01
Don't argue, the human heart is not right or wrong.
The right and wrong in each person's eyes and heart are judgments made from his own position and perspective. How can you argue about black and white right and wrong? Joe Biden, a rogue state in his eighties, judged international affairs by the following: "It's not in America's interest." Got it.
So the wise never argue with people, and the bodhisattva never keeps his mouth shut. People who are red-faced and shouting are insignificant people. Even if you temporarily convince the other party, it seems that there is a right or wrong at that time, but the result is often no human face and loss of network power.
So is there really no right or wrong in the world? Non-also, the heavens are clear, and the avenue is speechless. Everything in the world shows right and wrong only in the results. The United States is arrogant and domineering, sinister and treacherous, and in a few years, the heavenly truth will appear.
True right and wrong are reflected in actions and endings. So as long as you can get by, there is no need to be too real at the time. The things of the world never listen to what is said, only how to do it.
02
Don't get it, don't get a good result.
In the impetuous world, too many people are immersed in the false happiness brought about by publicity, showing off wealth, and deser. What is the essence? The essence of this kind of person is that it is necessary to get the recognition and affirmation of others through showing off, to fill the emptiness, paleness, inferiority and weakness of the heart.
People who really have connotations will turn a blind eye to this kind of ostentation and laugh at best. Only those who are as vulgar as he is at his level will "envy and envy and hate" his behavior, so that he can get low-level satisfaction and filling from this vulgar gaze and mentality.
Everyone is a passer-by of wealth. All people, even if you are powerful and rich, will have nothing to take with you when you leave, and everything will obediently remain on this earth. There is no kind of wealth worth showing off, and there is no kind of poverty worthy of inferiority. The person who needs to use external objects to attract attention and elevate himself is precisely his own virtue, wisdom and ability that are not enough to match what he now has, so anyone who is keen on showing off, showing off wealth, and gaining happiness will eventually bring disaster and lose what he now has. To sum up, it is "morality is not worthy, there will be disasters."
03
Don't get angry, there is no one to replace you.
Who are the wise men who see through the truth of the world? It is those who truly realize that everything in the world is completely unworthy and there is no need to be angry. Those who can really do not get angry must have great wisdom and true cultivation.
If a person is angry no matter how big or small, no matter how hard he tries and struggles, how much wealth he has, how high his status, he will eventually be a loser in life. On the other hand, if a person can face it calmly, calmly, calmly, and calmly, no matter how big things he faces, then even if he does nothing but is just a poor civilian cloth, he is also a winner in life.
Because people who are not angry have reached the superb realm of following fate and going with the flow. And such a realm, only a very small number of people in the world can understand, enter and settle in. Many people despise the attitude of life that everything goes with the flow and goes with the flow, believing that this is negative and degenerate, and they do not know that this is the opposite and big mistake.
People who can't see through will be angry at every turn. They are wrong in their obsession and greed for everything in the world, and they cannot let go or see through it. As long as people are greedy, they are really depraved and degraded, and the more greedy they are, the more inferior they are. Whether it is a high-ranking official or a small number of people, as long as the greed is too heavy, it is no different from a beggar licking a dog.
What is the use of anger? Qi is poisonous, and there is no positive effect except for damage to the body and the spirit. If you carefully observe and understand, all people who are short-lived and sickly, people who are lowly and lowly, and people who have a bad fate are people who are angry at every turn, that is, people with small hearts, short-sightedness, and inability to tolerate people.
Everything in the universe and everything in the world is operating according to its original laws. Any thought or action that wants to forcibly change the laws and tendencies will not only be of no help, but will actually lead to a bloody breakdown. Those who follow the laws and trends are precisely those who can grasp, control, and enjoy all things. In the life of such a person, there is no transverse disaster, pain and grievance. Do you understand the magic of it?
04
Don't compare, there's no point in comparing.
The world is a strange place. Too many people, looking bright and spirited during the day, and in the dark at night, they are full of sorrow and burning inside. On the surface, he is the "richest man" and has several listed companies, but in fact, he is the "first loser" and owes hundreds of billions of yuan to the bank. There are also too many people whose appearance is not good, and they cannot be found as soon as they enter the pile of people, but in fact, they have huge wealth and do not see the bottom. Therefore, people who can compare themselves with others at every turn are people who have been blinded by red dust, and their eyes are only illusions, and their hearts are full of unbearableness. What can you compare to? Isn't it better than a stomach full of gas?
The bottom of the pot is black, and behind the scenery, it is either vicissitudes or dirty. Survival is not easy, in fact, everyone is a chicken feather, it depends on whether you will clean. You are a small people, as long as you respect the old and love the young, your wife and children are filial piety, and your family lives a happy time in harmony and peace, it is far better than those rich people who are tired of running for their lives, tearing down the east and making up for the west, and the corrupt officials who sit on needles and feel terrified.
Besides, each person lives his own life, each person shows his own ability, "two chaff in fate, not three liters of rice." When others are developed, their money will not be spent on you; if others are in trouble, you will not be able to guarantee their suffering. So don't envy others or laugh at them. Only by doing yourself wholeheartedly can you understand people.
Comparison is to embarrass yourself, and it is indeed stupid. Letting go of yourself is the greatest release.
05
Don't be obsessed, life should be easy like a drama.
In just a few decades of life, did you come to this world to find pain? Many people make up their minds but have to make themselves into something, which is the saddest thing. We come to the world to find happiness, not pain, if life only bears pain in the world, then "it is better to go home" and "why suffer to come".
What's more, people's origins, circumstances, and opportunities are different, as long as you play the role arranged by God for you, there is no need to be too obsessed with it. Only those who truly realize that "life is indeed a drama" can be regarded as people who have truly matured and grown up. A life that works too hard is often a tragedy.
There are too many people who are obsessed with being extremely rich and desperately trying to make money by any means, and too many people who are struggling to drill camps and accept bribes and pursue official positions, and once the incident occurs, they are imprisoned and do not want to die.
Wang Yangming said the heavenly rules of the world: "Narrow heart is the root of evil, and heart is the door of blessing." The various dramas that have been disturbed in the world have been seen through, wanted to open, and understood, and the amount of heart is large, and there will be happiness and prosperity in life. What can be done is not light, what can not be done is not forced, life only seeks physical and mental peace, ease and ease, in order to always be everywhere green trees and flowers, clouds and light wind.
