Text/July Chang'an
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Life, ups and downs, like the tide of the sea, there are ups and downs.
When you rise, you are not proud of the terrible waves, and when you fall, you are not discouraged by loneliness and helplessness.
Life, you are at ease.
There is a saying that goes like this: "A bamboo stick, a pair of straw shoes, calmly and calmly through the bamboo forest in the wind and rain, and walk and groan a smoke and rain to live a life, this is how detached and free." Only by sinking your heart can you have such a meticulous and profound understanding of life. ”
Only calm and honorable, only calm and calm, detached from the world, not happy with things, not with self-pity.
01. Walk calmly
What is calmness?
There is a sentence that accurately summarizes the meaning of calmness: "When everyone takes me seriously, I can't take myself too seriously." When everyone doesn't take me seriously, I have to look up to myself. This is calmness, this is calmness. ”
In the glory and without losing yourself, in the defeat and lose yourself, calm and calm, the road under the feet is still very long, walk calmly, you can once again create a more brilliant future.
Life is a flowing year of the past, there have been successes, there have been failures, the problem is that many people succeed, proud and complacent, and after failure, but willing to degenerate.
You can't calmly face this path of life.
In the "Window Notes", the author wrote: "Spoiled and not alarmed, idle to watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court." Go to stay unintentional, and the clouds outside the sky are cirrus cloud Shu. ”
The meaning is nothing more than to have a calm and calm heart, to walk calmly, to look calmly, and not to affect the inner emotional fluctuations due to external factors.
There was a best friend, in the early years, just because of the unstable mood, led to career failure, blindly sinking, and then learned to walk calmly, everything is very light, the result is all the way through the thorns, career by leaps and bounds, a thousand miles a day.
He said: "Failure, just stand up and pat the dust on your body, afraid of what to make fun of, afraid of what difficulties, calmly and calmly live." ”
The heart, if calm, the road, will be flat, walk calmly, life will always reach the other side of success.
02. Love calmly
Love has always been an eternal topic in life.
Love needs to be managed with heart and face it with a sincere heart.
It's just that many times, the sincerity can not be exchanged for return, your love has been paid, and all you get is cold scorn, and the turn of that moment makes you speechless, and your heart hurts like a knife.
Those who can't get it, the love they can't get, then calmly give up, don't think about it, don't delete it, don't bother it, and don't dwell on it.
Love, from the calm, frank, since others have no existence in their hearts, why let their hearts continue to sink in the sea of suffering?
Say hello to him or her, and then calmly let go, although it is a brief pain, but it is better than the entanglement of dying and living.
Once a classmate fell in love with a beautiful girl, but unfortunately that girl did not look up to the poor classmate, she said, marry you, drink the northwest wind with you?
The feeling of rejection was very uncomfortable, he wanted to refute it, he wanted to stalk it, but in the end he smiled calmly and respected the girl's choice.
After many years, he had several ups and downs in the commercial sea, and finally achieved a career. At a class reunion, the girl also came, and seeing the scenery of this classmate instantly became very embarrassing.
Many classmates asked him the secret of success, and he looked at the girl with a smile and said, "My biggest secret is to calmly, calmly love, do calmly, never force others, and never give up on myself easily." ”
Everyone has the right to choose love, if the person you love does not love you, then calmly let go, there will eventually be one person in this world who will become your left arm and build a better tomorrow for you.
03. Life, you are at ease
I like this sentence very much: "Life is precious in calm, not to let us have no quarrel with the world, everything is backed down, but in the case of fully understanding ourselves, we should make full use of our strengths and avoid our weaknesses, integrate existing resources and strengths, plan and then move, and achieve four or two thousand pounds." ”
Calmly face the hardships of life, this road is too much wind and rain, as long as you calmly face, with an indomitable spirit, brave and persistent pursuit, then hardship will eventually become the past clouds.
Calmly face love, no matter how deeply loved, others do not love is not love, a faint smile, calmly and calmly turn around and walk, the heart aches, better than the low-voiced humble love.
Calmly face yourself, face this life, no matter how unbearable you are, remember that you will always be a unique existence in this world, if you don't walk calmly, then who can be reborn for you?
Life, precious in calm, One Heart Zen Master once said: "Life rises and falls, is the law of nature, all things are like this, why care about temporary gains and losses, calmly live, calmly do, calmly walk, then win everything in the world." ”
May you and I be calm people, keep a calm heart, and live calmly and calmly from now on.
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