In today's society, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still a very common thing in many ordinary families. There are many mothers-in-law who are bullied by their mother-in-law when they are young as daughters-in-law. So she also wants her daughter-in-law to try this feeling, what she has experienced herself, she also wants her daughter-in-law to experience it again.
But this kind of thinking is wrong, as a woman, you should understand the hardships of women better, you can't be jealous that your daughter-in-law is better than you, you bully her, so that your son and daughter-in-law do not have a good life. You are not only bullying your daughter-in-law, but also your son.
And some mothers-in-law are just not accustomed to the lifestyle of her daughter-in-law, so they are all kinds of thorns to pick their daughters-in-law, and also provoke the relationship between their sons and daughters-in-law, which is also wrong. You shouldn't interfere too much in your son's married life, they should let them live on their own.
01. Green plum bamboo horse, eventually become a partner.
Zhao Minghui and Wang Meili were born in the same hospital. The delivery room of the two mothers also happened to be next door. The two mothers exchanged contact information at that time, ready to communicate more after the birth of the child.
After both mothers had given birth and left the hospital, the two of them were surprised to find that they lived in the same neighborhood. From this time on, the two mothers often held their children and went out to play together, and the relationship between Zhao Minghui and Wang Meili was cultivated from this time.
From the beginning of Zhao Minghui's understanding, he knew that he had a little sister behind him and needed to protect himself. And Wang Meili was also taught by her mother, she also knew that she had any difficulties, she could go to the neighbor's brother, and the two people got along very harmoniously.
The relationship between the two continued until Zhao Minghui and Wang Meili went to junior high school, because Wang Meili's father had made some money in business over the years, so they now had to move their family to another place. It was at this time that Zhao Minghui and Wang Meili disappeared.
At this time they were both too young, so their parents did not give them mobile phones, and the two of them did not have the contact information of each other. Neither of them had forgotten their friend, but the two of them had no more communication, only occasional telephone contact, and would often be urged by their parents to hang up the phone and study.
The relationship between the two people did not become bad because of this separation, and even when Wang Meili's love dou first opened, she still felt that the person she liked was Zhao Minghui, and she must marry this little brother who had been protecting herself when she grew up.
Zhao Minghui also knew in his heart that he liked this little sister at the beginning. Therefore, after the end of the college entrance examination, the two people can't wait to confess to each other.
After meeting, when the two people know that the other person is going to confess, they look at each other and smile, and then they are smoothly together. In order to be able to not talk about long-distance love in college, the two people applied for a university in the same city, although Wang Meili's grades were not as good as Zhao Minghui's, but they could also find a school that could be close to Zhao Minghui's school.
The relationship between the two people has been very stable throughout the college years, and there have been no major quarrels. After graduation, neither of them had the idea of continuing their studies, so they decided to go back to their hometown to find a job.
At the same time, they also went to see each other's parents. The two families were very happy to know that the two children were together, and the two mothers even felt that the two of them were very lucky. Zhao Minghui's mother also said that after Wang Meili married, she would definitely take care of Wang Meili as her own daughter.
After two years of working, they got married. Wang Meili also successfully married this beloved person who grew up together.
02. The mother-in-law does not like the daughter-in-law and bullies the daughter-in-law.
After the two people got married, the parents of the two families were distressed about the two children, so they jointly paid them a down payment for a house in the local area, but the two families did not buy the house in full in order to exercise the two children.
Although Wang Meili's family is now richer than Zhao Minghui's family, their family has not bought a house for Wang Meili alone, and Wang Meili's parents feel that the husband and wife should not have so many hearts and eyes. But Wang Meili's parents also gave Wang Meili a lot of dowries.
After that, the two people lived alone, and the two adults did not bother them too much. Two people have lived a very happy life after marriage. Zhao Minghui also loves Wang Meili very much. No matter what Wang Meili asks, he will meet Wang Meili.
After a while, Zhao Minghui's mother said that she would move in with them for a while, and Zhao Minghui and Wang Meili were very happy. Although Wang Meili was a little nervous, she also hoped that her mother-in-law would come and live for a while.
But after the mother-in-law came, wang Meili's long-wished day did not come, but the mother-in-law kept picking her thorns. He has also been instigating Zhao Minghui to divorce her and let Zhao Minghui remarry a girl from a good family.
Originally, when the two families talked about marriage, Zhao Minghui's mother did not like Wang Meili's family very much, she originally thought that Wang Meili's home was relatively good, but she had not seen it in recent years, and her mother-in-law felt that Wang Meili's family was an upstart, and there was no background that a good family should have. Therefore, she was not accustomed to Wang Meili's lavish problems.
Zhao Minghui had always been toward Wang Meili, and he felt that he had been with Wang Meili for so many years, and he also knew Wang Meili's temper and disposition very well. Therefore, at the beginning, he has always stood firmly on the side of Wang Meili, and always quarreled with his mother for Wang Meili.
03. The two eventually divorced and parted ways.
And Wang Meili is not a character who likes to endure, when her mother-in-law bullied her at the beginning, she began to quarrel with her mother-in-law. And she didn't tell Zhao Minghui about these things.
Therefore, when he heard his mother complain to him, Zhao Minghui asked Wang Meili, and Wang Meili also admitted that he had quarreled with her mother-in-law.
After such a few times, Zhao Minghui thought that Wang Meili was no longer the person he knew, and he also began to quarrel with Wang Meili, Wang Meili saw that Zhao Minghui did not believe in herself, she was also very angry, so she proposed a divorce with Zhao Minghui.
Zhao Minghui, who was angry, immediately agreed to Wang Meili's request for divorce, and the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau the next day to get a divorce certificate. Then, Zhao Minghui told his mother-in-law about this matter.
The mother-in-law happily immediately sent a circle of friends, "The daughter-in-law is finally away from the egg, really happy." Then she went to play mahjong with her good sister, and because she was too good at getting married, she died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage as soon as she got emotional.
Wang Meili was very sorry after this incident, and she also told her mother's own mother about this matter, "The mother-in-law was overwhelmed and sent a circle of friends, but it became a last word." ”
After his mother-in-law left, Zhao Minghui also reflected on his original behavior, and he felt that he must have been confused by the ghost, so he went to ask Wang Meili's forgiveness.
But at this time, Wang Meili also saw this situation and did not want to continue their marriage with Zhao Minghui, so she rejected Zhao Minghui. It didn't take long for her to start a new life of her own.
As a husband, you have to fully believe in your wife, you have to believe in this person who has been with you for a long time, you can't feel that she has changed because of the persuasion of others, or several conflicts, you are no longer the person you knew. You have to know that if you don't believe her, you just don't believe in your own eyes.
As a wife, when encountering contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you should also try to avoid conflicts between you and your mother-in-law, there are things to be solved by your husband, after all, it is the mother-in-law's own son, and you are just an outsider, even if the relationship between you is good, you are not her own child, and there will be more or less estrangement between you.
As a mother-in-law, since your son is married, you must believe in your son and not interfere too much in their husband and wife's life. You have to respect them, and let them have their own independent space, so that the life of your family will get better and better. You must know that only if your son's little family is good, your big family will be good.