01
Lifting the hair on my forehead, I was in a nervous mood.
"Doctor, can my scar disappear completely after surgery?"
"Xiao Wen, the mentality is a little more flat, my biggest grasp is to make your forehead scar repair to achieve "the distance of a cup of coffee", what does it mean, that is, when you chat with friends in the future, they will not notice that you have a scar on your forehead, which is the ideal effect at present. Seeing me rubbing my hands nervously, the doctor across from me smiled.
I sighed, closed my eyes, and leaned back in my chair...
My name is Wen Tingting, and I am 27 years old. My husband Liu Jiang and I met in a script killing, that day he wore a pair of old-fashioned black-rimmed glasses, the whole person is very stuffy, and he keeps drinking water during the meal. It is no wonder that the first time to play the script to kill, everyone is inevitably nervous.
Fortunately, under the meticulous leadership of DM, everyone quickly entered the script role, and the embarrassment was diluted before, everyone discussed the script, analyzed the intelligence, and quickly became familiar.
After the event, I was very fond of the calm Liu Jiang, so I added his WeChat. Later, after a long contact time, the two of us naturally fell in love.
Liu Jiang said that he liked my unique and fashionable dress, youth and vitality. This makes me feel beautiful in my heart, a woman who loves to dress up, good looking and eye-catching, who doesn't like it.
02
After being in love for half a year, Liu Jiang took me to meet his parents. The first time I saw Liu Jiang's parents, I was very nervous.
The first night I went to bed at 9 p.m. to stay in good shape, and the next day I dressed up carefully, specially painted eye makeup and put on lipstick. Put on a chiffon shirt with white diamond shorts, spray a handful of perfume gracefully in the air, and then close your eyes and walk in, the whole mood blossoms.
Carrying my Chanel bag, walking downstairs, passers-by frequently turned back to me, which is a good feeling. Seeing me, Liu Jiang graciously took my hand and walked to his house.
After entering the door, Liu Jiang's mother opened the door, and when I shouted "Auntie is good", she looked at me and frowned, but quickly eased her face to let me enter the house.
As soon as he sat down, Liu Jiang's father brought fruit, said hello, and went into the kitchen. Liu Jiang and I sat in the living room, and after Liu Jiang's mother asked me about my family situation and work situation, she nodded and did not speak.
The atmosphere was awkward, and for a moment the three of them sat there frozen for a few minutes. Fortunately, Liu Jiang's father shouted for dinner, and we finished the meal with a smile.
After dinner, I thought that there was still a little work to be done, so I asked Liu Jiang to send me back to the company.
03
When I went to the bathroom to make up makeup, I suddenly heard Liu Jiang's mother mention me, to the effect that I was dressed like this too frivolous, and I didn't look like a cultured girl, not suitable for Liu Jiang, and not suitable for their daughter-in-law, after all, they knew a lot of people in the city and wanted face.
I was a little angry when I listened, where I was frivolous and uncultured, and I was thinking of going out theory. Liu Jiang replied: "Mom, how do you often judge people by their appearance, now many young people dress up like this, put on some makeup, and wear bare chest and legs." ”
"Don't think that your mother is harming you, your mother is a leader to see more people, can a girl like Xiao Wen live a good life with you?" I don't know if I'll kick you any day! ”
"You too, children have their own choices, you don't interfere too much with young people." At this time, Liu Jiang's father interjected. Later, Liu Jiang muttered something I didn't hear.
Coming out of the bathroom, I pretended not to know anything, smiled and politely said goodbye to Liu Jiang's parents.
When Liu Jiang sent me home, I asked his parents how they thought of me, and Liu Jiang was silent for a while, saying that it was okay. I said you're lying, usually you don't bring that.
Later, I couldn't help but ask questions, and Liu Jiang told the truth.
