Zhu Zhu's intervention became the last straw that crushed Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's marriage.
When Fang Yinuo married Xiao Lu, the Fang family was obviously unwilling, Xiao Lu did not have a stable job, and there was a family behind it, and Fang Yinuo's mother especially looked down on Xiao Lu.
Xiao Lu's father died early, the widowed mother Gao Caiping pulled two sons alone, Gao Caiping itself is not high in cultural quality, usually like to smoke and play mahjong; under her "stocking", the eldest son Xiao Lu lacks a sense of responsibility, the younger son Xiao Xu only knows to nibble on the old, such a family, Fang Yinuo married in the past is undoubtedly into the fire pit.
However, Fang Yinuo trusts Xiao Lu very much, the two are college classmates, have a deep emotional foundation, Xiao Lu is handsome in appearance, very talented, and also has the ambition to change his destiny; In Fang Yinuo's eyes, it is all Xiao Lu's advantages.
It wasn't until the birth of his daughter Hehe that he tore open Xiao Lu's true face.
Fang Yinuo's "shame"
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu, the two people were actually not ready to give birth, it was the old people on both sides who urged them tightly, and the two little ones had to make plans for pregnancy early. Fang Yinuo is a teacher who has always wanted to be a class teacher; and Xiao Lu is also in the ascendancy of his career, in order to socialize, often leaving early and returning late, the two do not have the energy to bring children.
Both the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law promised that they would help, and Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu would be relieved to be born; and when the child landed, Fang Yinuo found that there was no one around him.
The mother-in-law is reluctant to quit smoking, the play is very heavy, playing mahjong is more interesting than taking the granddaughter; the mother-in-law has not yet retired, and it is not easy for the daughter to give birth, and she can only come to see it occasionally.
"Dear Child" This drama is too real, Fang Yinuo experienced the hardships of pregnancy, the pain during childbirth, and it was difficult to give birth to Hehe, lying weakly on the hospital bed, but the family was all around the child, not even a person who poured her a glass of water.
Xiao Lu took the reason of busy work, drinking beer at home and watching the ball game, and the next morning rushed to the hospital not to visit Fang Yinuo, but to get the placenta for the first time, Gao Caiping had already instructed him, the placenta was supplemented, and Xiao Xu was given a supplement.
In the face of his mother Gao Caiping's absurd behavior, Xiao Lu did not refuse, he secretly took the thing to his hand and handed it to Gao Caiping, Gao Caiping packed it with a thermos bucket, and when he went back, he wrapped wontons for Xiao Xu to eat.
Xiao Lu thought that he was doing something unconscious, but he didn't expect Fang Yinuo to know, Fang Yinuo didn't say a word, she endured, her repeated concessions, not that she was weak, but that she wanted to run the marriage well with Xiao Lu and give the children a warm home.
In addition to Xiao Lu after the birth of the child, because of the novelty hugged once, he almost did not look at the child directly; Fang Yinuo had the nature of being a mother, while Xiao Lu did not, Xiao Lu did not love children, he said that overtime was to let his wife and daughter live a good life, in fact, it was just an excuse for him to evade responsibility.
Fang Yinuo's confinement period has become sensitive and uneasy, and she has to adapt to the change of identity while taking care of her children carefully, afraid that her daughter will lose a little. Fang Yinuo for professional reasons, has the habit of taking notes, children drink milk and sleep, etc., Fang Yinuo will write in the book, so as to observe whether the child is healthy.
The family invited a nanny, Fang Yinuo is not assured, after all, the nanny is an outsider, it is difficult to say whether the child is careful, under Fang Yinuo's "more true", the nanny did not do it, Xiao Lu had to call Gao Caiping over to help.
The arrival of the mother-in-law did not reduce the burden of Fang Yinuo, the two generations of parenting concepts are different, a lot of conflicts broke out; Gao Caiping smoked in front of the child, the adult's socks and the child's clothes were washed in a basin, and the mahjong stroller was placed on the side of the road when he went out, Fang Yinuo was nervous about the safety of Hehe, the mother-in-law took the child out, and Fang Yinuo had to use the telescope to "monitor".
Under the "care" of Gao Caiping, the stroller rolled down the ramp, the child fell on the cement floor, Fang Yinuo collapsed and cried, holding the child to the hospital, fortunately, the child's injury was not serious, but the mother-in-law contradiction reached the peak, and Fang Yinuo could no longer hand over the child to the mother-in-law to take.
Xiao Lu was in the middle, in addition to saying good things on both sides, mashing paste and thin mud, did not help any practical help, the child cried at night, Xiao Lu pretended to sleep and did not get up, all handed over to Fang Yinuo to manage, the next day he also complained that he did not rest well.
