Why is the online comment on Ms. Tian Pujun's wind bad?
Because everyone thinks that she clearly relies on men, but she has always said that she is an independent woman and does not rely on men.
I think, the other one who leaned on men and then dumped men, seemed to be Angelababy. However, sister Nose's rank can be much higher than That of Ms. Tian.
If Ms. Tian wants to reverse the reputation and really wants to establish an independent female personality, then she can learn from the nose sister, try to dump Wang Shi, and then become bigger and stronger.
That's a long way off. Recently watched Ms. Tian's "Be Cruel to Yourself", after watching it, I seem to understand Ms. Tian's thoughts a little.
She really feels like an independent woman from the bottom of her heart.
Ms. Tian's family environment from childhood has a great influence on her.
She said in the book that when she was a child, she overheard her father say that he wanted a boy in his dreams. Hearing this, she was very sad, she thought that she had worked so hard, but she still couldn't change the traditional concept. So from the age of 10, she told herself, "I will never rely on men for the rest of my life." ”
Coupled with her parents' "pressure-style" education, Ms. Tian was scolded from an early age. When I was a child, my parents often compared other people's children with themselves, and then they scolded themselves for not doing this or that. Ms. Ketian is strong, facing the scolding, "The more you scold, the stronger I am", and will not fall into self-denial because of the scolding of others.
From this point of view, Ms. Tian really does not feel that she is relying on men, and she does not care about the Internet, which is probably the reason.
Moreover, Ms. Tian also advised everyone not to take marrying and having children as the ultimate goal of life, but to find fun in work and life, so as to find themselves. From this point of view, Ms. Tian is right.
Although Ms. Tian is so unpopular with everyone, from the book, it can also be seen that Ms. Tian, an "independent woman", has come to this step today, and indeed has her own "fierce" strength.
Manifestations of self-discipline
Successful people are mostly self-disciplined. So where is their self-discipline manifested?
On the one hand, it is exercise, on the other hand, it is early, and on the other hand, it is probably skin management.
Ms. Tian said that she was in her 30s, trained a vest line, learned pole dancing, and became a fork. While this is nothing to some people, it is a manifestation of self-discipline.
Ms. Tian also said that she rarely goes to the beauty salon, nor does she heal the beauty, so many years can maintain the state of their skin, because they have a good schedule, follow simple massage techniques, massage techniques at home beauty salons, and daily skin care at home is enough. I am skeptical about what she said about not being aesthetically beautiful and not going to the beauty salon.
I agree with Ms. Tian that skin care products do not have to be expensive, but they must be suitable for themselves, which is the big truth.
In ms. Tian's words:
It is this kind of persistence day after day, year after year, and seemingly no immediate slow work, that is the key to communicating with the skin, establishing contact, and making the skin healthy.
Isn't self-discipline just day in and day out?
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The relationship between the staff and the boss
Maybe because Ms. Tian is now her own boss, she still has some truth in the relationship between employees and bosses.
Many people think that the boss is SB, and they are disgusted by what the boss says.
But Ms. Tian said a little, I think it is very important. You have to figure out who pays you, you have to listen to whom. After all, the economic base determines the superstructure.
What if you feel smarter than your boss and don't want to listen to your boss. Go or bear with me.
If you endure, then you can make your own ideas into PLAN B, and when the boss's PLAN A is not working, put your own PLAN B on top, so that you not only listen to the boss's words, but also give your plan a chance to show.
So how can we measure whether a boss is good or not?
Ms. Tian said: As long as a boss is not a matter of principle in the population, it is a boss who cannot be forced to be eliminated.
I think this also makes sense.
My friend's boss, the business ability is not strong, the emotional intelligence is not high, but the management ability and integration ability is very strong, that is, can put the right person, put the right position. Even if the employees can't look at the boss, the boss's men can play the greatest value.
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Some small TIPS
The four steps proposed by Ms. Tian to alleviate procrastination are still quite instructive.
- Set some small short-term goals and gradually reach the final goal.
- Develop self-confidence
- Be sure to act
- Develop the habit of concentration.
Instead of trying to change the people who don't like you, make the people who like you like you like you more.
The first step in cultivating self-confidence is to tell yourself that you can, and that you're great.
The world is reserved for those who are prepared, but also for those who have goals and are willing to give themselves.
What can defeat a woman is definitely not a broken marriage and an increasing age year by year, we have to always keep a forward posture and bravely move forward.
Suffering when you are young is not bitter, but when you are old, you are really bitter.
Don't be afraid to start with 0 at any time.
Use me less when chatting, talk more about you.
At the dinner table, if you want to be decent and make a good impression on others, you have to work hard to make yourself a character who can actively help others.
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