That night, Li Liqun had just finished handling the aftermath of his 91-year-old mother, and his wife suddenly threw herself into his arms and cried bitterly, counting down his mother's piles, one evil deed after another, and the hardships she had suffered in this life. Li Liqun almost fainted when he heard this, and kept pounding his head and saying: Why didn't you say it earlier?
Li Liqun was born in Taiwan in 1952, his family conditions are very poor, even if other people's families are poor, at least the family is four walls, there are four walls to shield the wind and rain.
However, Li Liqun's home, is a simple tent, or borrowed from the neighbor's two walls to set up, even the most basic food and clothing can not be solved, since he has not eaten a few full meals, sometimes even can only drink cold water to fill his hunger.
After graduating from high school, his family could not afford to support him to go to college, so Li Liqun dropped out of school and began to work. It is precisely this harsh environment that has created Li Liqun's strong character of bearing hardships and standing hard work.
At the age of 25, his father let him become a seaman, not only with a high salary, but also to manage food and housing, and then Li Liqun decided to give up the seaman's profession and single-mindedly pursue his dream of becoming an actor. He signed up for the training class, and Li Liqun's luck was indeed very good, and not long after his debut, he became popular with "Qing Su Pity Me I Pity Qing", and also won many awards.
Then he and Lai Shengchuan, Li Guoxiu and others created a troupe of performance workshops, and his career began to make great strides. Men's love often occurs after career success, and Li Liqun is the same
Once, Li Liqun went to Li Guoxiu's house for a meeting, and when he walked in the door, a girl dressed in white and a black dress walked past him, this girl looked very tall, with a pair of bright eyes, very beautiful, and the girl's clear eyes hit the softest place in his heart like Cupid's arrow. At this glance, Li Liqun was deeply attracted to her.
He began to knock on the side and asked Li Guoxiu who was this girl?
Li Guoxiu said that "she is my sister-in-law's sister" Named Lin Liqin, single, is a university teacher, teaches art
Later, when Li Liqun held a meeting, he was always unconscious, and his eyes always glanced at the girl, and he was discovered by Li Guoxiu
He smiled and said, do you want me to help you do matchmaking to pull the strings? Hearing this, Li Liqun quickly nodded. Just like this, she is naturally attracted to her at first sight.
After getting married, Li Liqun was overjoyed, but he was vaguely uneasy in his heart. As a mother of Beijingers. There was a pride under the roots of the Imperial City. Usually, I drink five or six, thinking that I am Cixi Lafayette. Yet the truth was exactly as he thought
After a few years of marriage, the two had no children. So under the persecution of her mother-in-law, her wife had to leave her teaching position and resign and return home to concentrate on giving birth.
A futuristic artist. At the age of 26, she became a full-time wife, and in the next six years, she raised two boys, a woman, and three healthy children for the Li family.
What Li Liqun did not know was that for so many years, his wife had been tortured by her mother. Li Liqun had bumped into his mother several times and was unreasonable to his wife, and he was very angry. But the mother is always the mother, he is angry, but there is nothing he can do.
Then one day, he suddenly realized that the relationship between his mother and his wife had improved. He was also secretly glad that the family would always tolerate and tolerate each other. As everyone knows, this is the mother and wife who are doing their best to perform so that he can be at ease.
In front of the son is a good mother-in-law, a good grandmother of the grandson. But when the son is not at home, the gong and drum are played on the stage, and this daughter-in-law is not pleasing to the eye, like an enemy.
The vegetables bought are not fresh, the meat bought is fat, why not drag the floor 5 times, the clothes washed are not clean, why wash clothes with the washing machine to wash waste electricity, and even sometimes mutter, how can my son look at you, but even so, the wife, have broken her teeth to swallow in her stomach, never return the mouth.
Once, my wife couldn't stand being scolded by her mother-in-law and offered to move out. But Li Liqun said: How good it is for a family to live together! Take care of each other. After that, the wife never mentioned this matter again, and continued to bear the burden of humiliation and accept the storm of her mother-in-law.
Li Liqun's mother died at the age of 91, and as soon as the funeral was completed, her wife could not bear it any longer, and she threw herself into her husband's arms and cried a painful pain. Lin Liqin confided in Li Liqun about her grievances.
After Li Liqun listened, he almost fainted, and his wife could endure such an encounter for so many years, "Why didn't you tell me earlier"?
The wife said, "You have worked so hard for this family, how can I bear to tell you this?" ”
Li Liqun felt extremely ashamed, as her husband, she had let her wife endure alone for so many years. Afterwards, Li Liqun commented that his mother's old lady's acting skills were too good, but the old mother had left peacefully, and Li Liqun's wife sacrificed one person to complete the whole family
I know that my wife gave up the painting she loved for the sake of her family. After the family stabilized, he persuaded her to pick up the brush again.
And with the encouragement of Li Liqun, Lin Liqin also followed her daughter who studied art and re-studied oil painting for half a year.
In 2016, the mother and daughter held a charity exhibition together. In addition to Filming, Li Liqun often accompanied her silently on the side, he said: If she paints to the old age, the tea next to her will definitely be me.
Now Li Liqun does not take over the drama much, and now he and his wife enjoy their old age together, the two travel to drink, eat and drink, and live the life of idle clouds and wild cranes
It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a major test of marriage, and if it is not good, the husband and wife will shoot and scatter. But in the face of her mother-in-law's harsh and difficult, Lin Liqin couldn't bear to say anything, and it had not affected her to cultivate three children.
Such a woman is really a family's fixed sea god needle. Li Liqun's achievements are more than half of Lin Liqin's. Li Liqun and his wife have lived for many years and are still in love as before, which may be the appearance of love.
For the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along with the conditions or it is recommended to live separately, because the current young people and the elderly life habits are not the same, not together can also avoid conflicts
You must understand that your mother-in-law is not related to you by blood, and it is already very good that you can respect each other like guests, do not quarrel or make trouble, do not be more real, and do not have too high expectations of her.
What do you think is the most important thing for your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to How would you react if your mother-in-law didn't help with the baby?
