Live streaming with goods, like a popular mirror.
Is it sought after by everyone, or is no one interested.
You know it as soon as you look at it, but you can't hide it.
The gap between Wang Lixin and Wu Yating was undoubtedly exposed in front of this mirror.
In the live broadcast room, he sang several songs in a row.
He also changed his male posture and brought a cute hair band.
"As long as you order two boxes of snacks, send autographed photos." ”
Unfortunately, it didn't work.
It is an indisputable fact that no one has placed an order and the popularity is dismal.
Since the divorce, Wang Quexin has inevitably gone downhill all the way.
Weibo did not update.
Business didn't move.
The live broadcast was ignored.
The former character filter has long been exhausted.
Eating the old ben and selling feelings can no longer save Wang Quexin.
Look at the other side.
Wu Yating can be said to have ushered in her own rebirth.
Participate in "Spring Day Delay and Departure" and bravely welcome new love.
In the show, she is tenacious and optimistic, and she sees things thoroughly.
Everyone was gradually moved by her personality charm.
On Douyin, she gained millions of fans.
In the live broadcast room, there are countless messages to cheer her up.
The goods she brought, one after another, sold higher and higher.
Everyone buys it, not only because of the strong person who divorced and brought the baby.
More because, she worked hard enough.
Compared to Wang Quexin's haggard face, he was confused at will.
Wu Yating obviously regards live broadcasting as a career and takes it seriously.
No matter how late the live broadcast is, how tired, always delicate makeup, patience and gentleness.
Introduce beauty products.
Share your experience in dressing.
Talk about parenting.
Pile by pile, professional and sincere.
It is not an exaggeration to say that she is now more red than Wang Quexin.
And the comparison between the two today also has to make people sigh:
Feng Shui turns year after year.
It turns out that the woman who left the marriage is not only not trapped, but wonderful.
Even, it can be better than in a wrong marriage.
Who says marriage must be a woman's destiny?
No.
When women become more powerful, marriage is just a choice, not the only one.
Although this road is independent, it is not easy.
The road taken by Wu Yating is not as smooth as the outside world thinks.
before
Stay at home all day with a baby.
Out of the outside world for years.
The blankness in her resume once made her lose her confidence.
If you want to return to the workplace, you must first go through the psychological level.
Fortunately, Wu Yating survived.
After surviving, she won the admiration of countless female fans. Her career blossomed, and her live orderers were numerous. Her life has just begun.
Another person in the same situation as her was Liu Mintao.
In the eyes of outsiders, she is the representative of the late bloom of the great instrument.
"Langya List", "Pretender", "Ode to Joy", applauded and applauded.
As everyone knows, this kind of late success is actually a place of death and a later life.
Time back to 2007.
This year, Liu Mintao took turns brushing his face in the popular drama.
In "Crime Scene", she is a competent trace examination expert.
In "The Great Song Ti Criminal Officer 2", she is Song Ci's right-hand man.
One by one, step by step, steady and steady, it has been considered a little famous in the circle.
30 years old, is the golden age of an actress.
Liu Mintao did not take advantage of the victory to pursue.
I chose to teach my son.
The husband is a wealthy businessman outside the circle and cannot understand the professional particularity of the actor.
He could not accept that his wife would stay in the crew for three or five months and not go home.
Liu Mintao didn't say a word and half retreated from the circle.
If the script can be pushed, it can be pushed.
Filming, if you can't go, you can't go.
In those years, her exposure was pitifully low.
But in exchange, it is the cold violence of the husband.
Don't go home.
No communication.
Do not visit children.
Liu Mintao was completely caught up in a widowed marriage.
Until I got divorced, I didn't know what the problem was.
Seven years, so the non-human.
In 2013, Liu Mintao did not take anything and moved out of the house with her children.
However, the market is changing rapidly.
There are not many opportunities left for her.
37 years old, single parent with baby, starting from scratch.
How easy is it to talk about?
She went to the director Kong Sheng, even if the role is small, it doesn't matter, she has a lot of time to figure out the role.
Kong Sheng gave her the Jing Concubine of "Langya List" and the big sister Mingjing of "The Pretender".
Sure enough, Liu Mintao did not disappoint.
JingFei took the camp step by step, and her mind was meticulous.
The mirror aura is fully open, and it can hold wang Kai, Hu Ge and other rising rookies.
Although it is a supporting role, it is no less brilliant than the protagonist.
Liu Mintao's highlight moments are not only stuck in the role.
In 2020, at the party of Jiangsu Satellite TV, a song "Red High Heels" was popular all over the Internet.
The video that night was viewed by up to 20 million viewers.
Liu Mintao's drunken and forgetful emoji was on the hot search.
Maybe it's from the heart.
Or maybe, after this encounter, the great enlightenment.
In short, people have captured several key words from Liu Mintao's body:
Let go of yourself.
Middle-aged rebellious.
"Sister" science representative.
Behind these keywords, the essence is Liu Mintao's attitude towards life.
Not bound to marriage.
Don't be harsh on the past.
Don't limit yourself.
But worry about the future.
Liu Mintao, after leaving the marriage, picked up the dashing he deserved.
Break away from the marriage of the giants and successfully counterattack.
China has Liu Mintao, and South Korea has Gao Hyun-jeong.
1995 was the peak of Gao Xianzhen's career.
This year, she was 24 years old.
Starred in the TV series "Hourglass Lover", which broke the TV station's ratings record.
Overnight, Gao Xianzhen became a national goddess.
People have high hopes for her.
But she didn't care.
For Gao Xianzhen at that time, nothing was more important than a warm home.
