Recently, former TVB artist Deng Jianhong publicly revealed on a good friend's show that he had cheated with other members of the opposite sex behind his girlfriend's back during his relationship.
As soon as this remark was broadcast, netizens commented: enough scum!
It is reported that this show is a self-made interview program by TVB Huadan Chen Minzhi on the Internet, called "Chi Chat".
Because the topic scale is relatively large, this show is also very popular on the Internet.
In the latest program, Chen Minzhi also invited Deng Jianhong, a well-known male star who has been friends for many years and lives in a community.
In the picture, Deng Jianhong is dressed casually, wearing a beret, and also put up a pair of glasses, leaning on the sofa, the state is very relaxed.
For many people, the name Deng Jianhong is not familiar.
But in Hong Kong, his fame is still good.
In 2001, he signed a contract with Gold Medal Entertainment, debuted as a singer, and then returned to TVB, in addition to the host status, he gradually entered the film and television circle and became an actor.
In 2010, he starred with Miao Qiaowei and Huang Rihua in the TVB Drama "Criminal Police 2010", in which he played a murderer suffering from schizophrenia.
However, his most well-known role is the hit drama "Apostle Walker" released in 2014, in which he played the black mirror Ye Zhaoliang, which was deeply rooted in people's hearts.
However, he is best known for his emotional experiences.
On the show, he was also asked about the emotional abundance.
Because in the eyes of many people, Deng Jianhong is not a cream student, his appearance is not very high, and even Deng Jianhong himself has said, "Everyone thinks I am ugly, but my girlfriend is quite down-to-earth." ”
In the face of doubts, Deng Jianhong also specially shared a set of secrets for chasing girls, and also exposed a big melon that he had cheated on.
He said that he studied art and has a lot of insight into beautiful things, especially for beautiful women, and has a set of "experiences".
He confessed that he usually respects women and believes that only men who are careful and polite can win the favor of the other party.
In the interview, he also said he already had a girlfriend in 2007.
But still by chance, I made an appointment with Shi Yongli, and the other party also agreed to come out for a late-night snack.
According to him, he just wanted to touch the other person, not really pursue the other person.
Such a derailment, although he admits that it is shameful, is obviously a little "showing off" between words.
In the eyes of the Hong Kong media, Deng Jianhong is indeed a "flower heart man", and has the title of "Hong Kong sister killer", and actresses who have fallen in love with him, such as Li Shiwei, Yuan Yiqiao and others are all born in Hong Kong.
Although these predecessors are all big beauties, it is difficult to change Deng Jianhong's "flower heart".
As early as when he was the host of "Lightning Fax Machine" on TVB, he came together with the 1999 Hong Kong sister runner Atomic Spike.
However, this four-year-long relationship quietly broke up.
Deng Jianhong once revealed in the show that the reason why the two broke up was because they had grown up.
He also said that the woman had also written a letter to him, saying that everyone was a person of two worlds.
After that, he officially embarked on the road of "Sea King".
After separating from Atomic Spike, in 2005, he met Li Shiwei, an actor with the crew, while filming "The Wife".
At that time, Li Shiwei's father declared bankruptcy due to business failure, and she also changed from "Bai Fumei" to "poor girl", and her mood was very depressed.
And Deng Jianhong just appeared, his careful and artistic talent, let Li Shiwei have a sense of security, so they came together.
In this five-year relationship, the two parties did not choose to be public, and after the two got along, they often quarreled over personality problems.
In the words of Li Shiwei, "In the past five years, there have been more unhappiness than happiness, a lot of negative energy." ”
And this time in the interview, Deng Jianhong's self-exposed "derailment" occurred during the love affair with Li Shiwei.
It was 2007, and it was logical that the two should be in love, but in fact, according to Li Shiwei, the two had many problems from the beginning.
Perhaps, because of the emotional problems with his girlfriend that bothered him, he repeatedly asked Shi Yongli to come out to eat and chat behind Li Shiwei's back.
In 2010, after Deng Jianhong broke up with Li Shihui, he was soon exposed to his relationship.
This time, the woman is Gong Jiaxin, a newcomer who is 16 years younger than him.
However, the relationship lasted only two years before it was declared over, and the news given by the media at that time was that Gong Jiaxin would break up with Deng Jianhong because she fell in love with Xu Jiajie.
At that time, the breakup of the two was in a big fight in Hong Kong.
What people did not expect was that not long after, this matter ushered in a reversal, because some media filmed Deng Jianhong and the 2007 Hong Kong sister champion Zhang Jia'er in the same car, and even sent each other home.
In desperation, Deng Jianhong had to issue a statement with Gong Jiaxin saying that the two broke up because of their incompatible personalities, and there was no rumor of a third party cheating.
Interestingly, in the same year that Deng Jianhong broke up with Gong Jiaxin, he came together with Shi Yongli, who was 13 years younger than him, and his relationship developed very rapidly.
In 2017, the two ended their love run and officially entered the palace of marriage.
Looking back at Deng Jianhong's several emotional histories, almost all of them are in a seamless state, and his behavior and view of feelings are also quite speechless.
First of all, the respect for women he mentions is "ulterior motives".
In the few relationships he talked about, he did not really respect his girlfriend, and even went behind his girlfriend's back to find other people of the opposite sex, and his so-called "artistic talent" was only a means he used to chase girls.
Moreover, as a man, his breakup is not decent enough and not responsible enough.
In this interview, he exposed his own "cheating" past, and even with a kind of "show off" component, no matter how his emotional ending with Li Shiwei is, but in love, Li Shiwei has also paid sincerely, and even expressed his attachment to feelings.
After the breakup, Li Shiwei did not say that Deng Jianhong's sentence was not, and praised each other for being careful, and the two are still friends.
However, Deng Jianhong did not show the attitude he should have, and this self-exposure in the show would only make Li Shiwei injured again.
Moreover, in the hands of Gong Jiaxin, Zhang Jia'er, who was suspected of being a "little third", even took the initiative to apologize, "I don't have the intention to hurt anyone, but I will apologize for causing anyone to misunderstand." ”
What Deng Jianhong gave was only a "joint statement" and did not have any responsibility as a man.
In the end, he did not have the attitude of being a public figure.
In the Hong Kong media, Deng Jianhong was labeled by the media as a "flower heart man" very early, but he did not care about it himself, but said a little smugly, "I am very serious about love, and every relationship is calculated in years." ”
As a public figure, it is not that there can only be one relationship, but in each relationship, at least there is respect for the feeling, which is the bottom line.
Obviously, the attitude shown by Deng Jianhong in the program does not have the above three points.
At present, Deng Jianhong has gradually turned into the background, focusing on taking care of the singing career for his wife Shi Yongli.
Married for five years, he is very fond of his wife, and I hope that this time he can really cherish this feeling.
(Rotten Tomatoes Editorial Board: Ann An)