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Is it better to raise a boy or a girl? In fact, as long as parents are willing to pay time and energy to accompany and cultivate, whether it is raising boys or girls, parents can get warmth from the long process of their children's growth, and children can bring parents a lot of joy.
Dong Jie updated the dynamics, and the interaction with her son was too warm
In the special circle of stars, there is a feature: high appearance, especially female stars are top-notch beauties from various regions.
The father is handsome and the mother is beautiful, the child's appearance is naturally not low, and the appearance of the second generation of stars has become the focus of everyone's attention.
Although the children's looks are impeccable, in this second generation of stars, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming's son Dingding still stands out, with exquisite facial features, quiet and warm, temperament like orchid, with a hint of gentleness.
Leaving aside dong jie as a person, not mentioning the marriage between Dong Jie and Pan Yueming, Dong Jie's education of her son is still very good, at least for now.
Before Dong Jie took her son to participate in the show, some people said that she put too much pressure on her son, as if she pinned everything on her son, and her dependence on the child was too strong, so that such a small child could protect her.
In fact, this method of education helps to increase the sense of responsibility and responsibility of boys.
The pressure that the environment and morality put on boys and the pressure on girls is different, and boys with responsibilities and responsibilities in the general environment are more likely to be accepted by the world.
Dong Jie in the recent push of the dynamic, and the son to make cookies together the picture is very warm, mother and son together interaction is very loving, this time feel that it is good to raise a son, to cultivate the son into a responsible man, one more person to protect the mother, quite good.
The top is really from small handsome to large, and now the height of the teenager has almost caught up with his mother, and he has begun to have a manly temperament, whether right or wrong, Dong Jie can also be regarded as surviving.
Suddenly, I understood why some people must raise a child, and the child can indeed heal a person's once wounded soul and bring great comfort.
The beauty of raising boys
Raising children is a very interesting process, parents' parenting attitude towards children in the early stage will be directly reflected in the child's personality, and then it will also be fed back to parents.
If there is a boy in the family, the parents' most taboo method of raising is "pampering and habitual raising", respecting the child everywhere, so the parenting method, as the child grows up, the boy becomes more and more arrogant, they will feedback this attitude to the parents.
On the contrary, if the mother is weak from the beginning and is accustomed to letting her son help, the son will easily become an independent, responsible and responsible boy.
Raising boys should be relatively easy, because our goal is to make boys non-clear, independent, principled, and thoughtful people, and if you want your children to become such people, you must let go of your children's lives from when they are young, give children the space to handle things independently and think independently, and children will grow in a better and better direction.
There are boys in the family, and the mother must let herself be a relieved mother, and transfer the great responsibility of educating the child to the shoulder of the father, which is more conducive to cultivating excellent sons.
Of course, in special cases, such as a single-parent family, the son lives with the mother, only occasionally see the father, in this case, the mother should let go, transfer some responsibility and responsibility to the son, through this parenting method to achieve the purpose of making the child stronger.
In most ordinary two-parent families, children have parents to accompany, the most taboo to adopt a son is "strict father and mother", the father refuses to communicate with the son well, yells at the son at every turn, and the mother protects the son everywhere, which is the typical "loser" method.
If you have a son, don't pamper your son, put the heavy responsibility of educating and guiding your son on your father,How comfortable your mother is, worry less about your son's affairs, and easily raise an excellent son.
The beauty of raising girls
Girls are completely different from boys, raising girls is just the opposite, raising girls is still intensive.
If you raise a daughter like an adopted son, the impact on girls is that girls are getting stronger and stronger, strong enough not to communicate with their mothers about anything, strong enough to carry their own problems, this is not what we want to see, raising a girl, we still hope that they are not so strong, I hope they have something to communicate with their parents in time, so that they will always remember that their parents have been standing behind them, and the door of the home is open for them.
With this premise, girls will not go into a desperate situation.
I have seen many cases, girls are pregnant before marriage, dare not tell their parents, suffered a lot, and some even chose to give up their lives in the end.
These girls all have a common characteristic, the relationship with their parents is average, they would rather choose to resist all of them and even end up being forced into insanity than go home to ask their parents.
This is the sorrow of the daughter, but also the sorrow of the parents.
If there happens to be a daughter at home, the mother will spend more time with her and spend more time communicating, as long as it is based on certain principles and rules, how to carefully cultivate it is not counted.
The longer the mother spends with the child, the closer the relationship between the daughter and the mother.
Of course, girls can grow up without the company of their fathers, and the responsibility of the father is simpler, as long as they give the children unlimited love.
Girls who grow up in the nourishment of love must be full of love and full of positive energy, and such a girl will be happy all her life.
Whether it is raising boys or girls, one thing should be clear: there must be no less rules to be established, and the principles that should be observed must be observed.
Because any relative freedom is based on certain constraints, only by learning to get along with the rules can we better adapt to the social adaptation environment and make it easier to have a happy life.