Yesterday, Fan Fan went back to my house to get the charger, let Wanwan come to my house to sleep for one night, and then go home this afternoon, this is the best arrangement of God, in fact, there is a little selfishness of mine. In addition to playing with mobile phones, children get along harmoniously, do things together, play together, enjoy non-alone time, and relax how happy it is to do what they like to do.
Today, taking advantage of the lunch opportunity, I told the children a little bit about my original family, my parents and our group of children in that era, that is, the lives of their grandparents, fathers and aunts, why different people will have different lives, but also highlighted the importance of reading, teach them not to judge the lives of others one-sidedly, after all, we are not parties, but more to learn to look at other people's lives to think about their own lives, how a person wants to live is actually their own decision. It seems to open or break their original thinking patterns a bit, and I obviously see that the eyes of the two children are starting to glow, and they seem to be starting to see a new world, hoping that in the future they will see a sincere and loving world.
The little niece Wanwan also asked me with wide eyes and curiosity: Sister-in-law, what is emotional intelligence? This child is really quite smart, and I really hope that someone can guide her correctly and patiently communicate with her in depth. How to say it? Emotional intelligence is almost empathy, empathy, learn to think in a different position, compare hearts to hearts, understand and tolerate the difficulties of others more, and then it is easier to balance yourself to properly handle things. It is better to teach by example than to pass on, to teach people to fish is not as good as to teach them to fish, just theory to teach her, it is estimated that she is at most only half-understood, more or more need parents in life to do a good role model for them to see, so that they will be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, will become the most precious quality in their bodies. After lunch, I went to dry and wash the quilt, Fan Zai and my sister cleaned up the garbage, Wan Sister swept the floor, Fang Ge mopped the floor, and the family cleaned up before taking the subway back together.
Grandpa just returned home from Bao'an, and when he entered the door to see Fan Zai mopping the floor, his eyes were also happy to smile into a slit, and it was really the first time I saw my father smile so cheerfully and cheerfully. Just after returning to Bao'an, Fan Zai also sent me a message, informing him that he had sent his sister to the community, and he went to play with his classmates. Dad, now you believe it, good children are really taught.
Phrase of the Day:
Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.
---- life has always been simple, but we have always been tempted to make it complicated.
