It is natural for students to listen to the teacher, but if the student only listens to the teacher and does not listen to the parents, it is troublesome.
Affected by the epidemic, primary school students in many areas have been hiding at home for several weeks in a row, and many parents are physically and mentally exhausted and their blood pressure rises because their children are disobedient in online classes.
Some parents, in order to keep their children focused on the lessons, occasionally use the teacher as a weapon: if you don't study well, I will tell your teacher. But after all, parents are embarrassed to really go to the teacher to make a small report, and this trick will not work after a long time.
And there is a primary school student's mother who was also anxious because of the child's disobedience in online classes, but not long ago she took out her "pressure box bottom" skill, which was really good after being used on the child, so she shared it without hesitation.
Primary school students are not obedient in online classes, and their mothers take out the "bottom of the pressure box" skill, netizens: benefit a lot!
Many parents have found that primary school students especially listen to the teacher's words, the same thing the teacher only needs to say once the student will obediently do, the completion efficiency is still very high, but the parents say ten times may not work, even if they do it according to the requirements is also absent-minded.
The mother of the primary school student took advantage of the fact that the student listened to the teacher, let the child's aunt create a small Micro Signal, and then set up a head portrait like the class teacher, and kept telling the child to listen to the class and read more books before and after class every day.
The homework left by the mother for the child will also be sent to the teacher for the teacher to correct, so the child is particularly serious when writing the homework, and every time she looks forward to the teacher's encouragement to her. If you find that something needs to be improved, the mother will send it to the aunt, and then the aunt will send it to the child in WeChat.
The mother confessed: After half a month of running in like this, not only do I no longer need to be angry with my children every day, but the children's learning habits have also been formed, and now the relationship between herself and her children is much better than before.
I have to say that this is really a good way, if you can use this white lie to help students fall in love with learning, it will be earned. At the same time, the comment area can be described as interesting, some netizens said: Benefit a lot, I learned, ready to open their own trumpet routine under the son.
Some netizens also ridiculed: Why didn't this child download the national anti-fraud APP? Some netizens also said: After seeing this, I couldn't help but lower the volume, don't push it to my son. Some netizens said in the tone of the class teacher: After all, I am still the class teacher who carries everything.
Parents need to understand why it is more effective for teachers to say one sentence than parents to say ten sentences.
As an educator, in addition to having a good level of knowledge, teachers have also studied pedagogical psychology, so naturally they know how to educate students well than parents, but parents are not bad, parents understand student habits better, and it is easier to prescribe the right medicine.
The reason why the teacher says one sentence is more effective than the parents say ten sentences, the author analyzed 2 points, one is that the students are more in awe of the teacher, and the parents are more dependent, and the students know in their hearts that the parents will always love themselves, but they are afraid that the teacher will not like themselves.
Second, students learn a lot of knowledge from the teacher, so in their hearts the teacher is very holy, and what the teacher says is also very reasonable, so they are more willing to listen to the teacher's words. On the other hand, parents will occasionally say the wrong thing, and there are many questions about their children.
Therefore, if parents want to successfully carry out family education, they must establish prestige in front of their children and let their children listen to their own words convincingly. At the same time, parents should also try their best to maintain the position of the teacher in the hearts of the students, so that the teacher's words can have enough weight in the hearts of the students.
Should parents tell white lies when educating their children?
The mother mentioned in the article told a white lie when educating her children, and the effect was very good, and many parents also praised her and hoped to use this method to their children. Does that mean that parents can educate their children through white lies?
Warm reminder to parents, if you want to tell this white lie to your child, it is best to say hello to the class teacher in advance, and be careful that one day the child is exposed when chatting with the real class teacher, then it will be easy for the child to stop trusting the parents so much in the future.
At the same time, parents can not always use the name of the class teacher to manage students, primary school students are more foolish, what about junior high school students and high school students? What if the child himself has a WeChat friend of the class teacher? Therefore, if you want to educate your children well, you must let family education take responsibility.
All in all, it's okay for parents to occasionally tell some white lies, but often walk by the river where there are not wet shoes. And there are many ways to educate children, and students should not always be chased by parents and teachers to learn, so do not frequently use dishonest ways to educate children.
Author's message: There are many cases of primary school students disobeying in online classes, have you learned this mother's education method? I hope that all mothers can make students aware of the importance of education, and all students can listen to their parents more and improve their academic performance through their joint efforts.
That's all there is to it, what white lies have you told your child?
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