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Marriage Story: Wrong but unwilling to atone for your ex-wife's sins, why ask your ex-wife to forgive you?

author:Ding late

The man abandoned his wife and son and remarried for twenty-six years, but he was paralyzed in old age and asked his ex-wife and son to take care of him. The reason for the remarried wife is very simple, the old man has money with the son born to his ex-wife, and not long ago the old man's son has just bought a new house, fully capable of supporting and caring for the old man, as for her, she has taken care of the old man for twenty-six years, fulfilled the obligation of the remarried wife, and now that she is old and incapable, I hope that the old man's ex-wife and son can take the old man home to take care of it.

When I saw this interview record that night, I was really shocked, it turned out that scumbags and third parties were not only selfish when they were young, but also old. The ex-wife's son born to his ex-wife was so unlucky that after twenty-six years, he would still be haunted by the ghost of a man and a third party.

Marriage Story: Wrong but unwilling to atone for your ex-wife's sins, why ask your ex-wife to forgive you?

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The man's ex-wife told the zealous people who went to mediate that she was only thirty years old when the man betrayed the family. The two sons born to the man, the eldest was five years old and the youngest was only eight months old.

She was particularly upset when she learned that men were living with other women, but she had a long all-night conversation with men for the sake of her children. I hope that men can see that they have been married for many years and have two children, and they can break with the women outside and return to the family.

The woman said that at that time, she also analyzed his life of remarriage after cheating with men, saying that the third party had his own children and would definitely focus on his own children after remarriage. Let him think twice, don't raise other people's children, lose your own children, and in the end, end up with an old and helpless end.

The man said that he understood everything, said that he understood what his wife meant, said that he was indeed sorry for his wife and children in the matter of betraying the marriage, but he was reluctant to the woman, said that he loved her and wanted to live with her. He begged his wife to fulfill them, and begged her to divorce him.

A man, in front of his original wife, said that he loved other women, said that he was willing to give up everything for that woman, and as a wife, Ermei felt uncomfortable in his heart. Ermei has asked for help from her in-laws, asked for help from men's friends, and even gone to a third party, hoping that she would not destroy her family, but men did not care at all, and the third party, that is, the man's remarried wife, also brazenly showed off with her.

When Ermei realized that the marriage was hopeless, she divorced the man. Ermei said that although it was agreed to give child support when she divorced, the man did not give her and her son a penny after remarriage, and in the words of the man, the family's money was managed by a third party, and he could not do anything.

Marriage Story: Wrong but unwilling to atone for your ex-wife's sins, why ask your ex-wife to forgive you?

Twenty-six years is just a time in the eyes of others, but for a man's ex-wife, Ermei, and two children, it is a hard twenty-six years. In order to take care of and support her two sons, in the past twenty-six years, Ermei has been a father and a mother, living harder than a man. Even the neighbors around her said that Ermei was not simple, a short woman, and actually followed the man to do manual work on the construction site.

Without their father's protection, the two children became self-reliant at a very young age, and in addition to helping their mother with housework, they would also go out to pick up some scraps. Ermei said that the children of the poor have long been in charge, her two sons are very sensible, when they grow up to be teenagers, they know that they use the winter and summer vacations to do odd jobs, although they can't earn any money from odd jobs, it may just be a bowl of rice managed by others, but she and the children are very content.

Time passed day by day, and the two children grew up day by day and had their own things. The eldest son opened a waste recycling station, and the younger son opened a snack shop. They are all people who look down on them, but the two children work hard, contentedly, steadfastly, and willingly, and their lives are slowly getting better. But the three mothers and sons did not expect that the man who had disappeared for twenty-six years, the man who had not asked about their mother and son for twenty-six years, was sent back by the man's remarried wife after being paralyzed.

In the face of the paralyzed man and the aggressive third party, the man's ex-wife Ermei and his two children resolutely ignored the man, and said that even if he died outside, he would not collect his body.

Some fake good people persuade the two children, saying that the man is their father, the good villain gave them life, even if the man did not fulfill his responsibilities when he was young, they should also take care of them when they were old, and said that they were not without that ability. For this kind of fake good person, I just want to say one sentence, "You think the man is pitiful, you take it back to take care of it." ”

What does it mean that a man gives life to a child? It was their mother who was pregnant in October, it was their mother who suffered the pain of childbirth, and it was their mother who took care of them and raised them, and what does it have to do with men. In the twenty-six years when the two sons were growing up hard, the man did not give the children a penny, a bowl of rice, or even visit the children, so why did he ask his sons to support him and take care of him?

Marriage Story: Wrong but unwilling to atone for your ex-wife's sins, why ask your ex-wife to forgive you?

As for the man's remarried wife, she even said that she took care of the man for twenty-six years, why don't you say that you spent twenty-six years of the man's salary, lived in the man's house for twenty-six years, and let the man help you raise twenty-six years of children. You took advantage of everything, but when the man was paralyzed, you kicked the man back in front of his ex-wife and children, why do you mean it?

As a bystander, Wanwan believes that the person who should take care of the man the most is the man's current wife, that is, the original third party. It is the children of the third party who should support men the most, after all, in these twenty-six years, men have fulfilled the responsibilities and obligations of a stepfather.

Don't tell a woman who has been hurt for twenty-six years that you were wrong and that you regretted it. When you are incapable of compensating your ex-wife and will only drag down your ex-wife, all your apologies are purposeful and insincere. Without atonement, how can there be forgiveness?

Who do you think should take care of men the most? Do you think a man's ex-wife is right with his children?

Finally, I want to say that people will be old, and when they are young, they will ignore it and act recklessly, and when they are old, they should pay for the willfulness of the time. The characters in the text are pseudonyms, and if there is a similarity, it is a coincidence.