to talk about lines and family customs together, so as to cultivate the feelings and tacit understanding of both sides.
For the role of Cheng Feng, Chen Sicheng sighed: Maybe everyone thinks that love is very rare, and only when you meet it will you understand what love is.
Tong Liya continued his words: How the family is and whether they have money is not the most important thing in love, the most important thing is the sincerity that is willing to spend a lifetime together.
Looking at each other, they deeply felt that they had found the right partner, and they were looking forward to the next performance.
In the process of filming, the rivalry between Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng often sparked, and in it, Chen Sicheng's righteousness and talent were all looked at by Tong Liya, plus Chen Sicheng was very kind to her.
In Tong Liya's heart, she had a good feeling for Chen Sicheng, and gradually, Chen Sicheng, such a competent director and outstanding actor, regarded him as a trustworthy peer and brother in Tong Liya's heart.
Only in Chen Sicheng's eyes, he had an idea about it, and he had a strong urge to take care of her, and he knew very well that after this period of contact, he had fallen in love with her.
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As the deadline for "Beijing Love Story" approaches, Chen Sicheng also seizes the time to pursue Tong Liya.
Once, after filming, Chen Sicheng tentatively asked: Do you like a man like Cheng Feng?
Tong Liya replied emphatically: I don't like it, I don't like it at all.
Immediately after, she also explained: I don't like to pamper and play playboys in life, of course, this is his beginning, and then he has changed, I like my line in the play: with my lover, no matter how bitter and sweet, with people I don't love, every day in the same bed and dreams, what does it mean?
Hearing Tong Liya say this, Chen Sicheng implicitly confessed: In this play, the four girls represent spring, summer, autumn and winter, of which Shen Bing, who you play, represents 'winter', dressed purely, treats feelings single-mindedly, persistently, I admire her the most, when creating this role, I also wrote the thoughts in my heart, and you just fit these.
In the face of Chen Sicheng's words, Tong Liya was obviously shocked, and then smiled slightly: You seize the time to make up for sleep, every day is too busy to work, it will affect the health of the body, I am also ready to go back, ready for tomorrow's work.
Looking at Tong Liya's back, Chen Sicheng felt very disappointed, lying on the bed, he did not sleep much all night, and all he thought in his mind was whether Tong Liya understood the meaning, whether there was a play in the end?
The next day, Yang Mi found Chen Sicheng and quietly asked: Are you really here?
This question can make Chen Sicheng ask a confused question, and Yang Mi said: I am asking, do you really want to pat and drag with yaya?
It turned out that it was not only Chen Sicheng who could not sleep, but also Tong Liya, she understood very well what Chen Sicheng said, but she had been hesitant, because she did not want to find insiders, plus Chen Sicheng's previous reputation and wind comments were not very good, and the emotional history was relatively rich.
Knowing that Yang Mi and Tong Liya are good friends and girlfriends, Chen Sicheng said in an affirmative tone: I am sincere with her, I especially hope that she can become my girlfriend, and I will definitely treat her well.
Looking at Chen Sicheng so sincerely, Yang Mi promised him: You are both good friends of mine, I think you are a good match, and I will go all out to promote you together.
In this way, Yang Mi incarnated into a "red lady" and began to be a moon elder, matching Chen Sicheng, for Yang Mi, Tong Liya is trusted, so they also slowly came together and began to communicate.
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In early February 2012, Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya and their parents went on vacation abroad, and on the streets of Japan, the two held hands in couple costumes, and were photographed by fans, and their love affair gradually surfaced.
At the end of February, the crew of "Beijing Love Story" appeared on the variety show "Happy Base Camp", and the host occasionally ridiculed the scandals of Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya.
In such a situation, Tong Liya took the lead in opening up the relationship: I hope everyone wishes us well.
Tong Liya's true confession also made Chen Sicheng pluck up enough courage to quote a line from Cheng Feng in "Beijing Love Story", saying to Tong Liya with affection: Meeting you is the greatest luck in my life, and it is you who let me know what true love is.
In 2014, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng held a wedding and officially entered the palace of marriage.
It was also on the variety show "Happy Base Camp", Tong Liya's father Tong Jisheng, because he had a strong idea of male superiority and female inferiority, openly said on the stage: When you go to the old Chen family, you must do more work, cook more, and serve him well.
It is precisely because of Tong Jisheng's education problems that Tong Liya has repeatedly endured Chen Sicheng. Perhaps in Tong Jisheng's concept, there are still old ideas, which also triggers a series of subsequent events.
Even if Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya are married, they still have no taboos in the face of media interviews, and they also said that a man will cheat.
In this way, it can be said that it has set off an uproar. Then, Chen Sicheng did not forget to match his words and deeds, and then there was a scandal, several times in succession, and he was also photographed by the media.
Even though Chen Sicheng betrayed the marriage, Tong Liya still remembered the teachings of her father Tong Jisheng and followed the three from the four virtues.
A host asked Tong Liya: Chen Sicheng is going to cheat, what do you do?
Tong Liya took all the responsibility on herself, saying: I will perform well, and then fight for it, and quickly adjust my state.
He even said that as long as he could go home.
In the face of Tong Liya's words, all fans feel that it is not worth it, and even feel that Tong Liya is too humble in this marriage.
Moreover, on the interview program, Tong Liya also exposed herself: when she and Chen Sicheng had a conflict and quarrel, no matter who was right or wrong, it was Tong Liya who apologized first, and then went to coax Chen Sicheng.
It's just that people can't imagine that compared with Tong Liya's humility, Chen Sicheng's words and deeds have once again refreshed the public's three views.
When it came to him accidentally scalding Tong Liya with a cigarette butt, Chen Sicheng's face did not have a little pain, but said: It is very interesting.
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In 2017, Chen Sicheng was once again photographed by the media as a suspected derailment, "reading the script" with two women in the hotel.
When the news was exposed, fans felt pity for Tong Liya and scolded Chen Sicheng on the Internet. In such a case, Tong Liya's father, Tong Jisheng, should have defended his daughter, but he did not support Tong Liya, but instead praised a word to be patient, which may mean that while advising her daughter to be patient, she should defend her son-in-law Chen Sicheng.
In the face of Tong Jisheng's operation, it is really a surprise.
Perhaps the tolerance of one or two times finally made Tong Liya wake up, and after this incident, she no longer accommodated, but instead re-energized with a sentence: "Start over".
Since then, Tong Liya has returned to the screen again, standing at the peak of the show business circle, and she and Chen Sicheng have appeared in the same frame less.
Until 2020, the marriage could no longer last and they chose to divorce.
During this period, Tong Jisheng also saved the marriage of Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng, after all, Tong Jisheng, who valued Chen Sicheng so much, may never have thought that Chen Sicheng was wrong, but her daughter was not good enough.
On May 20, 2021, Tong Liya officially announced that she and Chen Sicheng had divorced in 2020, and as soon as this news came out, the whole network immediately cheered and cheered, and everyone was happy for Tong Liya.
Other people's divorces are all a cry of regret, but Tong Liya is a cheer.
Perhaps at this moment, Tong Jisheng understood that the times were different, and his insistence on "male superiority and female inferiority, three from four virtues" was wrong, and this may also indirectly create Chen Sicheng's unscrupulousness.
Watching her daughter become a single mother, I believe that Tong Jisheng's heart as a father is the most painful.
Today, Tong Liya is 39 years old, although she has had a failed marriage, she still hopes to find another good person............
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