"The old mother is 100 years old, and she is 80 years old." Most mothers in the world are willing to give their children and take care of their children regardless of return. "Women are weak, but mothers are strong." For mothers, nothing can be given for the sake of their children.
But there are thousands of people in the world, and there are always some people who will constantly challenge our bottom line and refresh our cognition.
The wife went to the hospital when she was pregnant, and the husband did not give her money
Being able to marry in this life is a blessing cultivated in previous lives. Many people just because they look at each other in the sea of people, they look at ten thousand years, and try their best to live with them, but what life is like after marriage, can only be like a fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Xiaoli (pseudonym) is like this, she and her husband met in a nightclub, in the dim light, louder than music, is to see each other, their own heartbeat. After three months of acquaintance, the two entered the palace of marriage and soon had the crystallization of love.
However, as her belly grew larger day by day, Xiaoli found that many of her husband's shortcomings were gradually exposed. He was extremely indifferent to himself, and even when he saw himself, he did not take money to see himself, and he knelt on the ground and begged his husband and mother-in-law for a long time before his mother-in-law took him to the hospital. Xiao li did not understand why her husband would do this to herself.
Instead, the husband accused his wife of being pregnant
Such a story is really sad to smell sad, see the tears, girls entrust their youth and future to a man, but men after pregnancy, no longer have enthusiasm for women, such a man, is not a scumbag What is it?
But in the mouth of the husband, Xiaoli is not like this, the husband heard Xiaoli's accusations, angry on the spot and even wanted to move, directly yelling at Xiaoli, "Why do you see red?" Where are the pregnant women who are seven months old and still go to the nightclub to bungee? ”
In the mouth of the husband, we feel that the incident does not seem to be as simple as Xiaoli said, the husband said that Xiaoli is a group actor, when there is nothing to do, also to the nightclub as a "public relations lady", he and Xiaoli have children shortly after marriage, for Xiaoli's profession can only be accepted by Zu Anze. But I didn't expect that Xiaoli was still restless after marriage and still frequently went in and out of bars. How can you be a good mom like this?
Subsequently, the husband admitted that he did not give Xiaoli money to see a doctor, and said that this is because he has no money, since he married Xiaoli, the family's money is in Xiaoli's hands, he has no money at all, how can he have money to treat her? This is just an excuse for Xiaoli to vent her dissatisfaction with herself.
"Why marry me you know in your heart" The wife reversed the incident again
"Husband and wife are in the same heart, and their profits are broken." In our concept, husband and wife are one, no matter what kind of life they have before marriage, after marriage, for the future of two people, they must make appropriate concessions and changes, so that there will be a better future.
But that doesn't seem to be the case with the couple. Now it seems that the husband is also bitter and can't say it, but is the incident really as the husband said?
Hearing her husband's words, Xiao Li was angry and pointed at her husband and scolded loudly, "You eat soft rice, what face do you have to say that we both have money?" Why you married me, you know in your heart! After saying that, he said the plan before the two of them got married a little bit, and while saying it, he asked his husband, "Is it" right? Am I wrong? The mother-in-law kept comforting her, afraid that Xiaoli would be stimulated again.
In Xiao Li's mouth, we finally figured out the ins and outs of the incident, it turned out that Xiao Li and her husband did know each other in a nightclub, and the husband's house and the husband's house were facing expropriation, and multiple people would also get more, so the two quickly married, and even the children were IVF. Xiao li's income is relatively high, and the usual family expenses are indeed borne by Xiao Li, but Xiao Li has been accustomed to having no savings, which is the real reason why Xiao Li and her husband are married.
In the end, the two discussed that Xiaoli was at ease with raising a fetus, and her husband would also take on the responsibility of the family to make changes. The two tried to marry for another three months, and if there was still a problem, they went through the divorce. The incident was finally over.
In this marriage, both of them are pregnant with ghosts, have their own small calculations, do not fully trust each other, and have never seriously considered the future of the two, which is also the reason for the frequent problems between the two.
In the author's view, marriage is not a means to obtain benefits, but a lifestyle based on love, without the support of feelings, it is difficult to maintain the large and small family chores in marriage, so those who want to use marriage to achieve their goals must carefully consider.
Since we have chosen marriage, we must try to be responsible for marriage, responsible for the other half we have chosen, how we used to live is not important, whether we are willing to work hard for a new life is the most important question.
What are your thoughts on this? Who do you think is the bigger problem in this marriage? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.