He said that my mother is strict and old-fashioned, old-fashioned, usually at home to say one or two, she is not bad, just don't like your dress. But you don't mind, many old people are like this, this is not used to that unaccustomed, you see the hot search there are girls wearing legless pants and are also reprimanded by the big mother to touch the legs, we will see her pay attention to a little bit later.
Listening to Liu Jiang's words, I was angry and funny: "Then I will pay attention to a little in the future, after all, we will live in the future." ”
After that, as long as I went to see Liu Jiang's parents, I would face the sky and wear very formal clothes. Slowly, Liu Jiang's mother also recognized me, and soon the parents of both sides met, and our wedding was put on the agenda.
04
When taking wedding photos, I looked at a breastless wedding dress, full of lace, which can well set off my figure, expose my collarbone, and put on a veil, which is particularly beautiful.
Liu Jiang also thought it was beautiful, so we bought it. I was looking forward to wearing this set of ceremonies at the wedding, who knew that when I walked out in my dress that day, Liu Jiang's mother came over, and she was very unhappy to see me dressed, and she insisted that I wear a Chinese wedding dress. Saying that, she also called out to Liu Jiang and asked him to change his suit to cooperate with me.
Seeing that the hour was approaching, there was no way for me to be good Liu Jiang had to hurry up and change his clothes. Along with the wedding music, standing on the stage, Liu Jiang and I accepted everyone's blessings.
The guests who watched the ceremony praised our talented and feminine appearance, and although I had a smile on my face, my heart was on fire. Fortunately, Liu Jiang said that it is very beautiful for you to wear that dress to take pictures, and then you can play more in the video, then I am in a better mood.
After marriage, because our wedding room was just renovated, my mother was worried that formaldehyde would affect my future pregnancy, so she let me and Liu Jiangxian live with my in-laws for a period of time, considering that the mother-in-law's family was also convenient for Liu Jiang to work, I agreed to live with my in-laws.
When I first got along, my mother-in-law was kind to me. In order to cater to my mother-in-law, I have always paid more attention to it, and I usually dress very plainly. Colleagues said that I had changed, why was it so simple after marriage, asked if the money was handed over to my husband, I could only say something else.
But after a long time, it is inevitable that I will be moved by the beautiful costumes of others.
Once the company held a celebration of its 10th anniversary, the company asked me to be the host. I was so happy that I bought a set of cosmetics and dresses online and thought of showing off my style at the party. In order not to let my mother-in-law worry, I specially expressed everything I purchased online to the company. So quietly, no one knows.
On the day of the party, I put on a cool-toned smoky makeup with peach lip gloss, put on an elegant backless dress, and pedaled high heels, I was full of confidence.
The party was a success because I was dressed up and talked generously, my colleagues gave me a 100, and some men quipped that if I wasn't married, they would definitely chase me.
At the end of the party, I took off my makeup and changed into my usual clothes and went home. Along the way, I also watched my every performance on my mobile phone repeatedly, and I felt a burst of joy in my heart, and then I bought cosmetics and clothes to mail to the company, why should I live so simply, and I should bloom when I am young.
05
When I walked in the door that night, I felt something was wrong. When my mother-in-law saw me come in, she didn't have the slightest smile on her face and glanced at me from time to time. I couldn't help but mutter, not knowing where to upset her.
"Xiao Wen, is mom not good for you?" It's all family, why do you want to sneak around? ”
"Mom, did you have any misunderstanding?"
"Misunderstanding?" The mother-in-law leaned the sofa: Where did you sneak up on the things you bought online? The mother-in-law's voice increased, as if she had eaten gun medicine.
My eyes widened. I bought cosmetics and clothes online, how will my mother-in-law know?
"Tell you the truth, I have seen every online purchase you make, even if you usually buy food and drink, what do you do when you buy those cosmetics and bare-chested clothes?"
The mother-in-law said a bunch of things in one breath. All the blood in my body was gushing to the top of my head, and it was hard for my mother-in-law to spy on me!
