Dictation: Aunt Lee
Finishing: Exquisite
There is an old Chinese saying: Sheng Mi En Dou Mi Qi. What Aunt Li wants to talk about today is one thing that happened to herself, the protagonist of this story is her niece, and her brother-in-law, that is, her niece's parents.
The story is narrated in the first person below.
My family is two brothers and sisters, and there is an older brother who is six years older than me.
When I was a child, our brother and sister's relationship was very good, and what I never expected was that my brother and I would one day become like this, like strangers.
My brother works in his hometown county, I went to work in the provincial city after graduating from college, and now I have a house and a car, my family is happy, and my life is very good.
Two years ago, my brother's only daughter Lili graduated from college and did not want to go back to the county to work, wanted to work in the provincial city, for this choice of niece, I raised my hands in approval, and gave strong support, said that Li Li came to live in my house to slowly find a job.
With my persistent backing, my brother and sister-in-law were relieved to let Lili come to my house.
My family house is big, my son studied abroad last year, I and the old justice feel empty in our hearts, and now that Li Li is here, we are both very happy, and the family has the youthful atmosphere of young people.
Li Li is a more introverted girl, after coming here, I did not stick to our affection as I thought, but I think this is very normal, after all, my aunt has little contact with her, and she will be like a family when the days are long.
But some of Li Li's habits make me feel uncomfortable, such as she always stays up late, does not get up at three o'clock in the day, every time I make breakfast is cold, she is still sleeping, and when I make lunch, she will eat lunch directly.
And she doesn't like to clean up, the bedroom is always a mess, the garbage is not dumped, and the clothes are thrown everywhere.
After a long time, I began to be unable to stand it, it was inevitable to nag, she was not happy at all, and sometimes she resisted. I felt some air of disharmony.
But I did not brake on this, but felt that she would suffer losses when she walked out of society like this, and it would not be good for her family to get married in the future, so I forced her to do housework.
For example, washing dishes, washing clothes.
Li Li was very resistant to doing housework and didn't say anything on her lips, but she didn't do it all perfunctorily. The dishes are only washed once, the foam of the dish soap is still left on it, and the clothes are even more messy.
I was very upset and often beat her like this.
She began to go out every day to look for a job, but she never found the job she wanted, and more than half a year passed.
My husband proposed that Li Li was going to work in the provincial city anyway, and he could find her a boyfriend first, which I thought was a good idea.
So under my zhangluo, Li Li began a blind date, a young man named Luo Zheng, and she fell in love at first sight. This young man has a good family condition and a gentle personality.
Six months later, they established a relationship and were ready to get married, and Luo Zheng introduced LiLi to work at a company owned by his father's friend.
Li Li's work and marriage all had gratifying prospects, but her relationship with me was getting worse and worse, even to the point of sword fighting.
The reason is still the problem of doing housework, I think it is okay for young people to do some housework, but Li li feels that coming to my house to do housework is to serve me, it seems that her status is low.
Finally, on a night when I was coming home from work, when I asked Li li to wash her clothes again, she broke out completely, crying and yelling that I looked down on her, treated her as a maid, and called Luo Zheng to ask him to pick her up, and she was going to move out of my house!
I was so angry that I cared about her like a daughter, planned her future, and got such an attitude for marriage? After Li Li moved away that night, her brother's phone also called, and it turned out that Li Li had complained that I had treated her as a maid.
My brother scolded me with a straight face, saying that his precious daughter was spoiled at home, and I actually did this to her, and he never had my sister again.
Before I could argue, he hung up the phone.
I was confused, I didn't expect to be such a difficult person, I didn't expect that Li Li now has a job, and her boyfriend also has it, so I erased all my efforts and efforts, and in the end I became a bad person and became an enemy of their family!
I can't figure it out, am I doing it wrong? Who can tell me?