In 1959, as a student of the Hebei Provincial Drama Theatre, Lü Zhong followed the troupe to Beijing to perform.
At that time, she had already changed her costume and walked to the stage, but the thin woman collided with a man who went downstairs, and She reacted quickly and supported the handrail of the stairs.
What people did not expect was that the collision between the two this time also wiped out the spark of love.
It turned out that the man who bumped into Lü Zhong was Wu Guiling, a primary school classmate she had not seen for many years, and the two "reunited" this time, which became the beginning of their 53-year relationship.
Lu Zhong can be said to be a late bloomer, she debuted in the film and television circle at the age of 47, which is very inconsistent with the law of development in the circle.
At that time, few people were optimistic that the "one-year-old" Lü Zhong could develop in the film and television circle, and Wu Guiling became the logistics minister and always supported the development of Lü Zhong.
In 2016, Wu Guiling died of illness, leaving Only Lu Zhong himself to recall the 53-year married life of the two.
Today, Wu Guiling has been dead for 6 years, and what is the living condition of the old drama bone Lu Zhong?
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Born in Shaanxi Province in 1940, Lü Zhong came to Beijing with his family at the age of 9.
She has loved literature and art since she was a child, although she cannot say that she is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but Lu Zhong has a very good literary foundation.
On weekdays, in addition to reading and attending classes, she participates in the school's literary and artistic performances, and she can always be seen every time the school organizes a speech contest or a theatrical performance.
Her parents understand that Lu Zhong likes literature and art, and without delaying her homework, her parents also support her dreams behind her back.
With the support of her parents, Lu Zhong more boldly pursued the development of literature and art, and she began to study culture while improving her artistic attainments.
In 1958, at the age of 18, Lü Zhong was admitted to the Hebei Provincial Drama Theatre and became a professional drama student.
Although Lü Zhong wants to leave her family and go abroad to study alone, every time she thinks that this is the cause she loves, Lü Zhong feels that there is nothing left.
In those days when she first came to the regiment, Lu Zhong often felt that life was very hard, because many students in the regiment had undergone professional learning since childhood, and she could only be regarded as an amateur player.
But Lu Zhong never wanted to give up, and she often inspired herself: "When others practice for an hour, I will practice for three hours, as long as I am willing to endure hardships, I will certainly not be worse than others." ”
In this way, Lu Zhong's day after day of hard work, when others are practicing, she is practicing, and when others go out to play, she is still pestering the teacher to ask questions.
Lu Zhong's efforts made the teachers in the regiment look in the eyes, which also won her the opportunity to take the stage.
In 1959, the outstanding student representatives of the Hebei Provincial Drama Theatre in Luzhong were sent to the Beijing People's Art Theater with the troupe to participate in the performance.
After hearing this news, she didn't sleep all night of excitement, but what she didn't know was that this trip to Beijing also brought her love!
Although Lu Zhong's role in this performance is not large, and there are not many lines, she still carefully considers every action and every line.
Before taking the stage, she looked at her makeup and hair in front of the makeup mirror for a long time, afraid that what would not look good, she got up and sorted out her clothes.
After everything was ready, Lü Zhong looked at himself in the mirror and continued to encourage himself in his heart: "Come on Lu Zhong, believe in yourself, you must be able to." ”
Then Lu Zhong walked toward the stage, and on the way upstairs, she bumped into a man, but fortunately she reacted quickly and held on to the stairs, otherwise the consequences were unimaginable.
This collision not only frightened Lu Zhong, but also frightened her mood when she was just ready to perform, which made her heart burn with anger.
Lü Zhong wanted to make a big fire, but when she looked up, the anger in her heart was actually extinguished, and she always felt that the person in front of her was very familiar.
The two did not have any quarrels, but there was a little doubt and aftertaste on their faces, and after saying two words, they were ready to leave.
Lu Zhong thought all the way to the stage: "I must have seen this person, how can I be so familiar?" Is he the face of the masses? ”
But what she didn't know was that the man looked at her back and thought about it for a long time when she went upstairs.
With the completion of the performance, Lü Zhong left Beijing with the troupe and returned to Hebei, and she also forgot the previous "public face".
