Previously, Li Yapeng's child, Li Yan, posted a set of swimsuit photos of himself on social accounts, which was a bit surprising.
However, some people found that the time when Li Yan released this information had a lot to do with the time when Li Yapeng released the information that he and Haiha Jinxi were married and had children.
This means that the reason why Li Yan did this is likely related to her father, it seems to be "declaring war" on her father's remarriage.
When Faye Wong gave birth to Li Yan, she found that Li Yan had congenital diseases, so the couple was very concerned about their children, especially their fathers.
In order to prevent Li Yan from feeling inferior because of her appearance problems, Li Yapeng encouraged Li Yan and cared for Li Yan countless times, and seemed to spend most of his life on Li Yan.
And Li Yapeng's hard work is not in vain, Li Yan's condition is constantly improving, so far, it seems that she once had a cleft lip and palate, no different from other children.
However, Li Yan's life has not always been calm, and the separation of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng at the beginning had a greater impact on Li Yan.
However, because Li Yapeng gave her full of fatherly love, Li Yan's childhood life was still relatively happy. It may also be because of this that Li Yapeng's position in Li Yan's heart is almost irreplaceable, as if his father is his whole world.
And now, Li Yapeng is married to another woman and has children, and also very "ostentatiously" announced to the public, this situation may make Li Yan's heart have a lot of fluctuations, after all, from childhood to adulthood has always belonged to his own father, but at this time he will share love with others.
Of course, these situations are only the analysis of netizens, but they are not unfounded. Because Li Yan is now 15 years old, it is in the stage of adolescence, and adolescence is also an important rebellious period, so at this time to make their own swimsuit photos, in fact, it is easier to understand.
I hope that Li Yan's family, after this incident, can live happily.
Of course, whether Li Yan can avoid the negative impact of adolescence depends on what her father Li Yapeng does, and we believe that her father, who has always been competent, will also handle this matter properly.
Like Li Yan's case, in fact, in life abounds, everyone's children to puberty, may do some things that surprise parents, produce some unexpected thoughts, and whether the child will successfully pass through puberty depends on how parents educate their children.
What is puberty?
Most parents have heard the word adolescence, but they do not know it too deeply or do not know it from the depths of their minds.
For example, some parents know that their children will change during adolescence, but they have not made the slightest change in family education, gender education, etc., resulting in the child's adolescence is not smooth.
Puberty generally refers to the time when the child is 10 to 20 years old, and girls usually start and end earlier than boys, probably between the ages of 10 and 18, while boys are between the ages of 12 and 20.
During puberty, the child's physiological aspects will undergo major changes, the most obvious of which is the change in sexual development.
Of course, in addition to sexual development, the child's physical development will also become faster, such as the child's height and weight, system of physical circulation, cardiopulmonary function and so on.
When children experience puberty, they generally need to go through three stages, namely early, middle and late, each stage of the child will have different performances, parents need to change the way of tutoring, to guide the healthy growth of children.
How can I help my child get through puberty?
When the child is in adolescence, whether it is psychological or physical, there will be great changes, parents should pay attention to guiding development at this time, pay attention to these two aspects,
◎Developmental characteristics of puberty
Parents should know that when the child is in puberty, the body will appear rapid development, the child's sexual organs will gradually mature during puberty, the child's height and weight will grow rapidly, and the child's heart and lung organs and brain and other tissues will develop rapidly.
Therefore, at this stage, the child's demand for nutrition is very large, and the formation of habits also has a great impact on the child's development status.
Therefore, parents should do these things:
- Ensure that your child's diet is healthy and nutritious and diverse.
- Cultivate good work and rest habits to ensure the quality and duration of your child's sleep.
- Supervise and guide children to participate in outdoor sports to promote better development of children.
◎ Stage education in adolescence
There are three stages in the development of adolescence, but there are four stages in adolescence education. Because before puberty comes, parents need to start educating their children.
The first stage, that is, the beginning of the child's school age to the arrival of puberty, parents should pay attention to let the child learn the knowledge of puberty development in advance, understand the thinking and physical changes that may occur during puberty, and finally let the child know that any changes that occur in adolescence are necessary in the development process, so that the child can maintain a good attitude and do not panic.
The second stage is the early adolescence of the child, and parents should further strengthen the gender education of the child. For example, understand the stages of sexual development in adolescence, personal hygiene problems, and some typical physiological reactions to adolescence.
The third stage, that is, the middle of the child's adolescence, parents should guide the child to understand the emotions and feelings they produce during adolescence, such as guiding the child to recognize what is "curiosity", why there are "emotional fluctuations", etc., and tell the child to face up to puberty and not to joke about adolescence.
The fourth stage, that is, the late adolescence, parents should pay attention to guiding children to look at puberty from an objective perspective, because at this time, the child's subjective understanding of puberty has been basically perfected, and the child should understand some objective problems, such as the influence of hormones on puberty, so as to make the child treat puberty more rationally.
Broken thoughts
Every child needs to go through puberty, and during this stage, the child's thinking and emotions have great fluctuations. Therefore, parents must pay attention to the child's adolescent development, improve the attention to the child, timely education of the child's adolescence, and help the child solve some of the confusion in life, body, mind, etc., help the child establish correct values, so that the child can grow up healthily.
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