In life, what regrets have you encountered?
Sunset Infinite Good Music: Eason Chan - U 87
This is a story about "regrets".
I once heard a saying like this:
"Life is made up of regrets, if there are no regrets, how regretful our lives should be."
It seems that this is indeed the case, growing up, we are always experiencing big and small regrets, and there are many people who are trapped in it and can't get out.
So, we started the topic: "In life, what regrets have you encountered?" ”
I hope that after you read these stories, you can let go of your regrets and look forward.
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"Mom, don't leave me here alone"
Fan @Ke
One morning, I had breakfast with my mom.
Mom suddenly said, "I'm a little dizzy, go take a break." ”
Unexpectedly, "rest" became a farewell.
Mom never woke up again, and she didn't even have time to say her last words.
When I was a child, I liked to cling to her, spoil her in her arms, and lose my temper.
Looking at the way she was anxious and worried about me, I would snicker secretly, because I knew that it was all my mother's heavy love.
"Mom, can you please leave me here alone?"
Image source: Fan @Ke
Vermicelli @ bubble gum
In 2018, Grandma fell ill and developed rectal cancer.
I was busy at work and just asked Grandma what she needed, and she said childishly:
"I just want you to be by my side."
But I left, and the next day I received a call from my father: "Grandma can't talk anymore." "My heart sank, and I hurried home.
The grandmother in front of me was so sick and already very weak that I gently called her, but I didn't expect her to suddenly cry.
At that moment, my heart was about to break, and I knew that Grandma loved me the most.
I remember when I was a child, I often slept with my grandmother, and every time I had eczema on my back, I couldn't sleep, and my grandmother patiently scratched me all night.
Unfortunately, I haven't taken her to see more, and she hasn't seen my child yet.
"Since you left, all the old people I've met have felt like you."
Source: Vermicelli @ Bubble Gum
Fan @ Jiayan
In April 2012, when I came back to visit my dad, I took this picture.
He had been standing here looking into the distance day and night for 11 years.
When I was a child, my father left home to work, and he left for three years and five years.
My grandmother and I always stood here waiting for him to come back.
Now that I'm older, the man who left home has become me.
"I miss you, Dad."
Source: Fan @ Jiayan
"Then we got married, but neither of us was each other."
Fans @ Feast.
One day in junior high school, he stood in the sun like that and smiled very warmly.
It was at that moment that I fell in love with him, and I plucked up the courage to approach him and talk to him.
In high school, he finally said the words I was expecting: "Let's be together." ”
But at that time, my studies were tense, and I rejected him.
When he was young, he made a promise to me: "When we are 26 years old, we will get married." ”
It is because of this sentence that I have been looking forward to the arrival of 26 years old with great joy.
The 26-year-old came, and he was really getting married, but the bride wasn't me.
"Goodbye, I wish you happiness, and I'm going to try to like people too."
Image source: Fan @ Feast.Screenshot from 8 years ago
Fan @ Blossoming Tree
We used to work in a building, I was on the 10th floor and he was on the 13th floor.
Commuting back and forth, we often bumped into each other in the elevator, and although we knew each other, we never spoke.
Later I quit and stopped working there.
One day after work, I happened to meet, and the two people suddenly greeted each other like old friends, added WeChat, and made an appointment to drink coffee, eat, and watch movies together.
That's when I learned that he always remembered my license plate number, and I always remembered how he walked with a sprained foot.
After a long time, he also resigned and went to Nanjing to start a business with friends.
One day, suddenly he said to me:
"In the elevator 10 years ago, if I could take the initiative to ask you to watch a movie, maybe the trajectory of my life would have changed."
At that time, he was preparing to get married.
"Actually, I think the same thing, if only I could take the initiative."
The warmth that passes by
Fan @ Wu Jie
I always remember that stranger 10 years ago.
That year, I took my son to climb the mountain, and when I came down, it was almost dark.
When reversing, because the road was too narrow, I spent half a day trying to move the car and could not move, and when I was worried, a white off-road vehicle in front of me stopped, and the owner said to me: "I will come." ”
At this time, it was completely dark, I began to feel uneasy, he moved the car, deliberately drove his car to the open space next to him, signaled me to go to the front, and I gradually relaxed my mind.
I drove very slowly, and the white buggy followed unhurriedly behind me, all the way to 20 kilometers, until the downtown area, and he didn't leave.
After 10 years, I've always wanted to say "thank you" to him:
"Thank you for letting the helpless me walk a path of great peace of mind."
Source: Fan @ Wu Jie
Fan @ Yiwen
On March 2 this year, I learned a shocking news -
An elder of the unit died.
In 2004, when I first arrived at the unit, my uncle took great care of me and treated me like a child of his own family, because we had the same surname, and my colleagues joked that I was his daughter.
At lunchtime, he always happily brought me rice: fried a fish with fish, and he would pick the largest piece for me; bake an quiche, and also break a large piece and put it in my bowl.
He also became my own driver and personal bodyguard, riding my motorcycle to work every day.
In 2008, my husband was in a car accident, and when my uncle found out, he asked me worriedly: "Do you need money?" I have", and he also went to the hospital with the eldest wife to visit.
Now that you are gone, "I will remember your kindness to me for the rest of my life." ”
"If we live forever in the regrets of the past, there will be new regrets."
One point you have to admit is:
As long as there is a reunion in life, there will be a parting.
The best way to make up for regrets is to live your life well in the moment.
So let go of regrets.
But even if you can't put it down, I hope you can continue to live your life with regrets.