Feelings are very complicated things, and no one can tell whether it is right or wrong, right or wrong. It is estimated that the parties can only be persuaded to want to open it, after all, this is a will, and it cannot be handled in a way that thinks it is right.
Promises can also be disobeyed, and the mother cannot be left alone. Why can't a mother raise children and be buried with her husband? After the old man died, the parents were buried together. The stepmother agreed, left her a place, disagreed, and left her alone.
It is right to do so, the original match died of illness, not divorced, the status of the main room is unshakable, and the step-room can only leave a position on the side of the original match.
Some netizens said that after the old man died, his wishes could not be satisfied, then his own mother can also think the same way, the old man has remarried, what feelings are not emotional, certainly do not want to be buried together, how disgusting. So this matter is best according to the old man's idea, he understands a lot of things in his heart, and there is no need to say it too clearly to his children, but the children may not understand.
In this case in the south, the children will not obey the old man's wishes, the original match is due to illness to die first, and it is not divorced, so the status of the original match cannot be shaken, the three coffins are buried together, the old man, the original match, the following is the successor match, the two coffins are buried together, the two coffins are buried together Only before the shoulder pick two rooms, both are the wife of the main house.
My uncle's first wife had no children, and after his death, he married his wife and had children, and after the death of his wife, he built a grave: in the middle was his own, on the left was his ex-wife, and on the right was his post-wife.
This seems to be impossible for him, from the family tradition to consider that it should be buried with the original, and then it is three people buried together, the original should be large.
According to the old tradition, a person like your father who marries an ex-wife after his death should be a father's monument in the middle after a hundred years, one on each side, and a large urn inside.
This should mean stepmother. Because the stepmother is divorced, she is afraid that she will not have a place to bury her in the future. According to the old rules, when buried, the stepwife should be later than the former wife to show a difference, which is also the reason why some of the latter wives are reluctant.
This is also the case in my family, in 93 years I did not meet the mother-in-law died, in 94 years my father-in-law remarried, in 95 years I married my husband, in 2004 my step-in-law died, she and my father-in-law meant to be together, both families did not agree, people's sons buried their parents and fathers-in-law together, making my father-in-law sigh.
This kind of last wish is originally difficult for the children, they all have their own wives, and when they are old, they have to be the same as the original husband and wife, purely for the next generation to find things.
What do you think about this?