01.
There is a lyric that goes like this: "Don't say sorry if you love, after all, we have walked through this time, I have never regretted it, and when I first saw the beautiful meeting..."
Any relationship will not be casual forever, it must go through many barriers, and the long-term run-in between the two people. Those couples who stay together all their lives may not really love each other, but may just be a rational choice after weighing the pros and cons. Those lovers who are separated in the middle of the way may not love enough, perhaps only the cruelty of reality is helplessly separated.
The more unforgettable love, the more difficult it is to have a happy ending. Many times, it is either yin and yang, or the deep love is shallow, and it is clear that they love each other deeply, but they miss it forever.
Just like us, we once thought that we would always be together, never separated, but in the end it was still a strange road, each sad and happy. Even if you miss it with a thousand thoughts and give up everything, you will not be able to do anything in the end.
Some people ask, if you knew from the beginning that this was the end, would you still love without hesitation?
I don't know if anyone else will, but I will. Because, unforgettable love is only once in a lifetime, even if the ending is destined to be tragic, it should be vigorously loved once.
Love, only if you have personally experienced and experienced, will you truly understand.
02.
Love is not all sweet and beautiful, but also hurts and heartaches. After all, not all sincerity can be treated kindly, and not all efforts can be cherished.
There are always some people who really make a mistake, thinking that as long as they persist long enough and pay enough, they will definitely be able to move each other and get the tenderness they want, but in the end, they have not gotten anything, and they have made themselves scaly and scarred.
A friend is like this, the person he loves has never taken him to heart, if he is separated, neither accepts nor rejects, and always enjoys his kindness to her in the name of a friend. He thought that she was testing him, and there was still some joy in his heart. It wasn't until one day, seeing her with others, that he finally accepted reality.
Sad? sad.
Sad? saddened.
Regrets? No.
He said: "I love someone, that is, I am willing to be good to her, willing to pay for her, in the process of paying for her, I am really very happy, very happy." So, I still thank her and regret falling in love with her at all. ”
Truly love a person, even if the other party does not love themselves, they will not have the slightest resentment.
As Zhang Ailing said: "I love you, what is the matter with you?" You can't blame you for all the weirdness. ”
03.
Love can make people grow the most.
When you really fall in love with someone, you will learn to give, to tolerate, to be considerate.
If the person you love happens to love you, you will reap full happiness.
If the person you love doesn't love you, you will slowly learn to be strong in the midst of loss.
Whether the person you love loves you or not, this encounter is not accidental, it must be a predestined arrangement, and it must have a special meaning for you.
Meet love and learn to give.
Lose love and learn to cherish.
In this life, people must love passionately once, at least once, and the rest of their lives will be willing to be plain and live a stable life.
Truly loved, no regrets in this life. Whether the ending is sad or happy, met and possessed, it is enough!
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