Life is rushing like a journey, and meeting is fate. Some people are good to you because you are good to him. Some people are good to you because they understand your goodness. But no matter what kind of goodwill, it is worth remembering with our hearts. Remember the good of others, and happiness will increase, and right and wrong will decrease.
Others are good to you, remember to be grateful
Everyone will meet a noble person in their life, maybe the people around you who care about you, maybe the strangers they don't know.
We must learn to remember the goodness of others and be grateful for the kindness of others, because to be kind to others is to be kind to ourselves.
As the old saying goes, "He who loves to come out loves to return, and he who loves to go is blessed." ”
Life is an echo, giving people roses and having a lingering fragrance in their hands.
Love can be exchanged for love, and trust can be exchanged for trust.
There is a saying: Plant good causes and get good results.
When you want to reap the favor of others, first you must sow the seeds of goodness in the hearts of others.
Human feelings need to come and go in order to feel the flow of love.
Everyone is a mirror in your life, you raise an eyebrow at it, and the mirror reflects back will not be a good face.
But if you have a grateful heart, life will also reflect you more sunshine like a mirror.
Other people's evil towards you, learn to let go
During the Northern Song Dynasty, Su Shi was repeatedly persecuted by his political enemy Zhang Huan.
The farthest time, Su Shi was relegated to Hainan. When Hainan is mentioned, people outside the island are frightened.
That year, Su Shi was already 62 years old, and Zhang Wei wanted him to die in the wilderness.
At that time, Hainan was a wilderness land, often infested with poisonous snakes, and surrounded by miasma.
Su Shi also felt that he was more fierce and less auspicious, and as soon as he arrived in Hainan, he wrote a letter to his family to explain his aftermath.
He followed the locals every day to eat taro and drink white water to maintain his life, and it was not long before he was skinny.
The harsh climatic environment tormented Su Shi's physical and mental will.
In the third year of being degraded to Hainan, Song Zhezong died, Song Huizong succeeded to the throne, and the imperial court granted amnesty to the world.
In May of that year, the 65-year-old Su Shi was ordained.
He could finally leave Hainan.
Zhang Huan, who created and manipulated people, harmed him and exiled him to Hainan, was deposed.
Zhang's son, fearing that Su Shi would retaliate against their family, wrote a letter to Su Shi, hoping that Su Shi would be able to get away with it.
Instead of retaliating against the political enemy who had persecuted him, Su Shi sent him a prescription to take care of his health and strive to return to the north as soon as possible and reunite with his family.
Su Shi wrote the following sentence in his reply to Zhang Huan's son:
But in the past, it is more beneficial.
Yes, what is the use of thinking about things that have already passed?
Because the capacity of a heart is limited, it cannot contain too much love and warmth when it contains hatred.
Read the good of others and cultivate your own heart
Life is a generous gift, one flower and one grass, one person and one thing, are the best arrangements.
But most people often can't remember the goodness of others, and they are all concerned about the badness of others.
I have seen that there is a question: how fragile can the relationship between people and people be?
There is a high praise at the bottom who replied: With people, the most chilling thing is to help people a hundred times, and never be read grace. Once I didn't help, I was held in my heart.
Man is a forgetful animal, because once unpleasant, he forgets all the good that preceded it.
"Cai Gen Tan" has a saying: People have grace for me and must not forget, and resentment must not be forgotten.
In life, who can guarantee that you will not take half a step wrong?
Pinching the bad of others will only be exchanged for endless entanglement and resentment, causing serious internal friction to themselves.
Therefore, to be a person, remember more people's kindness, and remember less people's lives.
Remembering the best thing about others is to live up to fate.
It is not easy to meet, remember those who are good to you, don't let resentment take up the time of acquaintance and acquaintance.
Life in the sea, will always experience human warmth and cold.
If you always have resentment in your heart and hold on to the badness of others, you will only exchange endless entanglement and resentment, causing serious internal friction to yourself.
And when you try to remember the good of others, your heart will be warm and pleasant.
Be a person, remember more people's kindness, and remember less people's lives.
Between friends, think more about each other's help, friendship will be strong.
Between relatives, think more about each other's advantages, and the family will be harmonious.
Between lovers, remember each other's efforts, and the feelings will last. #Buddhism##Positive Energy##弘化社 #