How can I prevent myself from being deceived?
In the process of recent live broadcasting, we often encounter some cases of being deceived, and the amount of money that has been defrauded varies from several thousand to tens of thousands, tens of thousands or even more than one hundred and twenty thousand.
Being deceived, the roof leaks in the rain, itself is not very good economically, and now it may be worse.
These people are indeed more pitiful, but as the saying goes, there must be something hateful about the poor.
But I don't think so, I think poor people must make mistakes. Those who have been deceived have failed to do at least the following three aspects.
01
Insufficient risk awareness
In the past, I would regularly appear at 8:10 every day, rain or shine.
Why do you want to do this, in fact, the original intention is to let everyone have a sense of risk.
Because most of us do not have legal knowledge, we do not necessarily have to study those boring laws, but we must not lack legal risk awareness.
Once there is no sense of legal risk in the mind, it is likely to be fooled, deceived, or even sold, and it will help people to make money.
For example, at present, many people are involved in the crime of helping to believe, covering up the crime of crime, basically because of the lack of legal risk awareness, for the unreasonable requirements of others, did not go to do in-depth thinking, did not think of the traps that existed inside.
Once he lost his freedom, he regretted his original choice.
However, it is too late.
02
Lack of evidence-based thinking
There are some parties with consulting issues, perhaps a little awareness of legal risks, but no sense of evidence, which eventually leads to some civil cases losing the opportunity to win.
A good hand, because of the lack of evidence, ended up playing poorly.
For example, in a case, the parties were fooled by Zhang San into doing business together, borrowing the qualifications of others and signing a contract with a third party to buy and sell masks, and the other party called the money a little more than 500,000 yuan.
After the parties received the money, Zhang San asked him to take the money out and bring it to Shenzhen to hand it over to Zhang San.
Out of caution, the parties remitted half of them to Zhang San's account, after all, it is not safe to fly with hundreds of thousands of people.
So he flew to Shenzhen the next day and handed over the remaining more than 200,000 cash to Zhang San.
Later, it was found that Zhang San was a complete liar and did not have a mask at all.
The victim reported the case, and Both Zhang San and the parties were arrested.
In fact, the parties are just running the dragon set, it is completely to Zhang San, even if it is determined to be a fraud crime, it should also belong to the accessory, and it is absolutely impossible to be the main offender.
However, due to the lack of legal risk awareness, the large amount of money sent by plane was not evidenced to be handed over to Zhang San, and Zhang San currently refuses to admit to receiving the money.
In the end, the parties were identified as the main perpetrators of fraud and sentenced to 10 years' imprisonment, and the original judgment was upheld in the second instance.
03
I don't know how to empathize
Most of us are easily deceived because we lack one of the most critical abilities – empathy.
People who have the ability to empathize basically have strong empathy.
And a person with empathy, a person who knows how to think differently, can basically stand in the position of the other party to consider problems all the time.
People who can frequently change their positions to think about problems are often more likely to find loopholes in each other's words and more likely to find the other party's bad intentions.
Discover in advance, prepare in advance, it is not easy to be deceived. Even if you are deceived, you can cut the meat in time and stop the loss quickly, without hesitation and missing the best opportunity.
If you don't understand empathy, it is easy to feel that people all over the world are like themselves, full of positive energy, honest in the whole process, and I can't imagine that there is such a group of people in this world - specializing in fraud business, always doing bad things, never doing good things.
Once you look at the world like this, the liar doesn't lie to you, who will he lie to?
If we are so defenseless, if the scammers do not deceive us, their professional qualities will be questioned.
Therefore, I advise everyone to be careful and careful, because they are careful to sail the ship of ten thousand years.
Author: Lawyer Zou Yujie
Founder of Jiuzhang Criminal Defense; Founder of Anhui Lawyer Portal Network; Director of Jin Asia-Pacific (Bozhou) Law Firm...
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