The so-called fate of this thing is wonderful, when it comes, you can't stop it!
Under the matchmaking of fate, Lu Zhong once again saw the "public face", but this time, unexpected things happened...
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In 1961, Lü Zhong had become an official actress in the Hebei Provincial Drama Theatre, and she participated in the troupe's play "Thunderstorm".
At that time, because there were still many problems in the rehearsal of the drama "Thunderstorm" in the troupe, the troupe decided to let Lu Zhong go to the Beijing People's Art Theater for study and consultation.
Lu Zhong came to Beijing with a task, and after she arrived at the Renyi Theater, she looked around for the person in charge of the drama "Thunderstorm", and under the guidance of others, she walked to the door of the stage producer's office.
When she was about to knock on the door, the door opened, and the person who opened the door was the same man who had bumped into her on the stairs.
Before Lü Zhong could speak, the man recognized her first: "It's you, aren't you in Hebei?" How did you get here, and did you come to arrange the show again? ”
This series of words asked Lü Zhong, she did not expect that so long had passed, he still remembered the events of that time, And Lü Zhongxin could not help but feel nervous.
After Lu Zhong explained the reason for the trip, the two went into the office to talk, and the two inadvertently talked about the first time they met that year.
Lu Zhong said, "Sir, at that time, I thought you were familiar with your face, but I was in a hurry to get on the stage, and I didn't have time to say anything." ”
The man said, "Yeah, I think you know each other, were we classmates before?" Or where have you seen it? ”
Later, the two people said their names and said some things about when they were in school, and Lu Zhong remembered that the person in front of him was called Wu Guiling, and the two were elementary school classmates.
After making the relationship clear, Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling couldn't help but laugh when they talked about colliding on the stairs.
Lu Zhong asked Wu Guiling a lot of questions about the stage, and Wu Guiling also told her many details of the drama "Thunderstorm".
The two talked for a long time, and Lü Zhong admired Wu Guiling's talent, and Wu Guiling also felt that she had a unique view of stage performance.
Lü Zhong then returned to Hebei, but the relationship between the two also warmed up with time, and in that era when communication was not developed, they relied on letters to convey love.
On weekends, Lü Zhong often returned to Beijing, in addition to going home to see his parents, he went to visit Wu Guiling.
This kind of life lasted for more than a year, and once Wu Guiling said: "Lü Zhong, we have been good for so long, I want to marry you, or find a time for me to see my uncle and aunt." ”
After Listening to his words, Lu Zhong's heart was naturally happy to blossom, so he found a time and took his boyfriend home.
People say that when a boy goes to the woman's house for the first time, he will be frightened, after all, he wants to see his future father-in-law and mother-in-law.
But Wu Guiling was not afraid at all, and there were some "recklessness", as soon as he entered Lu Zhong's house, he said: "Uncle and aunt are good, I am your future son-in-law." ”
As soon as these words came out, Lü Zhong's parents were shocked, and Lü Zhong did not expect that Wu Guiling's courage was so big that he dared to speak like this the first time he came to the house.
However, Wu Guiling is not stupid and bold, he is talented and can also speak, and soon "took down" Lü Zhong's parents and won the favor of the two old people.
In 1963, the love between the two came to fruition, and the two simply held a wedding, and gave birth to a son and a daughter after marriage.
Although there was no grand wedding when they got married, or even a decent marriage room, Lu Zhong felt that there was nothing, but she and her family still had to live a separate life.
At that time, Lü Zhong was still an actor at the Hebei Provincial Drama Theatre, and she did not want to give up her beloved acting career, so she could only take the train back and forth on weekends.
Although Lu Zhong is busy at work, the children and the family are taken care of by Wu Guiling, but she has never lacked the education and care for her children.
His son Wu Bing was very naughty when he was a child, and in order to control him, Lü Zhong asked him to write down the bad things he had done every week, and when she returned home on the weekend, she had to summarize and criticize.
At that time, her and Wu Guiling's salaries were not high, and the family often had to save money.