She chose to flash marriage and retire from the circle.
Her husband, there is a lot to come.
The nephew of the head of the Samsung Group and the vice president of New World Department Store in South Korea, Jung Yong-jin.
Rich life, cold and warm self-knowledge.
For the Samsung family, Gao Xianzhen is just a child of a poor family.
What's more, there is still a set of strict house rules waiting for her.
Every day before dawn, I have to get up, do housework, and prepare three meals.
Social media accounts are not allowed to speak freely.
Nor can it be left to show its face at will, affecting the family image.
After eight years of marriage, Gao Xianzhen was only photographed three times by paparazzi.
Every time, his face was bleak.
In the day-to-day life of a housewife, Gao Xianzhen's inferiority and grievances cannot be released.
Gradually lose yourself.
After eight years as a canary, she finally made her decision.
Desperate, also want a divorce.
The price is quite high.
She lost custody of a pair of children.
He also knew that he could not play against the huge chaebol family, gave up the division of property, and only took 10 million yuan in compensation.
It is almost equivalent to a clean house.
After the divorce, Gao Xianzhen struggled.
Look ahead.
Eight years of career blankness, popularity is long gone.
Look back.
The rich abandoned woman is a scandal-like existence, and Samsung has a cold eye for her.
The Korean showbiz industry is just that big.
As we all know, she and Samsung have formed a bond, and no one dares to risk using her.
What to do?
It can only be broken.
She took the initiative to lower her posture.
Self-demotion of film remuneration, strive for a good team, good role.
Even zero film remuneration starred in "Woman by the Sea".
This film won her the Baeksang Arts Awards in South Korea and the Daejong Award for Best Newcomer Actress.
In 2009, she went to the next city to play the villain in "Queen of Virtue".
"The Queen of Virtue" was well received, winning eight awards such as the Acting Awards.
She was also nominated for Best Actress.
This is the first time in Korean history that he has been nominated for a villain role.
It can be seen that the public has a high evaluation of her.
Gao Xianzhen officially returned to Vanity Fair.
After that, she became more and more courageous.
Challenge the host and become the pillar of the talk show "Go Show".
He also pioneered his own clothing brand Atti.k.
In just four months, it became one of the most popular brands in South Korea, setting a sales record of 160 million yuan.
In 2021, on the stage of the Hundred Thoughts Awards, Gao Xianzhen was dressed in brilliance and the king returned.
No wind and dust.
No tiredness.
On the contrary, there are more bright and dazzling people after years of polishing.
From a rich abandoned woman, to an acting queen, the originator of the goods.
Gao Xianzhen proved with his actions that without marriage, women can still live a brilliant life.
To leave is to be liberated.
Action, it starts to be wonderful.
Women who have fought back from dismal marriages, there are.
Looking closer, there are also women who have fought back from ordinary marriages.
In 2020, "56-year-old aunt Su Min left home for a self-driving tour" was on the hot search.
Su Min was born in Henan and grew up in Tibet.
Like many women born in the 60s.
When I was a child, I sacrificed myself to take care of my younger siblings.
After marrying, he sacrificed himself to take care of his husband's family.
A lifetime is just eight words: washing and cooking, raising children.
She also had the most common portrayal of marriage in that era.
The husband does nothing and is preoccupied with everything.
He grasped the economic power and was harsh on Su Min.
Economically, the AA system is required.
In the trivial matters of life, Su Min wanted to take care of them all.
There is no equality.
Don't understand respect.
There is also no empathy.
The days passed too much, and Su Min hid and cried.
When the husband saw it, he just said coldly, "Who are you crying to?" ”
After being stimulated, Su Min picked up the knife and stabbed herself in the body.
Blood all over the place.
Going to the hospital, the doctor said, it was moderate depression.
Those who seem to be rejected as ordinary,
Seemingly naturally exploited,
It's all knives,
Su Min had already been tortured to the point of exhaustion.
This poke hurt the body. It also awakens the unfinished consciousness.
The chaos of the first half of life was swept away.
Su Min made the coolest decision of her life.
A man, a car, fifteen thousand savings, an unknown journey.
She was no longer whose wife she was, whose mother she was.
Just herself.
There is also a new identity, web blogger. She cooperated with luxury brands, was invited by Disney bosses, participated in many official media interviews, bought a caravan, and won the hearts and minds of the people.
This, she said, was the life she wanted.
Everyone envied Su Min, Gao Xianzhen, Liu Mintao and Wu Yating, but few dared to take that step.
But if you are in pain.
You have the right to change.
Know that marriage is not our goal. Happiness is.
If it doesn't bring you to happiness, you have the right to consider whether a person can be happier, more valuable, and know who I am.
Every woman, before becoming someone else's wife, someone else's mother, must first become herself.
We are not just symbols in the family system.
He is also the master of his own life.
I hope that whether it is Wu Yating or Liu Mintao. Whether it is Gao Xianzhen or Su Min.
Regardless of the starting point.
Regardless of the size of the force.
No matter who you are,
Where it came from.
As long as you feel, your energy is sealed. The soul is kidnapped. The body and mind are bound.
Can be changed.
Don't be intimidated by the unknown.
Don't be pushed back by the fears of patriarchal society.
When a woman struggles to change, she will be more powerful than you think, more opportunities, and more exciting journeys.
You were originally butterflies.
There is no need to spend a lifetime in a cocoon.
You were originally a banyan tree.
It can be forested and leafy, without having to stay stuck in the thin air.
Everyone's life will not continue under the instructions of others.
It only starts the second you step out the door.