Looking at the daughter and son-in-law's small family is a mess, the mother-in-law did early retirement, lost a lot of money, rushed to serve the daughter's confinement, the old lady is not accustomed to the Xiao family's door style, the two sides of the family meet, inevitably a vicious battle.
Xiao Xu cheekily rubbed rice, did not pay attention to hygiene, sneaked to smoke a cigarette, and also burned the curtain out of the hole, Fang Yinuo endured this little uncle again and again, a large family lived together, and finally broke out the most fierce quarrel.
Xiao Lu looked at the smoky miasma of home, felt that he was about to suffocate, he worked overtime outside, in order to accompany the customer to pretend to be a grandson, back home just want to take a good rest, but the ear is surrounded by the cries of children, the noise of adults, can not be stopped for a moment, as if his marriage, only the child's and fart, there is no beauty to speak of.
Xiao Lu wanted to make love to Fang Yinuo, Fang Yinuo always refused, Xiao Lu did not understand, the reason why Fang Yinuo did not let him touch was because after experiencing the process of childbirth, she was not confident in her body.
Fang Yinuo has a cleaning habit, after giving birth to a child, pulled her pants pocket, "ashamed" not to let her family help her change clothes; out of the hospital body did not recover well, a cough leaked urine; not to mention stretch marks, loose belly and a series of changes, these pains, Fang Yinuo did not want Xiao Lu to know, she wanted to maintain her image in Xiao Lu's mind.
Xiao Lu never considered from the position of Fang Yinuo, he only felt that his desires were not satisfied, adults and children made him tired, Xiao Lu had grievances, he began to be keen on "overtime", the other party promised cold violence, he ruined his marriage little by little.
Xiao Lu's "escape"
When Fang Yinuo was waiting for delivery in the hospital, Xiao Lu was free to drink and watch a ball game at home, and his wife was crossing the robbery, but he rarely enjoyed the pleasure of physical and mental relaxation.
After the birth of his daughter Hehe, Xiao Lu also tried to take care of Fang Yinuo.
Xiao Lu went to the market to buy fish, wanted to cook soup for Fang Yinuo's milk, crucian carp was sold out, Xiao Lu bought catfish, making Fang Yinuo cry and laugh; Xiao Lu cooked, only cooked a bowl of tasteless noodles, Fang Yinuo was difficult to swallow, mixed with sauce to eat, a mouthful of cough instant leakage, Fang Yinuo went to the bathroom, came back to find Xiao Lu wolfing, ate the noodles, and she was still hungry.
At that moment, Fang Yinuo's heart was cold, she went back to the bedroom, Xiao Lu did not see her desolate back. Fang Yinuo repeatedly gave Xiao Lu a chance, but what she waited for was Xiao Lu's increasing indifference, alienation, and betrayal.
Xiao Lu would rather accompany customers to drink than take the child to the hospital, the family's trivial skin makes him feel bored, he is not bothered, Xiao Lu gradually does not even have the will to reply to Fang Yinuo's message.
Fang Yinuo called Xiao Lu to go home early, Xiao Lu heard the phone is the child's cry and the adult's quarrel, do not have to go back to know the situation at home, Xiao Lu chicken thief said that in overtime, obviously the car has driven to the downstairs of the community, Xiao Lu but ruthlessly drove away again, escaping from this wave of chickens and dogs.
Hehe had a fever in the middle of the night, it was raining heavily outside, the mother-in-law held the child, rushed to the hospital, fell outside, and Xiao Lu was entangled with Zhu Zhu, Xiao Lu could answer the leader's phone, but he did not answer Fang Yinuo, his impatience was visible to the naked eye.
When Fang Yinuo was most helpless, all he needed was Xiao Lu's patient companionship, and someone who could share the ups and downs of life with her, rather than her being forced to grow up and Xiao Lu enjoying his success. Fang Yinuo's already bad mood was almost collapsed because of Xiao Lu's neglect, but Fang Yinuo was still strongly guarding his daughter and maintaining her marriage with Xiao Lu.
Fang Yinuo was willing to understand Xiao Lu, she thought that Xiao Lu's lack in the family was really because he was fighting for a career, until Zhu Zhu came to the door, Fang Yinuo did not know how ridiculous his persistence was.
Zhu Zhu's "rebellion"
Zhu Zhu is the daughter of Xiao Lu's customer Zhu Zong, Zhu is always a strong woman, not close to human feelings, difficult to communicate, Xiao Lu in order to win the project, had to take the sword to the side, in Zhu Zhu's body to work hard.
