Blessed people are not born.
Instead, through their own words and deeds, every move, and then through the power of time, they are transformed into good habits in life, and little by little they have the ability to gather blessings.
So, when a person begins to become blessed, it often begins with a change in the self.
The truly blessed person comes from his own state of mind, from his personal conduct, and even more from his own actions.
For the rest of his life, a blessed person will have such a sign.
1 Not afraid to be alone, but enjoy being alone
Zhu Ziqing once said:
"I love to be lively and calm; I love to live in groups and I love to be alone. This is the beauty of being alone, and I am better off with this boundless lotus moonlight. ”
Only when a person is alone can he keep a clear mind, and can he let himself find his long-lost self in the impetuous earthly world, soothe his heart, and be quiet and far-reaching.
Therefore, the truly blessed person is not afraid of being alone, but will enjoy the spiritual baptism brought about by solitude, fade the exhaustion of the body, and feel a quiet beauty in solitude.
People who are alone will not feel lonely when they are alone, but learn to talk to their inner selves in solitude, let themselves slowly precipitate the gains and losses in the years, and let themselves find the direction in the midst of thousands of problems.
People who are alone, like to think about the present when they are alone, can make themselves wise and wise, each step is thoughtful, absolutely will not live up to the time, let themselves muddled life.
Truly blessed people make themselves better and better in solitude.
2 Life is not perfect, know how to forgive yourself
Su Shi wrote in "Water Tune Song Head":
"People have sorrows and joys, and the moon has clouds and sunshine, and this matter is difficult to complete."
In this world, there are no perfect people and things in itself, let alone a perfect life. Since they understand this truth, the truly blessed person will not easily embarrass himself, but will know how to forgive himself.
Everything, do your best, go all out, as for the final result of success or failure and otherwise go along with Providence, you can't deny yourself because of a temporary failure, don't be arrogant because of a little achievement, understand that imperfection is to have contentment and happiness, and don't be grumpy about things that don't need you.
To be a person, but also to know how to forgive yourself, not all people have to be with you, there are many people who are just passers-by in your life, their appearance may bring you pain and pain, the role is to remind you to stay away from such people, look for people who match you, don't blame yourself, there is no feast in the world, walking and staying is the norm of life.
Don't embarrass yourself, know how to forgive yourself, and happiness will come to you.
3 Like to smile and show people, laugh at the wind and clouds
Writer Hugo said:
"There is one thing that is more like us than our face, and that is our expression; there is another thing, more like us than our expression, and that is a smile."
Smiling is not only an expression, in fact, it is also a positive energy transmitted to the outside world, which is to convey inner happiness to others and make others feel their warmth.
Living in the moment, everyone may have forgotten the smile, and what remains on the face is more tired and decadent, but once you see a smile from others, you will feel a warm feeling in your heart, allowing yourself to see the best moment of life.
People who like to smile, always observe the world with a positive side, can meet the ups and downs with a positive attitude, although life is not easy, but in the heart of hope can make themselves better and better.
Blessed people like to show people with a smile, laugh at the wind and clouds, even if they run and fight all the way, but their hearts are full of energy, and opportunities will come uninvited.
4 Be low-key and humble
There is a sentence in "The Mean":
"The earth is low into the sea, and the people are low into kings."
Only when a person is low-key and humble, can he have a broad mind, so that he will not encounter the embarrassment of "Mu Xiu Yu Lin", and will not cause disasters because of his personal sharpness, but seek peace, in order to truly make a difference.
Blessed people understand the teaching of "threesomes, there must be my teacher" in a low profile, so that they can learn the advantages from others, better achieve themselves, and make themselves more and more powerful.
When a person can tolerate others in a low profile, it is easier to gain the trust of others, so that more people are willing to help themselves, achieve themselves, and it is easier to succeed.
5 Be kind and helpful
Mencius says:
"Those who have attained the Tao have more help, and those who have lost the Tao have little help."
A blessed person can become better and better, it must be kind and helpful, so that more people will be willing to help him, so that he will become more and more blessed and more successful.
Kind people, know how to pass on love and warmth to others, then the natural will be returned, and people with their own like-mindedness will gather more and more, more friends, easy to walk, when they encounter difficulties, there will naturally be more people to help.
Helpfulness is a virtue, but also an ability, even if it is only a show of hands in real life, it seems insignificant, but for the people who are helped will remember for a lifetime, they will also repay this giving with gratitude, and the relationship between the two people will become more and more close.
If a person enjoys being alone, knows how to forgive himself, likes to smile, is low-key, kind, and helpful, then his blessings will be more and more, and he will benefit for a lifetime.
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