"Mom, what do you say?" Is there any misunderstanding? "Although I had a sense of foreboding in my heart at that time, I still argued a little.
The mother-in-law snorted coldly. She told me that every time I bought a link to something, she saw it in the Taoyou circle.
No wonder my mother-in-law knows everything about me! Or am I careless! I forgot to turn off the Circle of Friends. Thinking that all the shopping has been scrutinized and spied by my mother-in-law, I have an inexplicable anger and embarrassment in my heart.
Just when Liu Jiang came out of the bedroom and heard it, he said that it was very bad to look at people's privacy.
Seeing Liu Jiang protecting me, my mother-in-law sunk her face and said that he was stupid, today she bought this and bought that behind your back, and you don't know if you were sold later. Seeing my mother-in-law talking like this, I angrily took a taxi back to my mother's house.
That night Liu Jiang came to pick me up and take me home, and I also gave him a cold face. I said I could go home, and now the house has been ventilated for more than half a year, so let's move out and live, so as not to be blocked with your mother.
Liu Jiang hesitated at first, after all, his parents were around to take care of him, and he enjoyed it. Seeing me push him home to reflect, he was amused. I don't know how he persuaded his mother-in-law when he went home, but the next day he came to pick me up and move to the marriage house.
06
Maybe it was too tiring to stay with my mother-in-law, and after separating from them, I had a very pleasant life.
Buy cosmetics, buy all kinds of fashionable clothes without blinking, dress up beautifully every day to go to work, and eat well. Soon, I became pregnant. Hearing this news, Liu Jiang jumped up happily, ignoring my mother-in-law for a long time and bringing all kinds of supplements to me for the first time.
This flattered me, and before leaving, my mother-in-law told me to pay attention to my body, not to wear makeup, and not to dye my hair and nails, saying that it was good for the baby. Thinking that she is also a piece of kindness, I smiled and agreed, after all, she does not live with us, and she can cope with it with her mouth, and usually do whatever she wants.
When I was more than six months pregnant, my girlfriend came to see me and showed me the photos she took when she was pregnant, I saw each one and thought that I should also take a little as a souvenir to remember.
Liu Jiang heard me say that I wanted to take pictures of pregnant women, so he pushed a friend who opened a photography studio to me. Because they are friends, everyone is quite open.
In order to take good photos, I specially bought a lot of clothes to dress up and take the most beautiful maternity photos.
At that time, I took a lot of different types of photos with photographers, some wearing underwear, and some taking pictures of shirt knots, each of which looked good, one of which I wore sweet makeup, a bandeau on the top, and a long skirt wrapped around the lower body, in a photo of a light veil blowing through the picture, it looked light and dreamy, very big brand.
Liu Jiang's friend praised my good temperament and asked if this photo could be given to him as a publicity photo. He wanted to do posters to promote his studio, and as for all my shooting expenses, I was free.
Hearing that there was such a good thing, I quickly agreed. After the photos were developed, I hung a few on the wall. Liu Jiang looked at it and said it was good, he joked that when my mother came over, we had to hide it, otherwise she would nag again.
It's normal to take pictures of pregnant women, what's there to nag about, your mom is also too wide, too old-fashioned. I was a little upset, perhaps worried about affecting my mood, Liu Jiang did not say much.
07
Seeing Liu Jiang playing with his mobile phone, I was immersed in the joy of enjoying various beautiful photos. At this time, the mother-in-law's phone call came, and Liu Jiang pressed the speakerphone.
The mother-in-law was very excited at that end: to the effect that she went out to drink tea with her friends today, saw that there was a huge poster of me on the top of the studio, everyone quipped and said that she didn't expect your daughter-in-law to look really good, her thinking was quite avant-garde, and she was bare-chested and bare-legged, and she didn't dare to show it, and your Liu Jiang was still quite open!
Listening to others say this, the mother-in-law felt very humiliated. Especially at that time, a few young people walked over and pointed to my chest and said that my chest was really big, and she was even more ashamed, feeling that she had been greatly humiliated, and turned back without drinking the tea.