Xiao Lu showed the project book to Zhu Zhu, who always helped him make the most applicable suggestions, and the two got closer and closer, and slowly developed different feelings. Zhu Zhu is young and beautiful, gentle in character, a well-behaved girl, Xiao Lu is by her side, feeling the long-lost breath of youth, and away from the hustle and bustle of the family relaxed.
Zhu Zhu went on a blind date in the park, but asked Xiao Lu to talk to her about the project, in fact, Zhu Zhu wanted to use Xiao Lu as a shield and refused to accept the blind date arranged for her by her mother. The two of them took what they needed, and Xiao Lu treated Zhu Zhu far more patiently than Fang Yinuo.
Someone said: "Pleasing beauty is easier to make a man move than inner beauty, and it also makes people ignore her many shortcomings." Xiao Lu was like this to Zhu Zhu.
Xiao Lu showed a gentle smile in front of Zhu Zhu; Xiao Lu gave her a lipstick in order to thank Zhu Zhu; Zhu Zhu felt the gentleness and carefulness of this man, and she took the initiative to take him to see the stray dogs she fed in the park.
Xiao Lu asked her why she didn't bring the dogs home, and Zhu Zhu said, "How pitiful it is to raise them, how good it is to be free here." Zhu Zhu's words actually explained her unhappiness in her original family.
Her mother is strong and disciplines her very strictly, Zhu Zhu lacks nothing materially, but she is extremely lacking in spirit, she longs for freedom, there is a fire in her heart, and she urgently needs to break free and erupt.
Xiao Lu was just right to meet Zhu Zhu's needs.
Xiao Lu would take her to eat roadside stalls, cross the fence in the middle of the road, these things that Zhu Zhu could not do before, but in the company of Xiao Lu, he was released, watching Zhu Zhu treat these small things like a little girl can be so curious, Xiao Lu also has a different feeling for this girl.
Zhu Zhu secretly put on the lipstick that Xiao Lu sent her at home, looking in the mirror and fantasizing about everything about this man, knowing that Xiao Lu had a wife and children, Zhu Zhu didn't care, she felt that Xiao Lu was good to her, this was enough, she had enough confidence to be able to defeat his old and fading original match.
Zhu's mother found her daughter's abnormality and forced her to wipe off her lipstick, Zhu zong never let her daughter wear makeup, because when she was young, she was hurt by a "fox essence" with heavy makeup, and her husband betrayed the marriage, abandoned his wife and daughter, leaving her with a deep psychological shadow, so she was most unsympathetic to women as a third party, and she did not expect that her daughter had become the person she hated the most.
Zhu Zhu and Xiao Lu were socializing outside, Xiao Lu was drunk, Zhu Zhu took him to his home, the two spent a night of indulgence, Zhu Zhu very cleverly took a photo of Xiao Lu naked upper body, so as not to wake up and not recognize the account.
Zhu Mu was busy with her career and often traveled on business, she did not know that her daughter was bold enough to bring a man back, Zhu Mu left after eating breakfast in a hurry, and Xiao Lu, who was flustered in the bedroom, was relieved.
Zhu Zhu very intimately left breakfast for Xiao Lu, but did not expect Xiao Lu to have a showdown with her, saying that he had to be responsible for the family until now, marriage is not a child's play, Zhu Zhu did not understand Xiao Lu's choice, she desperately confessed to Xiao Lu, saying that she liked him, in order to get Xiao Lu, Zhu Zhu stalked him and chased after Xiao Lu's daughter's birthday party.
Fang Yinuo thought that Zhu Zhu was just a customer of Xiao Lu and wanted to entertain her well, but he did not expect that Zhu Zhu was not here to congratulate her, but to smash the field. In front of Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's relatives and friends, Zhu Zhu confessed her relationship with Xiao Lu, and also took out photos and voices as evidence, fang Yinuo was so embarrassed that he had to leave with the child.
Xiao Lu did not expect Zhu Zhu to do such an extreme, the reason why Zhu Zhu did such an outrageous thing was because she and Xiao Lu's ugly affairs were boiling over, the people in the unit laughed at her, and her mother insulted her for this, Zhu Zhu could not even return home, and Xiao Lu became her last reliance.
Zhu Zhu could not tolerate it, Xiao Lu deleted her contact information, to cut her off, but also handed over the project to others, Xiao Lu's desperate love shattered her last sanity, she was obsessed with the "crazy demon" of her husband, in fact, it was the most cruel revenge on her mother.
