Keywords: Heartwarming boys
I had a guy on my first blind date, but he didn't like me much now, and I don't know how to make him like me?
We talk every day, it's not him looking for me or I'm looking for him, he feels more like a friend with me, he also knows that I like him, he should also try to like me, my parents like him, I like him, but only I know that he doesn't like me...
He also asks me out every weekend, but... He wasn't impressed with me either, he was a little calmer, he felt that it was more important to find someone who really liked him, so he continued to contact me, so tangled... His family conditions are much better than mine, I climbed high...
The person who can make you fall in love at first sight can also make many other people fall in love at first sight. But you don't have the ability to make others fall in love at first sight, so what does that mean?
People say that women in their 20s have everything and men in their 20s have nothing. When you have everything, your favorite is often something you can't match, because the value of girls will decline over time, and with marriage and childbearing, the choice will be further reduced.
But on the other hand, the boy next to you, in case the choice of the boy next to you, as he grows older, his wealth grows, he becomes more and more mature and more charming (of course, we don't rule out saying that in case he gets older and his income is still declining. But most people's wealth grows with age, and more mature boys tend to be more likable to girls.)
At that point, how do you deal with yourself? How many competitors will you have? How are you going to beat them?
Everyone wants to do a profitable business, so only those who see their own high climbing and high value exceed their own matching value will be moved. In the world of young girls, the man who makes the girl's heart move first is often unmatched by the girl, because the girl will gradually grow old.
So when we choose a partner, if we want to get a partner who can grow old with a blank head, we must choose a partner whose value can also be matched in the future, rather than looking for someone who made you love at first sight from the beginning. Because if he can make you fall in love at first sight when he has nothing, then when he has everything, he can make 50 young girls like you fall in love with him at first sight.
Do you think that after you turn 40, your choice will be higher than 50, like your current one self? If not, then please stop there.