In the eyes of outsiders, Cai Shaofen has both children, a happy married life, is very good at running her own career and family, and is a winner in life in the minds of many people! But in fact, Cai Shaofen is soaked in endless tears of bitterness and even pain along the way, and her family and life are even more tortuous!
Cai Shaofen's parents were separated when she was very young, and she grew up with her and her brother by her mother alone, and her life was very difficult! It is precisely because she grew up in such a growth environment that Cai Shaofen has been very frugal after becoming popular, and has spent all the money she has earned on her family!
In addition to the heartache of her original family, Cai Shaofen was also diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis in 2008. After falling ill, I can't bend down, I can't lie down, and even it becomes difficult to exhale! After all these years, she rarely talks about her condition in front of the camera because she doesn't want people to see her vulnerable side.
After Cai Shaofen was diagnosed with forced spondylitis, what she was most worried about was not her own condition, but that she felt sorry for her husband. Because she and Zhang Jin had only been married for four months at that time, they had been diagnosed with such a disease, and Cai Shaofen hugged Zhang Jin in the hospital and cried: "I'm sorry, let you marry a disabled person!" ”
It is reported that this disease generally does not pose a threat to the patient's life, but it will seriously damage the patient's health! People with severe illnesses may even lie in bed and cannot take care of themselves. Cai Shaofen has always been a paying personality in marriage, so I can really understand why she suddenly has an emotional breakdown!
Seeing Cai Shaofen crying bitterly, Zhang Jin confessed on the spot: "It doesn't matter, I will guard you for a lifetime!" ”
Zhang Jin's words, Cai Shaofen has always remembered vividly. It is precisely because of this sentence that Cai Shaofen has insisted on it year after year! Carefully calculated, Cai Shaofen has been ill for 13 years, but after active treatment, coupled with a good attitude, not only has the condition not deteriorated, but also successfully gave birth to three children!
Everyone has always felt that Zhang Jin is climbing Cai Shaofen, but in fact, Zhang Jin is the support behind Cai Shaofen. It is precisely because of Zhang Jin that Cai Shaofen has a feeling of home. Probably this is the most perfect marriage, right? We need each other so we can support each other!
Zhang Jin once asked Cai Shaofen such a question: "If I leave first, what will happen to you?" Cai Shaofen's tears immediately flowed down after listening to it, because she had never thought about what the world would be like without Zhang Jin! But one thing is certain, that is, he will never remarry in this life, even if Zhang Jinxian leaves, he will raise three children alone!
I was really touched by the love between Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen, and supported and understood each other along the way. Although they are already parents of three children, they still have a feeling of heartbeat for each other. The feelings of the old husband and wife are really too good, probably this is the most beautiful way to marry love, right?