Recently, dozens of entertainers in the show business circle have spoken out to cheer for the hard-working medical staff, including Lin Zixiang and his wife. Ye Qianwen Sally celebrated her 60th birthday in 2021, and her husband Lin Zixiang Lam is 14 years older than her, already 74 years old.
When they appeared on camera this time, everyone found that Ye Qianwen's hair looked more gray than her husband Lin Zixiang, perhaps unwilling to dye her hair, and she grew old gracefully in the most natural state.
This is in line with Ye Qianwen's consistent reluctance to do more modification of the character, cheerful and generous, naturally beautiful.
When Ye Qianwen spoke, Lin Zixiang next to her had been holding up mai for her, and he could see that he also took good care of his other half in life.
From the appearance point of view, Lin Zixiang has not changed much over the years, but Ye Qianwen's appearance of getting old makes people feel that time passes really fast.
The last time the couple got together was in the recording of the Winter Olympic promotional film "Together to the Future", although the couple did not have the same frame, they could still feel that the husband and wife had a good relationship.
The 60-year-old Ye Qianwen lost her mother half a year ago, and in 2014, her father died of illness, and her husband Lin Zixiang became the only relative. Thankfully, the couple had a good relationship.
In the early morning of January 31, 2022, on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, Ye Qianwen posted a 10,000-word long article on her social account.
It turned out that her mother died of illness more than 1 month ago, and more than 1 month has passed, and Ye Qianwen has been suffering from her mother's death.
Ye Qianwen said that he had summoned up the courage to write this letter, perhaps because he was at the junction of the Year of the Ox and the Year of the Tiger.
From her words, it can be felt that mothers are important to both daughters and husbands, and are charming angels with a mission.
In the text, Ye Qianwen also mentioned that her parents have always been her idols, and she worships and admires them.
The mother and father once donated money in the name of their daughter to a primary school in Gansu Province. In fact, this is Ye Qianwen's mother's idea, she will always think about others.
In 2014, Ye Qianwen's father died of illness. Seven years later, Ye Qianwen's mother died. The 60-year-old Ye Qianwen is the only daughter in the family, and after losing her parents, her husband Lin Zixiang became his only relative.
In 1995, Lin Zixiang divorced his ex-wife Wu Zhengyuan, and Ye Qianwen, who is considered to be a couple on the screen of the music world, was under great pressure.
Many people believe that she is an intruder in this marriage, and Lin Zixiang's ex-wife has publicly accused Ye Qianwen of hurting the family more than once.
In 1996, Ye Qianwen married Lin Zixiang and held a wedding the following year. Ye Qianwen has not given birth in the 26 years since she was married, and it has also been a topic of concern for everyone.
In an interview with Wang Manling, Ye Qianwen said in 1994 that she wanted to have children and hoped to go home after marriage to cook for her husband.
Wang Manling asked her why she hadn't given birth for so many years, and Ye Qianwen, then 54, said she didn't regret it.
When asked if she didn't like being a mother, Ye Qianwen said she didn't like it. Because her mother disciplined herself very strictly since she was a child, she felt that if she became a mother, she would also manage her children in this way.
Ye Qianwen said that she would definitely become very nervous for the sake of her children. In fact, she believes that parents should let go and let the children experience and feel on their own. But as a parent who loves children, it is difficult to do so.
Ye Qianwen talked about getting along with her stepchildren. Ye Qianwen also disciplined her husband's children, and was annoyed by them at the time.
She would tell the children to study well, grow up to make money, and not drink soda or anything like that. She would take her children to climb the mountain, for the sake of health, but the children would not want to.
She gave an example of Lin Zixiang's son, Lin Dexin Alex, who wanted to live outside with a few classmates when he was in college.
When Alex told her the rent was $2500, Ye only agreed to give $1500 because there was no need for a pool and fitness room.
Ye Qianwen said to the child that she could not live in such an expensive house. She said the purpose of renting is because it is close to the school and it is more convenient to go to school.
Ye Qianwen proposed a way for him to find a job to make money on his own, and said how much he earned, Ye Qianwen gave him the same money.
