"Invite people to fu grease powder, not to wear their own clothes." The beauty hides the ancient world, and the lotus flowers are ashamed of their faces. "In the long river of history, beauty is a stunning color, the beauty and innocence of cardamom years, the dignified and simple style of the husband and son, the charm of Xu Niang's half-old still exists, and every stage of women has its own unique charm."
The face can not withstand the consumption of time, but the love can withstand the long years, live exquisitely, the mentality is young, even if the head is frosted, it is still like red plum Spring Dawn, and the 61-year-old Aunt Sheng is such a beauty who has been forgotten by time.
Aunt Sheng is a northeasterner, lively, in the popular words on the Internet, a woman like the wind, always full of vitality. When she was young, she was a girl who loved beauty, willing to spend time on herself, even if she was married, she did not give up pleasing herself, even at home, she would be carefully dressed, not for pleasing herself, just beauty for herself.
Because of this, Aunt Sheng's face is always full of confidence, like the rising sun, people can't help but get closer. However, Aunt Sheng's life is not smooth sailing, she has passed the age of flower armor, her children have grown up to become a family, should have been with her wife to raise the elderly, live a happy life around the knees of children and grandchildren, but the wife quit halfway, the soul returned to the underworld.
She has no living and financial burdens, but if she stays alone in an empty and lonely house for a long time, she will inevitably feel lonely, so she has the idea of finding a wife to spend her life with, and her children are also very supportive, so will her blind date go smoothly?
The man who is close to Aunt Sheng is Uncle Gao, 4 years older than her, and is also a middle-aged widow. From the overall condition point of view, the two are considered to be on an equal footing. When they first met, Aunt Sheng and Red Niang went to Uncle Gao's house, because generally after marriage, the woman will live in the man's home, so Aunt Sheng also came to investigate the actual situation of Uncle Gao's family.
Aunt Sheng attended the ceremony that day, although there is no high-end atmosphere on the grade of the high-end evening dress, but her dress is definitely the best in the same age, light yellow hair, let people shine, such a hair color even if it is small and young, can not be easily controlled, put on Aunt Sheng's body but there is no violation.
Pink tops and sassy high boots, but also with the times, the middle-aged fashion show vividly, plus her eyes have starlight, smile full of power, Uncle Gao since she entered the door, the line of sight has not left her, in the chat is even more eyes are straight, steps can not move, as if into love of the fool.
Aunt Sheng herself has excellent conditions, and she is naturally reluctant to give up to her other half. There is a saying that "starts with appearance and is loyal to character." Uncle Gao was like this to Aunt Sheng, and so was Aunt Sheng, so not long after the meeting, Aunt Sheng quietly said to the red lady: "Not very satisfied." ”
Why? It is not that the conditions of the high uncle or the character are not good, but that he is not proud, and the first impression gives people the feeling that he does not like to clean up his own, which is contrary to Aunt Sheng's "exquisite theory", if the most basic concept of life is not in harmony, how to go on in the future?
However, Uncle Gao fell in love at first sight and felt that he and Aunt Sheng were a good match, and he said that he could accept Aunt Sheng's fashionable ideas and even make some changes for her. The love of middle-aged people is like an old house on fire, out of control, he is not really an iron man, in front of the people he likes, sweet words are output unconsciously.
That beauty-loving girl doesn't want to be praised for being pretty? Aunt Sheng is no exception, Uncle Gao's exaggerated mode has won her heart, after some exchanges, her impression of Uncle Gao has added a few points, and from the conversation, she learned that Uncle Gao usually has a hobby of drinking, which coincides with her.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and at their age, children don't have to worry about it, as long as they live their own lives, then of course, the object they are looking for should be more in line with their own wishes. Without the romance of the wind and snow, it is rare in the world to be able to make yourself happy in life and have common interests and hobbies.
Therefore, Aunt Sheng decided to contact Uncle Gao again, even if it is a middle-aged person's love, it can not be rushed, carefully consider the character, carefully consider the marriage, in order to avoid many tragedies.
Whether it is a first marriage or a second marriage, the Mainland Civil Code clearly stipulates that arranged marriages, the sale and purchase of marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. It is forbidden to use marriage to claim money. Marriage shall be made entirely voluntary by both the man and the woman, and it shall be forbidden for either party to coerce the other and for the interference of any organization or individual.
If Aunt Sheng and Uncle Gao are fortunate enough to come together, they must also have a clear understanding of the property and the situation of their respective families, and they must negotiate early, and twilight love can be as enthusiastic as fire, but it cannot burn the people around them. At the same time, once married, it means that for the rest of your life, three meals and four seasons, you are no longer a person, how to deal with the marriage relationship, but also a university question of life.
Article 1043 of the Civil Code stipulates that families shall establish a good family style, carry forward family virtues, and attach importance to the construction of family civilization. Husbands and wives should be faithful to each other, respect each other, and care for each other; Family members shall respect the elderly and love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.
Years are undefeated beauty, we should not add some inherent restrictions to age, the elderly can be exquisite and elegant. With the progress of social thought, people's concepts have gradually become open and inclusive, seeing Aunt Sheng bravely show herself and pursue happiness, and even some netizens directly called: "I am moved." ”
No matter what age stage we are in, we should not give up our pursuits, the freshness and satisfaction of life has always been given by ourselves, and I wish that Aunt Sheng and Uncle Gao can harvest love as soon as possible.
(Involving privacy, the names in this case are pseudonyms, and some of the pictures are from the Internet, which only matches the narrative.) Warm reminder: respect the original, please do not plagiarize the handling and reprint Oh)