Once Lu Zhong came home and said to her husband, "Let's take the children to eat Western food." ”
Wu Guiling was puzzled: "What are you talking about?" So expensive is not delicious, waste money is not. ”
Lu Zhong said: "Although we don't earn much, if we take them to eat once in a while, they won't envy the lives of other people's families." ”
Her life separated from her family lasted about a decade...
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In 1973, at the age of 33, Lu Zhong was transferred to the People's Art Theater in Beijing, and she finally ended her life separated from her family.
Unexpectedly, although she returned to Beijing, life was not too good.
Although Lu Zhong already had many years of experience in the drama stage, because there were relevant regulations in the Renyi Theater at that time: no matter how you were before, you would be treated according to the standards of newcomers when you came.
Therefore, in the years when Lu Zhong first returned to Beijing, he could only play some inconspicuous small roles on the stage, and even some roles did not even have lines.
For Lu Zhong, no matter what role she plays, she will do her best to play it well, which is the most precious place for her as an actor.
In 1979, Lu Zhong starred in the drama "Thunderstorm" in Zhou Fanyi, and she made her famous on the stage of the drama with her excellent acting skills.
After that, Lu Zhong's acting talent was more vividly displayed on the stage, and in a few years, she participated in countless classic drama works.
As time went on, Wu Bing and Wu Qing grew larger, but The Lüzhong family still lived in a small house assigned by the unit.
In order to let her children have better living conditions, Lu Zhong made a bold decision to take out a loan to buy a house.
You know, in that era, loans were not recognized by people, and Wu Guiling was one of them.
He said to Lu Zhong: "A loan to buy a house is equivalent to spending tomorrow's money today, can this be reliable?" ”
Lu Zhong said: "It's nothing hard for us to live, seeing that the children are getting bigger and bigger, we can't still squeeze into this small room of more than ten square meters." ”
In order to pay off the mortgage as soon as possible, Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling caught up with the fashion of those years and started the dubbing work.
Whether it was "Journey to the West" or "Dream of the Red Chamber" in those years, they all participated in dubbing work with the skills of drama actors.
Dubbing not only allowed Lü Zhong and his wife to earn money, but also allowed them to meet a lot of friends in the film and television industry.
In 1987, at the age of 47, Lu Zhong ushered in a career turnaround, and she launched an impact on the film and television industry, starring in the TV series "Plainclothes Police" for the first time.
Although she has been somewhat "overage" as an age, Lu Zhong's acting skills and image on the screen have quickly been recognized by everyone.
With her rich acting experience and professional attitude of dedication, Lu Zhong quickly gained a foothold in the film and television circle, and constantly invited her to shoot scenes.
In 1991, Lü Zhong was nominated for the Chinese TV Series Feitian Award for Outstanding Actress for the TV series "Defending You".
Since then, in many ancient dramas, Lü Zhong often played roles such as the empress dowager, and was once known as the "empress dowager's professional household".
With his excellent acting skills, Lü Zhong has won the Outstanding Actress Award of the China TV Drama Feitian Award and the Outstanding Actress Award of Population Culture.
In 2000, Lu Zhong retired from the Beijing People's Art Theater, and she left the drama stage to devote herself more intently to the film and television circle.
Although Lü Zhong was already sixty years old at that time, Wu Guiling did not stop her from acting, because he understood that Lü Zhong really loved acting.
Lu Zhong has always loved to lose everything, and every time she goes out to shoot a scene, her husband will pack her bags and write down the things she brings on a piece of paper.
Before Lü Zhong left, Wu Guiling would say every time: "I have made a list of what I brought you, and when you come back, just pack it according to it, don't lose it." ”
Lü Zhong promised to be good every time, but every time he came back, he lost a large part of his things, which made Wu Guiling angry and helpless.
But the husband never said anything to complain about, and has always been willing to be Lu Zhong's "service soldier" and arrange everything in the family in a proper and orderly manner.
This is also the main reason why Lu Zhong can shoot with peace of mind.
Since the debut of Lu Zhong, many people can't tell her and Xi Meijuan, and the two are indeed somewhat similar in terms of appearance and temperament.
