A boy named Xiaoyu and He Jiong said: "Recently a friend showed me an article, which said that the control of economic property is a kind of domestic violence, and I suspect that I have been abused by domestic violence. ”
Teacher He was shocked and asked, "How do you say that?" Is this home your wife in charge of the money? ”
Xiao Yu: "Yes, I will turn in my salary card every month, but slowly I will find that any money I spend I have to explain to her clearly, that is, in life I feel like a recycling station for old things, can you understand?" For example, my mobile phone is used by my wife, including my mobile phone case, which will be used by her. ”
Xie Na: "Is there a cartoon?" ”
Xiao Yu: "Yes, there is often a kind of little flower, a little bear or something, and then it will be seen by my colleagues, and they will all say, ah, your phone case is very cute, I don't know how to get back to them." And my family has bought a car, I can't drive, she doesn't let me take a taxi, only allows me to take the bus, she thinks a dollar can solve the things why pay thirty or forty yuan to solve it? ”
Xie Na: "Then can you drive your car?" ”
"Can be opened."
Li Ronghao: "Did you drive before?" ”
Teacher He: "Xiaoyu, do you know that there are usually two car keys?" ”
Xiao Yu: "It's all in her place." ”
Teacher He: "Do you have a little pocket money now?" For example, in addition to the bus fare or something. ”
Xiao Yu: "My pocket money is actually sold." But there will be embarrassing times, because sometimes when we go to a barbecue, she has to go to the scene to ask for it, which is very embarrassing. ”
Teacher He: "So after so many years, you don't have a way to save a little private money?" ”
The boy "hmmm" for half a day.
Xie Na: "Listening to your 'hmm', I know that you have saved a little, are you hiding in your shoes, or inside the duvet cover or in the pillow case?" ”
Xiao Yu: "This situation is actually very small, because she will still give it to me when she asks for money." ”
Teacher He: "Understand, then let me ask you, she will not only be very frugal with you, and then she will spend money herself more casually, right?" ”
Xiao Yu: "She is also a more frugal person." ”
Everyone suddenly realized, oh, you see he is a problem with the concept of consumption.
Teacher He: "First of all, I think you should not go online and rise to the level of domestic violence." ”
Li Ronghao also came up with his own suggestion: "You must not guess what the other party is thinking, and communicate frankly." ”
Many small ears also left a message after hearing it, saying that the right must be chatted in time, otherwise some misunderstandings will not be solved.
But I really sympathize with this boy, because it feels too miserable! Although my husband will also hand in his salary, but his other money I will not pay attention to him, on the one hand, he does not spend money much, on the other hand, I also feel that there is no need to be stuck so tightly, you said that if you go out to eat without money, it is really a bit humiliating, right!
I still think that when two people are together, money is very important, but it is more important to be happy
