Don't marry a mother and a man, marry a wife and don't marry a brother demon, no matter which marriage you meet is doomed to be scarred. Too much greed is bound to ruin itself. People's patience is limited, and if they have saved enough disappointment, they don't want to save it again.
Most people become egoistic when it comes to interests, which is not selfish. Being born as a human being is to consider oneself first, and self-love can be better than others. Two people form a family because they love each other, and a new hope comes.
Netizen Wang Junjun and his wife have been married for so many years, and his wife has always been concerned about her mother's family and helped her mother's family. At first, he didn't feel anything uncomfortable, but seeing his wife becoming more and more enchanted, preferring to sacrifice his own interests for the affairs of his mother's family, this made him dissatisfied, and finally broke out in his wife's temptations again and again.
There is nothing wrong with helping the mother's family, but in order to help the mother's family, it is not right to hurt the interests of their own small family.
01 The in-laws are not waiting to see, and the mother's family cannot go back
After being married for so many years, Dolly has understood what is not a person inside and outside, only herself is an outsider. The relationship with her mother-in-law has been bad for so many years after being married to her husband Wang Junjun, and she quarrels every day because of various things. Everything in the family is done by herself, and the mother-in-law and husband take it for granted, and it is not easy for no one to forgive her.
The in-laws did not want to see each other, and the mother-in-law could not go back. Once I quarreled with my husband and returned to my mother's house, I did not expect to be sneered at by my sister-in-law. "Sister, they are all thirty or so people, don't play a little temper, hurry back, you can't run away from our house every day." Our family is not a hotel, and we eat and drink every day. "I originally came back home to seek a comfort, but I didn't expect it to be such a marriage." Everyone thought she was making a fuss for no reason, and her husband thought she was having a little temper, and she hadn't sent a phone call to ask about it until now.
As soon as the man's freshness passed, he began to perfunctory things to you, and her husband felt that Dolly would not really be angry, and there were two children waiting for her to take care of it. This time, Dolly really did not want to do as her husband wished, but she wanted to let her husband see what it would be like without her at home.
On the one hand, I have to endure the eyes of my sister-in-law, and on the other hand, I have to endure the two children who do not want to be at home. Living at home, my parents didn't have much opinion, that is, my brother and sister-in-law talked to the end every day. After about a week, Dolly's husband couldn't stand the mess at home and called her.
"You've been angry enough, now it's time to get rid of it, come back quickly, just make a fuss." Originally, she was very happy to receive a phone call from her husband, and she did not want to go back when she heard her husband's attitude. In the end, if her son hadn't called her to say nice things to her and told her that she missed her mother, she wouldn't have gone back so easily. When a woman has a child, she will be soft-hearted, and the child's words will make you soft-hearted.
02 Has an indisputable brother
The relationship between Dolly and her husband has become more and more contradictory in recent years, and the most critical thing is because Dolly has an indisputable brother. Nine times out of ten quarrels between husband and wife are because of money, and money is related to interests. The family should help, but Dolly's brother has to go in, and the borrowed money never pays back. In this way, the mother-in-law and husband naturally do not like the Dolly family.
When her brother and sister-in-law got married, their parents said that they wanted to borrow money, and she didn't ask you to borrow it, and she thought about how this brother would not sit idly by. I didn't expect that the fifty thousand yuan lent out would disappear without a trace, and it has not been repaid so far.
Later, my brother changed jobs several times, and he was busy every day and did not know what work he was doing. My brother quit after a few months of insurance work and drove a big truck for a few more years. Dolly thought that her brother could finally settle down, and she was very happy. Unexpectedly, this was just the beginning, and since then my brother and sister-in-law have begun to borrow money from her frequently.
The parents never knew about borrowing money, and if they knew, they wouldn't say anything, and my brother was spoiled by the family since he was a child. On this day, the sister-in-law once again drove their family's little red car over, and it was inevitable that they would ask for warmth.
"Sister, I've been a little tight on my hands lately, so I'll lend me two thousand yuan to keep it steady." This has become a fixed statement, and every time I come to borrow money, it is like this. Before every time I came, I would ask my husband if he was at home, and on this day, my husband just slept at home after work. Wang Bingjun knew that his brother-in-law had borrowed money from them many times, and every time he found an excuse not to pay it back.
This time when they came to the house he pretended to be sleeping and did not greet them. When they were gone, she looked at her wife with a sad look. "Gone? How much is borrowed this time? Dolly said sheepishly, "This time they said it was the last time, so they took two thousand." ”
Wang Bingjun sighed coldly, "Harm, every time you say this, which time did it come true?" Take two thousand, and that's not the total. Dolly knew that this indisputable brother made her look down at her in-laws' house, and her husband did not dare to refute anything.
03 The mother fell ill and was hospitalized
The younger brother did not know who told his parents about the loan shark, and the mother fainted in anger. At that time, I heard that it was still a neighbor who called and called for an ambulance to come over. The younger brother's loan sharking was well known to the people in the village, and that day Dolly and her aunt went to redeem people. The younger brother was pressed by the loan sharks, but fortunately found out in time.
Li Rolling Profit was a large amount of money at that time, and finally Aunt Xiao and Dolly took out a large amount of money, and all the money in the parents' family was hollowed out to make up for this hole. After finishing my brother's business here, my mother was still busy rescuing her over there. The doctor had already issued a critical illness notice, but fortunately picked up a life in the end.
"Husband, my mother is hospitalized, do we pay or contribute?" "Let's get a divorce certificate."
Dolly panicked and didn't know what to do. Wang Bingjun could no longer bear the burden of his wife's big son, and he would have to hollow himself out if he continued like this. Dolly's indisputable brother spent nearly three hundred thousand on their family, and he was scared.
Now he could afford it, in case one day her brother would ask them what to do with borrowing half a million and a million, thinking about it. Dolly also knew what mistakes she had made, blindly indulging her brother to make him learn to become more intense. Desperate to take the risk should not be tried, every small family needs the vitality to continue to operate, she personally ruined this small family.
Wang Bingjun has done a good job of benevolence and righteousness, and finally waited for Doree's mother to go to divorce after she was discharged from the hospital, and in the middle, she also went to the hospital every day to take care of her mother-in-law. Seeing the way my husband took care of his mother, he felt that he had ruined his marriage and pushed his marriage to the point of ruin.
Fu Di Devil is desperate to help his mother's family and brother ascend to the heavens step by step, there is no shortcut to success, this will only harm him and make him lose the ability to survive independently. If you can help for a while, you can't help for a lifetime, and many times you have to rely on yourself in life.
It is not easy for parents to raise themselves, and there is nothing wrong with children wanting to repay their parents' nurturing grace, but they cannot sacrifice themselves. Coddling will only ruin a person, so it gives him an opportunity to act recklessly, which is unfair to her husband and irresponsible to the family.
Any effort should not be one-way, if you know that there will be no return, but also a brain into it will only ruin yourself, so that the gain is not worth the loss is not a good deal. Netizens and their husbands came to this ending as a result of their own doing. There is nothing wrong with repaying parents and wanting to help their families, and you can use a positive guide instead of this blind indulgence and laissez-faire.
The couple is not divorced because they do not love, but continuing to be together will only let the feelings of the two people wear out, and the little beauty that remains will be exhausted. Marriage is like a bank, and the husband and wife are the president and vice president. If a bank's money only goes in and out, the bank will soon fail because it does not operate the fund.
There is nothing wrong with suffering and sharing, when the key time to see people's hearts, husband and wife should have more understanding, more trust and sincerity, this family can get better and better.