In 2013, at the age of 73, Lu Zhong once again went to the peak of his career.
She was nominated for Best Actress at the Venice International Film Festival for her role in the film The Interloper and won the Best Actress Award at the Asia Pacific Film Grand Prix.
Looking at the entire entertainment industry, at such an old age, you can still get such an honor, I am afraid that there is no one except Lu Zhong!
What is surprising is that in the next few years, we rarely see The new works of Teacher Lu Zhong.
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Originally, as she grew older, Lu Zhong reduced her workload, and she spent more time with her husband.
She understood: Wu Guiling had taken care of her all her life, and now it was time to accompany him well.
Lü Zhong often walked hand in hand with Wu Guiling in the sunset, occasionally went out to buy vegetables together, and Lü Zhong would accompany him to take a dip in the hot spring, and the life of the two was peaceful and comfortable.
But accidents always come suddenly, and since 2015, Wu Guiling's body has started to be worse than a day.
In order to be able to take good care of Wu Guiling, Lu Zhong simply pushed away a lot of drama, and she spent more energy on taking care of her husband.
In order to let Wu Guiling get exercise, she specially prepared a shelf at home and put his medicine and food on it.
Lü Zhong also labeled each item, wrote down when to eat, how much to eat, and then let Wu Guiling take it herself.
Now look back at those years When Lu Zhong went out to shoot dramas, Wu Guiling sorted out the list of items for her, and these two things were put together, and it can be seen that the love between the two is ordinary and great.
But even the most beautiful story will have an ending, in 2016, Wu Guiling died of illness at the age of 78.
Even if Lü Zhong took good care of it, he could not help Wu Guiling defeat the disease.
During those days, Lu Zhong was often in pain because she missed her husband, but fortunately, her children took good care of her, which allowed her to slowly get out of the pain.
Wu Bing inherited his parents' artistic genes, although he did not have a lot of experience as an actor, he was an excellent behind-the-scenes worker.
He is now a professor at the Beijing Film Academy, a very good director and screenwriter, and has adapted and directed many film and television works, such as "October Siege" and "Wise Tiger Mountain".
Wu Bing, under the education of Lü Zhong, is low-key and easy-going, he and his wife He Lin were married in a low-key manner in 2015, and the relationship between the two has never appeared scandalous.
He Lin is also a powerful actor in the film and television circle, she graduated from Beijing Film, has won the International Emmy Award for Best Actress, and is a well-deserved international film queen.
He Lin also admires her mother-in-law Lü Zhong, the two are both mother-in-law and close friends in life, and her goal is to have the same achievements as Lü Zhong in the show business circle in the future.
Although Lü Zhong's daughter did not engage in literary and artistic work, she became a pillar of the country and an excellent aerospace worker on the mainland.
In 2019, Lu Zhong received the Special Honor Award of the 17th Academy of Film Performing Arts, which is a recognition of her decades of acting career.
Although Lu Zhong debuted late, her acting strength and fame are undeniable.
In her acting career, she has never received advertising or endorsements, has always been a down-to-earth acting, and has never valued fame and money.
In the Lu Center, no matter what she does, there is only the word "heart", so she will create one classic role after another for everyone on the screen.
The professional spirit of Teacher Lu Zhong is worth learning from our younger generations!
Now that Lu Zhong is 82 years old, she has still become an old drama bone, although she has long been white, she is still dedicating herself to the acting career she loves.
I wish Teacher Lu Zhong a happy and healthy life in his old age!
Since her debut, Teacher Lu Zhong has always been a low-key person, not only herself, but also educated her children to be practical and do things.
Now her children and daughter-in-law have their own careers, which is enough to prove the success of Teacher Lu Zhong.
She and Wu Guiling have gone through 53 years of ups and downs, the two have tasted the bittersweet and bittersweet of life, and the two have supported each other for a lifetime!
When she was young, Wu Guiling was willing to take care of her silently behind Lü Zhong's back, and when Wu Guiling was ill, Lü Zhong took care of her husband like he did at the beginning.
Good love is like this, it may not be vigorous, but it will definitely go through a lifetime hand in hand!
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