To be brave is not to escape fear or to find ways to ignore it, but to think about how to face it. Facing fear means thinking through the situation you're in — all the strengths and weaknesses — and figuring out how to deal with it. Any other act is merely a sign of surrender.
— Mark Webber
"Someday, you want to go alone"
We're going to drive along all the beautiful roads, take all your favorite people, and leave those shadows behind. Go to see the infinite calm of the lake, to see the snow-capped peaks, to see the fragrant flower fields, to see the grasslands where the sun is singing.
—Zhang Jiajia, "Let Me Stay with You"
Since people come to the world like ants, suddenly born and died, suddenly gathered and scattered, in just a few decades, they should be at ease, they should be dashing, and each of them should complete their own life, which is the whole meaning of survival.
—Jia Pingwo
"Free to Walk Alone: Jia Pingwa's LoneLy World"
Many people say that they are lonely, and people who say that they are lonely are not lonely. Loneliness is not being snubbed and abandoned, but ignorance of oneself, not being understood. True loneliness does not speak of loneliness, occasionally making some long whistles, like the beasts we see.
--Jia Pingwo
Slowly, slowly, I learned that the so-called father-daughter mother-son relationship only means that your fate with him is that this life and this life are constantly watching his back drift away. You stand at this end of the path, watching him fade away where the path turns, and he tells you with his back: No need to chase.
- Long Yingtai "Seeing"
Although loving a person needs to be lucky, that is, it needs to meet the "right" person, whether it will love, whether it understands love, and whether it can love is the key to a person's eventual love. If you don't know what love is, you won't fall in love with someone; if you don't have the ability to love, you won't meet love and find love; if you don't love, you won't be loved. Even if the "right" person shows up, you won't recognize him, you'll just lose touch with him.
A Wang Xiaobo
"Wang Xiaobo: Loving You Is Like Loving Life"
And the preciousness of human beings also lies in the fact that we have grown in our lives due to changes in time and environment. The loss of years is certainly helpless, but the gradual transformation of people cannot get rid of the power of time.
——Sanmao, "The Rainy Season Will Not Come Again"
When everyone trusts you, you can only force yourself to no way back. Fight when you can still do your best, everyone believes in you without reservation, and all you have to do is unreservedly. What I am doing now is to be ashamed, and if I do not do my best to save it today, I will have a bad conscience for the rest of my life. ”
Liu Tong, "I am waiting for you in the future"
I once believed in love, and then I learned that love must be transformed into affection to be able to last, but love that is transformed into affection is like an ice cube in a cup of water - is it still an ice cube?
— Long Yingtai "Eye Sending"
I want to take you to a world that you don't usually see, and then fight for positive energy. Positive energy is not heartless and lungless, not forced smile, not dirty others to appear clean. It is the kindness that flows in tears, the faith that moves forward alone, the courage to rebuild after breaking.