She scolded Liu Jiang for not being a man, how to let me take such a photo, what is the difference between that and stripping naked, Xiao Wen is not "flesh-revealing", you don't want a face, I and your father still want to face it.
As soon as I heard my mother-in-law say this, I suddenly grabbed Liu Jiang's phone: "Mom, why are you talking so hard?" That's a pregnant woman photo, what's the problem? What others say, you don't care what they say! ”
Maybe I was talking too hard and my mother-in-law hung up the phone.
At this time, Liu Jiang seemed to remember something, and said to quickly take down the picture on the wall, my mother will definitely kill her later, I know her too well, saying that he got up and prepared to take the photo.
Knowing that my mother-in-law would come over, I was even more angry, and I punched Liu Jiang a few times: "Is your mother sick, sesame bit tossing and turning, and let no one live!" ”
Liu Jiang said that my mother was like this, I couldn't think of any way to change her, I could hide, so many years my father and I have endured the habit.
"You can endure, I can't!" It's so humiliating! I was saying loudly, suddenly my mother's phone came, in the phone she first greeted my body is not good, and then said that the mother-in-law talked to her, let me go to take the poster from the photography studio, so as not to embarrass everyone, after all, the mother-in-law used to be a leader, more concerned about face.
Needless to say, this is my mother-in-law complaining to my mother, the more so, I am biased!
08
The next day, everything was calm, and I thought that after Liu Jiang's repeated persuasion, the mother-in-law's anger should also be gone, and this matter would be over.
Just when I was proud, Liu Jiang accompanied me for a walk home at night, and the scene of opening the door stunned us!
On the floor, photo frames and various photos were shattered, and there were all kinds of broken cosmetics and skin care products, the liquid residue inside emitted a burst of fragrance, and cut clothes...
Seeing all this, I suddenly remembered something, when I rushed to the cloakroom, I saw my mother-in-law cutting my bandeau wedding dress with scissors, and my mouth was still chanting: "I see how you show, how waves..."
"What are you doing?" I roared. My mother-in-law glanced at me coldly and cut herself again.
I was so angry that I rushed up to stop her madness. The scissors dangled in our tugging, and suddenly, I felt a tingling pain in my face, ache!
At this time, Liu Jiang came in, saw me covering my face, and he shouted, "Mom, don't make trouble, Xiao Wen is bleeding!" ”
I covered my wound and ran to the mirror to see a long slit in my forehead that was oozing blood. My mother-in-law froze at this time, and soon, Liu Jiang took a taxi to take me to the hospital for examination.
Because the wound was relatively deep, after a month of nursing, although the wound on the forehead healed, it left an ugly scar, and when I saw the scar in the mirror, I smashed the mirror and wanted to die.
I used to think I could live the life I wanted without living with my mother-in-law, but now that I want to, I regret it. A stubborn and old-fashioned person like a mother-in-law is difficult to change!
Liu Jiang and my in-laws came to apologize to me, and I didn't want to see them. After a night of suffering, I sent a message to Liu Jiang to agree to divorce, Liu Jiang cried, I did not cry. He was very good, but there was a mother-in-law across us, and we couldn't go back.
The scar on the forehead may be erased through plastic surgery, but the scar in the heart will never disappear.
I heard that I was going to divorce, my mother-in-law was about to explode, she called my mother and said that I was too pretentious, she was wrong, but it was also because I was at fault first, and the child was innocent, she had already put down her face and apologized, and I still did not forgive.
My mother was caught between the left and right, and it was also difficult. She also kept advising me to make big things and small things, saying that induction of labor in the month was very harmful to the body, so I was careful to make a decision.
I also feel sorry for the child in my belly, but I really can't face the days of having a mother-in-law. Do I want to be a single mom? Or is it a cruel inducement to divorce after childbirth? What can I do right?
