I Ching: People are in debt in middle age, and before they are ready to counterattack, they first learn to "forget" these 3 people
Life in the world can not be smooth, everyone has a peak, naturally there are also lows. A person's trough means the failure of a career, but also means that it may be in debt. At this time, some of the wine and meat friends around me have long left, and this is the time when you need your own struggle the most. However, if you can have the help of noble people, I believe that you will soon be able to get out of the predicament and go to the light.
But the real life is that at the trough, many people do not have the courage to break the boat, or are bound by various people and things, resulting in the inability to do their best and not go fast.
First, let go of the debt collectors, let go of the pressure
Many people are often very nervous because of their debt. It is difficult for them to let go of this boulder in their hearts, which leads to great psychological pressure. Such a person is not only crushed by debt, but also crushed by the burden in his heart.
When you are in debt, you may wish to put the creditor down, which does not mean not to pay the debt. Instead, make a plan for the time to repay the money, and follow such a plan to repay the money. In this way, it is equivalent to dividing the heavy debt into each short period of time, so that the scattered plan will make people's hearts less heavy.
Moreover, taking the initiative to take on debts every once in a while will also give creditors a good impression of trustworthiness. The creditors who let go of this period of time can also make good money and pay off their debts as soon as possible.
In fact, it is the same reason for borrowing money from the bank today, only to pay off the debt on time every month, divide this large amount of debt into several equal parts, bear less pressure, and be able to put down the "creditor" and put it into work well.
Second, let go of the people who are close to you and work hard for your career
Sometimes debt does not refer to the money owed, or it may be owed to one's own dreams. At this time, you need to get out of the comfort zone, let go of the people you have loved, pursue your dreams, and work hard for your career.
After graduating, Xiao Li entered a public institution under the advice of his family, but the long-term stable and hopeless work made Xiao Li tired. It is only because this job is close to his family, afraid that his family is worried that his life is not good enough, Xiao Li has been working for several years.
Finally, Xiao Li finally decided to quit this safe job and go to a big city. At first, he left his family, and Xiao Li was very unaccustomed. But in the process of his hard work, he gradually became stronger, and truly found the life he longed for, and more importantly, Xiao Li's hard work also made his family live a better life.
Third, forget about the people who look down on you and live a wonderful life
Before a person succeeds, he may have experienced a lot of cold eyes, and many cold eyes are from familiar friends, colleagues and so on. People who look down on you will have certain prejudices until you really succeed, and when a person is in debt, these people will look down on you.
At this time, it is more necessary to live stronger and more firmly than usual, and to live out their own wonderful and beautiful, so that they can fight a turnaround battle and let people who look down on themselves look at themselves.
"Poor in the downtown no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives", although this sentence is a bit harsh, but the truth has long been told to us by the old ancestors.
The wisdom of the I Ching requires us to think, Chinese we must not forget the I Ching at any time
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I had heard people say that the knowledge of "Zhou Yi" was broad and profound, and I didn't quite understand it, until later, I heard an old man say:
From birth, to school, to work, to marriage, whenever we encounter difficulties, we can actually find hints in the "I Ching"; because the "I Ching" is full of 64 gua, each gua is a kind of life script, and what results your each choice will produce, it has long helped you deduce; many things, seemingly luck, in fact, there are traces.
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