Someone online asked:
How to view the flash marriage and divorce in the countryside?
The phenomenon of flash marriage and divorce does not only occur in rural areas.
It mainly happens to young people relatively much,
Therefore, where there are young people, there is the phenomenon of flash marriage and divorce.
On the surface, flash marriage and divorce are irresponsible for marriage, and it is a child's play for marriage.
It is the immaturity of young people, without commitment.
Peel open the surface to see the essence,
There are several reasons why young people are flashing off from marriage:
1.
Under the pressure of parents and families,
Get married with the mentality of completing tasks, or even the mentality of gambling,
So flash marriage,
Then because the mentality was not stable, it flashed away.
Therefore, parents should not urge marriage,
event-to-be-held avenge,
Good kids become divorced people, and it turns out that they can take their own pace.
2.
Flash marriage Flash divorce marriage,
Most of them are introduced, blind dates, and then flash marriage,
Two people lack the necessary emotional foundation and basis for getting along,
This leads to the instability of the marriage and the fragility of the break.
Especially in large rural areas,
Young people usually go to the city to work, as long as the Spring Festival is at home,
And then a few days of spring festival holidays,
The family has arranged intensive blind dates,
As long as the two sides look at each other, they can't wait to settle down, so as not to change,
This must be a flash marriage.
As soon as we got along again, we slipped away.
3.
Early marriage leads to flash marriage and divorce,
Young people are still not understanding the meaning and responsibility of marriage, and they are not yet mature.
I was arranged by my parents to get married.
Both people are immature in their thinking, and they do not really understand family and marriage.
One has a problem, one has a contradiction and a conflict,
For example, having children, the pressure is high,
It's easy to dodge away.
4.
Both parents and families are too involved in the marriage of young people,
To put it more bluntly, too many people have mixed, and simplicity has become complicated.
After the young man flash marriage,
Parents, relatives, neighbors, friends on both sides, everyone comes,
There is a sense of presence,
It's the little two who are confused: Is this two people getting married?
Who can blame?
A marriage, in addition to the male and female protagonists responsible for appearing on the scene,
Everything is arranged by parents and families,
In the end, the mixing (not intentionally, many of them are mixed without knowing it) is finished and flashed away.
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