Ye Qianwen is not reluctant to give money to the children, but hopes that the children can work independently, because she herself came out to work at the age of 13.
That's how her parents taught her. His father has always been very capable, and when he comes home after work, he has to take care of the garden, and his mother cleans up the house spotlessly, which is Ye Qianwen's example.
Wang Manling said that children take pocket money like this, and Ye Qianwen herself cannot be a mother, she will be a mother that no one likes.
Ye Qianwen asked them to clean up their rooms. She said she was a stepmother, but the children lived in their own home.
Ye Qianwen said that he never regarded himself as his biological mother, although he loved the children very much, but he also clearly knew his identity and status as a stepmother.
If the children asked for her advice, she would tell the children. Because she knows that if she talks too much, the child will also feel annoyed.
When children are young, they may not understand the stepmother's requirements, but when they are older, they understand that this is love for themselves.
Alex and Ye Qianwen have a good relationship and call her his idol. Ye Qianwen also said that the children liked themselves at the beginning, and she once found someone to create "The Possibility of Love", which is a song for her son.
Ye Qianwen said that it was difficult to get along at the beginning. She gave her heart, the children can feel it, and she feels like a mother.
Especially in the relationship with Alex, it can be seen that Ye Qianwen spent a lot of energy and personally supported him to enter the show business circle.
Alex said that when he was 6 years old, he left Hong Kong with his mother Wu Zhengyuan and his sister to live in the United States. The first time he met Sally, he fell in love with each other and the two became friends.
Ye Qianwen said that the relationship with her stepson is like a friend, she only wants Alex to be happy, has no requirements for him, and her husband is proud of him.
Alex understands the decision of his biological parents to divorce and loves Sally.
He said he couldn't say anything to dad, he could say to Sally because she wasn't just an adult but a friend. He was grateful that Sally was willing to listen to his questions, and it was no wonder that the two could become friends.
Ye Qianwen and Lin Zixiang have been married for many years without contradictions, after all, the personality gap between the two is a bit large.
Lin Zixiang believes that he is reticent and his wife is talking endlessly in order to balance each other. He said the two had nothing to talk about, and there were many topics. Although the two have different personalities, it does not prevent the couple from being very affectionate for 26 years of marriage.
Because the two have different schedules, Lam wakes up at 5 a.m., and Sally prefers to fall asleep until midnight.
After several arguments, the two decided to sleep in separate rooms. The interview was in 2016, when they had been married for 20 years, which means that the couple had slept separately 6 years ago.
Ye Qianwen believes that this is the most suitable way for the two of them, since they have been married for so long, they have long been not only husband and wife, but also friends and family.
Lin Zixiang can go out to drink morning tea at 5 o'clock in the morning, and Ye Qianwen is sleeping soundly at this time. Ye Qianwen was impatient, but it was difficult to argue with Lin Zixiang, because Lin Zixiang had no temper with her at all.
Although Ye Qianwen said that she was not a good wife, she just did her own thing. In fact, she has paid a lot for this family, including taking care of Lin Zixiang's children.
At the 2021 Oriental Satellite TV New Year's Eve Party, the couple sang the classic love song "Choice" on the same stage, when Ye Qianwen's mother had died, which showed how much pressure she had to complete the performance.
In the last 3 or 4 years of her father's life, Ye Qianwen almost stopped all work and took care of her father at the sickbed.
In 2016, my mother was not in good health. Ye Qianwen also took care of it all day. That's why she has rarely made public appearances for so many years. Even so, she felt she wasn't doing enough.
In the 26 years since she married Lin Zixiang, Ye Qianwen clarified that the relationship between husband and wife has always been very good. When Lin Zixiang participated in "Our Song", Ye Qianwen and Alex cheered him up together.
According to reports, the couple is likely to appear in Hunan Satellite TV's "Sound and Endless" program at the same time, and it is expected to serve as a mentor at the same time, and everyone can look forward to the husband and wife on the same stage.
Although she said she didn't like children, she didn't regret not having children. However, now that his parents have left, the only relative around him is Lin Zixiang, and he does not know whether he will insist that his decision is correct.
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