You must have had this experience
Click on social media and watch countless beautiful women with beautiful facial features and full figures open for business...
But I have an indescribable awkwardness: Alas, if I had become beautiful earlier, I would not have been envious in the nest at this moment.
If I had insisted on learning to dance and maintaining my posture, I would have brought my own traffic!
It's not acid, it's normal emotions
American psychologists Kahneman and Miller call this idea "Counter-factual thinking."
It is also the logic behind "why people always regret it".
Refers to taking the hypothesis results and comparing them with reality - false premises (if they become beautiful earlier) + false conclusions (I can now be popular all over the Internet).
There's also a mindset: if... That's it...
If only I hadn't fallen in love and been a beautiful rich woman now...
If I didn't stay up late, there wouldn't be dark circles and lateness...
As you can see: regret is the most common negative emotion in this kind of thinking, often repeated, unable to stop loss, fantasy type internal friction.
Life is not easy, so what about replacing it with looks?
Sheep will feel that "anti-realistic thinking" is more in line with the ambivalence of contemporary people towards beauty, light medical beauty or do-face counterattack.
The essence of pursuing beauty is to satisfy the happier heart.
However, once there is a "mistake and deviation" that does not meet expectations, the beauty becomes a real value ruined, the mentality collapses, and the regret is extremely great...
Moreover, aesthetics are always changing, quack medicine is always there, there are really countless examples of beauty and self-knowledge, but lack of greed, overfilling failure.
"If there had been an aesthetic at the time, I wouldn't have filled my chin and lips with hyaluronic acid."
"If I could predict that the photogenic cheeks would be so swollen, I would certainly not fill the apple muscle."
"If there was a time machine, I would like to buy some regret medicine for my face... That's it."