"Hope for children to become dragons, hope for women to become phoenixes", should be the expectation of many parents, in the children will be carefully cultivated, and even learn from successful cases of education, thinking that this can cultivate the same children.
However, each child's talent is different, the same education method does not apply to all students, if parents blindly reproduce the education methods of other parents, it is not good for students.
Just like the 3-year-old "naked running" in the snow, the 11-year-old "prodigy" He Yide who graduated from college, his father's education method has been imitated by many parents, so now 10 years later, how is this child living? Parents must also be very concerned.
3 years old in the snow "naked running", 11 years old college graduation, is the "birth of genius" or the father's rush to succeed
Speaking of "prodigies", many parents feel envious, when they hear that other people's children have been admitted to college, and their children will not even solve the function once, parents will definitely hate iron and steel, then today's "protagonist" He Yide is the "child of others".
In a variety show in 2020, the resume of a 12-year-old boy attracted the attention of other students present, saying that he hiked at the age of 1, climbed the Purple Mountain in Nanjing at the age of 2, and ran naked in the snow at the age of 3.
Speaking of this, many parents think of the boy who was forced by his father to "run naked" in the winter a few years ago, it turned out that it was this person, parents knew that in the process of educating students, they should follow the law of growth, a three-year-old child has just begun to enlighten education, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of habits, and this father has begun to train his physical fitness.
Even if it is a high school student, it is estimated that parents cannot bear to let students run in such a harsh environment, not to mention three-year-old children, but this "eagle father" is also well-intentioned, because He was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at birth, which is a thunderbolt for the family, so the father also does this to exercise the student's physique.
This behavior immediately attracted the attention of many parents, and his father continued his "chicken baby education" model, when he was 5 years old, other classmates went to kindergarten, and he learned to fly a plane, wrote an autobiography at the age of 6, took himself to Nanjing University at the age of 8, and prepared for master's and doctoral studies at the age of 12.
Seeing that many parents here are envious, they feel that this is "genius", but from primary school to university, He has also lost a lot.
Whether it is life ability or sophistication, he lacks experience, but to admit that He classmates are indeed smart, from the perspective of a skill he learns every year, I am very able to endure hardships, advanced training is really useful for students, but as an ordinary parent, it is still necessary to respect common sense and growth rules.
Each stage of learning has a revealing effect on the growth of students, parents are so eager to achieve, at the age of play to let students withstand high pressure learning, but will destroy the growth rules of students.
Many parents feel that their fathers regard students as "guinea pigs", and this is indeed the case, while their fathers high-profile publicity about their own education methods, they also opened an education company, but they were fined for "false propaganda". This shows that genius is not carved out of the same template.
How is He Yide doing now? Is his upbringing a seedling?
Now He is still studying, but he has changed the high profile of the past, after all, his father's approach has begun to be rejected by more parents, and he also hopes that his father will not take his children as a gimmick for profit, but let him have a quiet learning environment.
Many parents are touched by this inspirational story, He students seem to have a bright future, but it is not worth the loss, to know that there is no shortcut to learning this road, the reason why students read and write in school is because the school can not only learn the basic knowledge, students also have to experience countless ups and downs of achievements, experienced adolescence, so that students can slowly feel growth.
The learning goals set by the father for the students are very clear and clear, but they are all the father's ideas, and the students simply do not have their own choices, let alone independent thoughts.
Not all students are "He Yide", and parents should teach according to their aptitudes and measure students by different standards
Parents should understand that the advantages and disadvantages of each student are different, the family environment is different, the students' perceptions are naturally different, and the learning atmosphere of the school will also subtly change the thinking of learning God, so parents should not use the successful experience of others' education to guide their children.
Parents always tell their children "how good other people's students are, how good the test scores are", but in fact, parents ignore the advantages of students themselves, and parents cannot use the same standards to require students.
Author's message: For parents, education is to feel the stones to cross the river, and each student's talent is different, parents do not blindly reproduce the success of others, let students first learn to be human, in learning to learn, cover up in order to develop for a long time.
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