Pessimistic people are defeated by themselves first, and then they are defeated by life; optimistic people, first overcome themselves, and then overcome life. ——Wang Guozhen
Some dreams are meaningless things in the eyes of others!
The incomprehension of your family and the support of your friends may make you question your dreams, and once you give up, your future life will also be manipulated by others.
There is no 100% empathy, so don't force others to understand your dreams, because dreams belong to you, self-persistence, self-affirmation, in order to reap the fruits.
When we were young, we had boundless dreams in our hearts, but many dreams were snuffed out in the cradle by our parents, and few of them could stick to them.
Wei Zongwan, a national first-class actor, was once also not recognized by his parents, and the seeds of his dreams were once destroyed by his family.
Dreams are the yearning for beautiful things in the heart, but if you want to be in it, you must go through all kinds of difficulties in order to transform yourself into a person in your dreams.
Dramas can't be put on the table
In the fifties and sixties of the last century, people's minds were not so open, and public figures called actors were bright and beautiful beings.
However, at that time, most people still called actors dramas, which was somewhat demeaning.
This was a misunderstanding of the profession, and it also made many people in that era unable to realize their dreams of being an actor.
Wei Zongwan is also one of them, when he was very young, Wei Zongwan's hobbies were different from his brothers and sisters in the family, because the family conditions were still good, so naturally he could read books.
But Wei Zongwan's ambition is not to read, but to like to listen to the play, but also like to imitate the singing, his parents know, raised their hands against Wei Zongwan singing, and even used violent means.
Even so, it did not stop Wei Zongwan's action, he still learned the knowledge of singing and acting through the TV set at home.
Not only is he extremely hardworking, but Wei Zongwan also has a great talent for acting, and he can imitate a large part of the scene before he is ten years old.
If placed in today's day, such an amazing talent has long been used by parents to cultivate carefully, but the age is different, and the thinking is different.
Wei Zongwan even after graduating from middle school, hoping that his parents could agree to go out to sing, but the reality is often cruel, his parents do not agree with ten thousand, Wei Zongwan has no choice, can only accept the arrangement of his parents, and embarked on the road of workers.
For ordinary families, being able to produce a worker means that the whole family can have food and clothing without worry, so that everyone can know how great the workers were at that time!
After becoming a worker, Wei Zongwan did not give up his dream, and after work, he actively participated in the drama organized by the factory, which improved his personal ability, and after four years of hard work, the opportunity finally came.
Just as the so-called opportunities are left to those who are prepared, Wei Zongwan participated in the recruitment of Shanghai theater and successfully admitted.
From then on, Wei Zongwan's life will not be a pawn in the hands of his parents, but to live according to his own dreams, even if he can't get the understanding of his parents, it doesn't matter, he still moves towards his dreams.
Marriage is destined
After Wei Zongwan escaped from his parents' control, he came to Shanghai Academy to study acting and singing, and although his life was very hard, he struggled for his dreams and was happy every day.
After graduation, because of the family's incomprehension, his parents thought that it was a shameful thing to have a singer in the family, so they swept Wei Zongwan out of the house.
Wei Zongwan also gained a beautiful love because of this.
After being kicked out by the family, it means that you need to find a place to live, and finally, after the introduction of friends, you not only find a house, but also find the destiny of marriage.
The landlord is very nice, Wei Zongwan is also very comfortable to live in, fate is a very magical thing, you will not know when it will come to your head.
When a woman is sad, as long as the man appears appropriately and gives appropriate care, this may be the beginning of the relationship between two people.
Zhou Weiming and Wei Zongwan were familiar with such a scene, a person who had just experienced the blow of divorce, and his heart was miserable.
And a being who has been funny since childhood, the humor of language is sometimes the most soothing.
Soon, Zhou Weiming's heavy pain in his heart was alleviated by Wei Zongwan's humorous language, and the communication between the two slowly increased.
Back and forth, the feelings slowly warmed up.
Although Zhou Weiming had been married once and even had a daughter, who was six years older than Wei Zongwan, Wei Zongwan did not mind these things at all, and he only liked this person.
Zhou Weiming, who has experienced a failed marriage, met Wei Zongwan, or is willing to believe in love, which is the so-called fate.
Once the feelings are recognized, the next two people enter the married life and become a legitimate husband and wife relationship.
Life after marriage, let Zhou Weiming once again affirm Wei Zongwan's character, whether it is the care for himself, or the care for his daughter, is not worse than his biological father, which shows that Wei Zongwan is an excellent man.
For this point, Zhou Weiming still felt extremely relieved, and he was secretly happy in his heart, thinking that he had not looked at the wrong person.
Although he was married to a 6-year-old second wife, Wei Zongwan was very satisfied.
After marriage, they also gave birth to their own children, but did not change their attitude towards their eldest daughter because of the arrival of this child.
With two children in the family, Wei Zongwan needs to work harder, and Wei Zongwan has not disappointed his wife and children, and has also achieved brilliant results in his career.
Life goes on day by day, plain and real, simple and happy.
Today's two have long been upgraded to grandparents, and this ordinary couple has also lived their own lives.
Wei Zongwan, who no longer pursues his career, spends all day with Zhou Weiming, and the two live the most ordinary life.
Enough money to spend, not too much
Wei Zongwan belongs to the category of first starting a family and then establishing a business, and with a family as a solid backer, Wei Zongwan's career has also begun to smooth down.
Although he also ran through the dragon set after marriage, it was these seemingly inconspicuous roles that gave Wei Zongwan the opportunity to precipitate his acting skills.
Finally, through the veteran role in the movie "One and Eight", Wei Zongwan's career has slowly improved.
Later, Wei Zongwan also played a lot of roles, so that the audience had an impression of this mediocre-looking actor.
And Wei Zongwan should be most grateful for starring in the drama "Thinking of Wrong", in which there is only one role, and he also successfully completed the two-hour performance.
At this point, the fame has become famous, and the roles have increased.
He also won the "Golden Rooster Award" For Best Supporting Actor award through the film "Sanmao From the Army", which is a recognition of his ability and an affirmation of his ability to interpret.
Wei Zongwan as an old drama bone, his personal ability is obvious to all, and even his ability is changeable, and there is no sense of violation in any role.
Not only is acting changeable, but also can act in dramas, sketches, etc., as a national first-class actor, Wei Zongwan is absolutely worthy of the name.
Ma Yun said: Money is the easiest thing in the world to get, this is a naked show of wealth, we ordinary people may not be able to reach that height in their lifetime.
After Wei Zongwan became famous, he also talked about his own view of money: what is the use of making so much money, I spend 4,000 yuan a month is enough, help my children buy two houses, and it is very fun for me and my wife to live in a rental house.
It seems that after there is money, there will be a change in posture and thinking.
But Wei Zongwan still insisted on the ideal in his heart as always, and he had set himself the goal: not to accept endorsements for the rest of his life.
Obviously, he did it, without changing his original intention because of the temptation of money, which was the most charming place for Wei Zongwan.