College students read at night
College roommates can be said to be family, friends, and confidants; but there will always be three conflicts of view, do I really want to follow the words of my roommates?
The Tao is different, not conspiratorial
"Aunt, aunt; what she said is not right, I corrected her, why didn't she play with me?" The little niece breathlessly told me about her and her friends.
When I wanted to explain it to her, I didn't know that my mind had drifted to the university.
At that time, I got along very well with my college roommates, not at all as difficult to get along with as the college roommates on the Internet, and every time I saw them, I would spit with them, and then sigh our friendship.
I have a warm personality and I respond positively every time they say something, but some things just disagree.
The sun was shining that day, and we were in the dormitory, and we were called to a meeting by the counselor; the outside did not listen, and the voice of the counselor disturbed me.
I joked with my roommate about going to buy fruit tea for a while, but the old man in the dormitory thought we were noisy, so we could only give up.
Unable to resist the drowsiness, I slept at the counselor's meeting.
"Oh, it's still comfortable in bed." I stretched out and said.
"Yeah, yeah, the stools in the classroom are too hard." The roommate jokingly chimed in.
"Bang!" The sound of a slamming of the door startled us.
"Why does Ying Zi next door get a national scholarship, what ability does she have, if it weren't for her, this money would be mine!" Tell me what she did with it? "The old man is fierce.
I didn't take it seriously and played with my phone.
"You talk, Jojo, you say." The old man walked silently toward me.
Suddenly mentioned, I raised my lazy eyelids to look at her, and then said casually: "Oh, of course, people have the ability, but today the counselor called us all to the meeting because of this matter?" ”
Instead of dissipating, the old man's anger became even greater: "What ability does she have, shouldn't I get a scholarship?" How am I worse than her? ”
The atmosphere in the dormitory suddenly became tense, and no one said a word.
"Come, you say, I listen, I'm not angry, I'm going to see what other people think about it." She sat in a chair and looked at me.
I also had to get serious: "That, in fact, there is no, you are also very good, but she is really better than you, and people are still class cadres, what to do is very positive, she this scholarship, I think there is no problem with it, you say?" ”
It may be that the roommate felt that the atmosphere was not quite right at that time, and quickly said: "No, no, it should have been old..."
I wanted to continue arguing, but when I looked at the situation in my bedroom, I chose to remain silent.
The next day, I discussed the matter with a few of them, and they said that they were obviously going to tell the old man that day, but I told the truth.
Hearing this, I fell into contemplation...
Gradually, several of them did not play with me much, and I was always alone, watching them play together, although there was also a faint unhappiness in my heart; but I was glad that I did not have to continue their words against my heart every time...
Later, I learned to enjoy solitude, cut off unnecessary social interactions, began to explore what I liked, studied hard, and in my final year of college I also got the scholarship that I deserved...
Relieved, I took my niece into my arms and said, "There is no need to say everything you know, it is very unladylike, oh, besides, some people don't like people who are smarter than themselves, that will make them very annoyed, so that no matter how much you say, they will not approve." ”
I touched her head and said, "Do, do what you want to do; listen, the voice you want to hear the most; say, say what you want to say." ”
I'm an adult and can tell right from wrong, and since we don't have the same views, I don't make the wrong choice because of relationship binding.
See through not say broken
"Ling'er, this homework is so difficult, so annoying, what do you think?" Xiao Fan said with a sad face.
"Yeah, I think, too," Ling Er said. In fact, Ling'er's homework has long been completed, which is the basic content of the class.
For this situation, Ling Er is also commonplace, because Xiao Fan is a proud person, and it is always impossible to touch hard, so Xiao Fan always sees through and does not say broken, according to her words.
"I'm really speechless, why, can this computer give some power?" I don't know why the teacher assigns so much homework, you say yes, Gillian. Xiao Fan said impatiently.
"Don't ask me okay? You are complaining every day, how long has the teacher's homework been assigned, who are you to blame now? Ah Jiao glanced at Xiao Fan.
Xiao Fan just wanted to say something, but was pulled out by Ling Er, Ling Er knew that others had no obligation to follow her words, the reason why she always followed her was because they were the best friends, and she would also remind Xiao Fan in small talk that she should know how to reflect.
On the way they bought ice cream together, Ling Er once again channeled Xiao Fan: "Later, we finish our homework early, listen carefully to class, you can also relax every day, in fact, no one likes to listen to others complain, you say that our big and good youth is not happy to complain every day." ”
Xiao Fan smiled at Ling Er and nodded, like a child.
Every time Ling Er finished following Xiao Fan's words, she would slowly reason with her again.
She also sees through the roommate and does not say broken.
Later, I asked Ling Er, every time I first followed Xiao Fan's words, wait until she is in a good mood to reason with her, is not tired?
She said to me: "I went out to study, I can meet this good friend, of course, to cherish, she is not only complaining to me every day, she also gave me an analysis of a lot of daily beauty; besides, only when she says it, I can help her solve it." For other roommates, I don't see through because more is better than less, after all, I don't have so much time to argue with others, and people always have to learn to be tolerant. ”
END
The dormitory is to have different people to live, so what we have to do is to learn to respect, learn to tolerate, learn to understand.
Author | Li Xin
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