After Zhu Zhu's gossip reached Zhu Zong's ears, Zhu's mother taught her daughter this way: "Good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles." Now everyone in the company knows that you are entangled with a husband with a wife, and you still want to hide from me? I've provided you with the best education since I was a child, what have you learned? You don't feel ashamed to do such a disgraceful thing, I am still ashamed. When I trained you to be a talent, did I let you destroy other people's families and become a primary three? You are like your father, the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked. disgusting! ”
Zhu Zhu didn't know where she was wrong, and she responded with grievances: "Do you only care about your face, do you care about my feelings?" Did I just explain to you that you listened? My feelings are not worth mentioning in your heart, are they? ”
Zhu Mu slapped Zhu Zhu hard with a backhand. The mother-daughter showdown exposes the problems of both sides, Zhu Zhu has no moral bottom line, know three when three; Zhu Mother is strong and harsh, has a strong desire to control her daughter, Zhu Zhu has long been unable to stand this oppressive mother-daughter relationship.
Zhu Zhu picked Xiao Lu, is it really because of love?
She knew that Xiao Lu had a family and a mouth, and she had to shamelessly paste it, which was actually her greatest rebellion. Under the pressure of Zhu Mother, she can't wear makeup, can't eat roadside stalls, everything must be ruled, Zhu Zhu had to disguise herself as a well-behaved woman, but in her bones, she is not docile and obedient, she wants to have her own way of life, break through her mother's shackles on her.
A long-suppressed girl found an outlet in Xiao Lu, and she used this inferior way to express her dissatisfaction with the original family; but she did not know that her breakout and hurt most was not her mother, but herself.
Xiao Lu has a good feeling for Zhu Zhu, and having fun with her is also not love, Xiao Lu has never thought of divorcing Zhu Zhu, Zhu Zhu is just a pretext for him to evade family responsibilities; after discovering that Zhu Zhu likes him, Xiao Lu's reaction is not joy, but the discomfort of sticking gum on his body.
Zhu Zhu naively thought that Xiao Lu was sincere to her, and her mother punched her in the face with a word, and Zhu Zhu said: "What kind of person is not easy to find, you choose a man with a wife and children, he is a married man who still comes to seduce you, you really don't know how bad this man you are looking for is." ”
Zhu Zhu was not dead hearted, and had to bump Xiao Lu hard, until he saw Xiao Lu confess to the other party, Zhu Zhu did not know how good Xiao Lu was at acting. Zhu Zhu thought that as long as Xiao Lu was forced to divorce, she would be able to ascend to the throne, and the reality of the heart was that even if Xiao Lu divorced, he would not marry her at all.
Write at the end
Fang Yinuo could not accept Xiao Lu's betrayal, and once there would be countless times, after the collapse of trust, it would really be impossible to rebuild. Fang Yinuo's showdown tore open the fig leaf of her marriage to Xiao Lu.
Fang Yinuo cried and said, You touch your conscience, from the time we have children to today, I have gone up and down inside and out, have I let you your heart? No, Shaw Road. Xiao Xu ate the placenta, I put up with it; your mother smoked at home and dropped hehe, I put up with it; I took the child while working, I put up with it; you used our family as a hotel, I also put up with it, right? What should I do, what can I do, I have done it all, what else should I do? I just want to live a good life with you, that's what I think, Xiao Lu. What do you give back to me? What are you doing? ”
Fang Yinuo is not simple, her showdown makes Xiao Lu's conscience uneasy, Fang Yinuo asked Xiao Lu: "The day Hehe fever, the day my mother wrestled, are you two together?" Xiao Lu hesitated, lowered his head, and tried to argue that he was seeing a customer.
Fang Yinuo's question will plague Xiao Lu for the rest of his life, and the debt to his daughter is something he can never make up, but he is still for a woman like Zhu Zhu, and after he sees Zhu Zhu's pathology and extremes, he knows how important it is to have a partner with a sound mind.
There is a saying that goes: "Husband and wife love each other and are loyal to each other, which is the most basic requirement, of course, must be done first; but the quality of marriage is more reflected in the details of life." It is not difficult to solve the details, the key is not to turn a blind eye, let alone see and ignore. ”
From the difficult moment when Xiao Lu ignored Fang Yinuo's pregnancy and confinement, he had lost the love in his marriage little by little, and his lack of sense of family responsibility had hurt Fang Yinuohe and his children, as well as Zhu Zhu.
Xiao Lu desperately apologized to Fang Yinuo and begged Fang Yinuo to give him another chance, but Fang Yinuo's heart was already dead, and she and Xiao Lu were destined to part ways.